I'm gonna start--
Talk about it.
--from the perspective of the woman.
Shareese-- and I say--
I'm going to say, both of them were wrong.
It was-- we have never seen anything like that
on "Ready to Love," ever.
Can we just say that?
I'm like-- this is never in--
Or on "Camp Runway."
In the history of "Ready to Love,"
we've never seen a blow up like that between two people who
aren't even in a relationship.
Like there have been blow ups between girls,
going back and forth over a guy.
But for a male and female who are
not even dating to have that type of rapport back and forth.
It was just-- it was very shocking.
I will say from a female's perspective,
Shareese pokes the bear.
I agree.
Like she is-- she is very--
she comes into situations already on the defense
from the time that she was challenging
the ladies about why they were serving Randall.
He ain't a king.
Why are you guys-- like, it's constantly defensive.
And so we later heard from Kadian that 'Zo overheard her
say, we're gonna barbecue him.
And then she starts coming at him, are you--
you know, what's going on with your connections?
Are you-- - What's your plan?
-doing something with us?
Like, it's just-- it's just hitting him over the head
over and over again.
Now, 'Zo, he was very-- he held back a lot.
You know, right?
We didn't get a chance to really get to know him.
I don't feel like we ever got a chance to really get to know
'Zo because he was not--
and he was challenged before, in the last episode,
to kind of let down his guard.
And he said he was gonna do that.
But he did-- and maybe he let it down
and it caused him to be too-- it was too raw.
It's too-- it's too emotional.
He's too defensive.
And he was extremely disrespectful.
But I want to say, just as a woman, it was not all him.
And the fact that afterwards they were talking,
and Shareese is like, this man is yelling at me with a pool
stick in my face.
No, baby girl.
No, ma'am.
And as women, we have to hold other women accountable.
So I appreciate Kadian saying, you cannot just throw
something-- throw gasoline out there
and then hide your hands and say, you know,
he tried to attack me.
He did not.
You were going back and forth.
You pushed and pushed and pushed.
And then when he gave the response that you probably
knew he was going to do, because you said,
we're gonna barbecue him.
So you were planning to do something-- like,
what is that about?
And that's what I don't understand about Shareese.
She came on this show.
But she has a lot of resentment towards men.
I don't know where it comes from.
I'm sure we'll learn later.
Because even though she's constantly in the bottom,
she manages to stick around.
But there's something in her that
is attacking, for her to say that about Randall initially.
We see her irritated with even Devin
when he didn't bring anything to the house.
Her response to everything is extremely defensive.
And she also, even how she was talking about the young lady
that left early on--
Dominika.
Yes.
Just it's constant.
And it's her starting it.
And then also going back to that, oh, I'm a female,
you're not supposed to talk back to me.
So basically, she felt like she should have been able to poke
and prod 'Zo, and he was not supposed to respond, which
a mature man probably wouldn't.
But her behavior is unacceptable.
And to me, that should have been definitely
brought up a little bit more.
We don't know what the entire conversation was.
But I did like the fact that Tommy held her accountable
and said, let's just get this straight,
I'm the only one that barbecues anyone.
That's not the energy.
It's not your job to police what's going on
and to try to create this environment
where we are ganging up and bullying certain cast members.
That's not cool at all.
So I just-- I definitely want to hear what you have
to say from 'Zo perspective.
He was wrong.
But I'm saying, as a woman, Shareese, she created that.
She created that situation.
And it's unfortunate that she would go into the ladies'
lounge and then say, oh, well, he's yelling
at me with a pool stick.
They were playing pool.
He was never-- at least from what we saw,
he was never coming at her or trying to attack her.
He really was just saying, I'm not interested in you,
and if a man is not-- if a man is interested in you,
he will let you know.
The fact that he had not let her know.
He was not moving in that direction.
And she kept poking and kept prodding.
She's a problem.
Shareese is a problem.
Yeah, I definitely agree with you.
And that scene was epic.
First and foremost, I want to say,
watching 'Zo in that particular episode,
you're absolutely right.
Both of them are to blame.
And one's poking the bear.
And one has become the bear and overreact in that situation.
I would say that first and foremost, 'Zo had
an issue first and foremost.
The competitiveness was too much.
When you're around women, this is not what we do.
Around men, fantastic, you do that.
That can still rile up some men as well, but, cool.
Right? But you did that around women.
And the only person who was responding in kind was Jamala.
The only person who was kind of giving it
a little bit of pushback a little bit
was Jamala, because she's also competitive when it comes
to racing and stuff like that.
But he was doing way too much.
He was overbearing.
And it was like, you came on 10 that day.
What's going on?
What was going on with you that day
that you're so hyped up that you want to beat the ladies?
And listen, when it comes to like go-karting, of course,
it can get rough.
It can get tumbly.
That bump that he did on Tranika, right, the awareness
to even remember that--
your brain is not even thinking that, hold on a minute,
girl's got-- her arm is actually hurt, like beforehand.
