Hey guys and welcome back to Melissa Talks. I'm going to go over 10 things that if you are dating
an ENTP you should keep in mind. Or if you aren't dating the ENTP, but you want to date an ENTP,
you should probably know this beforehand. Because we're pretty much the same across the board. So
let's get into those 10 things. First off, why do you want to date an ENTP? You need to ask yourself
why are you seeking that exact personality type to date. Are you prepared to date an ENTP?
Good luck. Now remember ENTPs don't have a type, but these are 10 things like tips and tricks that
you should keep in mind if you want to date an ENTP, or if you're already dating an ENTP,
and if you are already dating an ENTP you probably can agree with these 10 things that you should do.
Also these are not in order. These are not by ranking. I'm literally just going to be talking
about 10 different things and this is just how I listed them on my piece of paper. Okay the
first thing I want to talk about is communication. Communication is key to an ENTP. We love to talk. We
like to discuss things. We want to interact with you. Therefore use your words. ENTPs can talk to
a wall. So if we are not talking