I bumped her.
OK, she was a bit excited.
Let me go and just say, Tranika, my bad.
I'm so sorry.
You know what, I bumped into you, duh, duh, duh.
The fact that he didn't even have that awareness to even do
that tells me that you're not very conscious of your behavior
when you get into that space.
That, for me, is also problematic as well.
Right?
So I found that to be--
that 'Zo lacks in that awareness piece there.
Then the argument actually happens with Shareese.
Absolutely right, Shareese is poking the bear.
She says the whole comment, throwing stones
and kind of hiding their hand.
And when they went into that room, she was really prodding.
Because she was like, you know, so what's your plan?
Shareese, why do you keep asking people what their plan
is when they're at the bottom?
You need to focus on you, because you're in the bottom.
You gonna be-- you might be in a bottom again.
Relax. Chill.
You know what I mean?
You've been in the bottom once or twice now.
So relax. Just chill.
So why are you so-- so why are you
so intent on trying to give other people tips when
you are in the bottom thrice.
You know what I mean?
Maybe you should focus on your connections.
But she does that to prod the bear.
And I'm gonna be very honest with you, Shareese, I see you.
And I'll tell you why I see you.
She knows exactly who to do this to, right.
She's done it to Mike.
She's done it to 'Zo.
I'm sure she'll probably do it to one more person, Justice
probably, if she gets a chance to.
And I'll tell you why.
I feel like Shareese is used to dysfunction.
Whatever happened in her youth, she's
used to dysfunction because she creates dysfunction.
Like if you notice that with LJ, she hasn't done that.
Sampson, she hasn't done that. Do you know why?
Because they don't respond in that way.
Sampson's not about to give you that response.
LJ's not about to give you that response.
They have a more passive energy.
She has antagonistic fights with the likes of 'Zo, Mike.
I'm sure probably Justice will probably
come later on if they have enough time in that space,
right.
And it's because they carry a certain energy where--
when the masculine meets the masculine,
this is what happens.
You know what I mean?
And I feel like, with Shareese, she carries a lot
of masculine energy to protect.
And when I say masculine--
let me reinterpret it--
protection energy.
Like when people have gone through a very hard life
and gone through various situations,
they put up a very strong guard.
But then the fact that you keep putting yourself in situations
where you're consistently arguing
and fighting with people is where it comes in.
Like how she did Shakyra, it was a quick dismissal.
Shakyra, go away.
I'm talking.
But then with Kayla, it was a back and forth with Kayla,
because Kayla also carries-- says I don't mind
going back and forth for you.
She likes the argument and the fight.
It's familiar.
It's safety for her to be in that place.
And that's what told me, you like dysfunction because you've
been in dysfunction.
You've grown around dysfunction for too long.
It's become normal.
So now you challenge-- because she did
the exact same thing with Mike.
She poked the bear and then put her hands back.
And then I must say this term.
We have this term in UK which is this-- she's treacherous
in the [NON-ENGLISH].
Treacherous in the [NON-ENGLISH]..
It means that person in the household, they're dangerous.
And I honestly-- I'm gonna say this.
Men need to be very careful of Shareese, very careful.
You'll catch a case if you play around with her too much.
Because somebody who goes both backs of you,
goes back and forth with you, fine.
But somebody who throws stones and hides their hand
is a manipulative person.
And they are willing to sell you down the stream and go,
I don't know what happened.
That's why the pool cue situation was a problem for me.
She's actually right. 'Zo was way too far gone,
like the shouting, the pointing.
The pool cue was kind of close. You need to kind of chill.
I mean, it wasn't really in her face.
But you need to chill a little bit.
But the fact that she went in there
and is trying to cry in front of LJ, like oh, my, God.
Oh, I need to-- It was a Karen moment.
And I said, you're dangerous.
You're the kind of person that gets somebody arrested
because you decide to tell a story
in a particular way that hides all the other information.
That's a very dangerous person.
And so that's why when Kadian came out at the end
and said, how are you gonna tell half the story?
Like, you know what happened.
You said what you said.
She initially started off by saying, oh,
I don't know why he went off like that.
Hold on.
You said, you were gonna barbecue him.
How did you forget that?
And we've seen this before a few episodes back with Randall.
Oh, I didn't say you're not a king.
I didn't say that. No, yes, you did.
Because Randall said it, and then Randall
called her out again.
That lying, manipulation, throwing stones, and hiding
hands, you are now-- this is no longer a person that I
think anybody should be dating.
Like, if this was a man, I'd be like, y'all need
to get him out of there.
I think you need to stay away from Shareese, personally.
I know it's a very strong opinion.
But we're seeing behaviors that are very, very
dangerous, especially for a Black man
in this particular environment.
One wrong word, one wrong move, one wrong environment,
you're getting taken out.
So you can't play this game with her.
I'll be honest with you, yeah.
I don't like that.
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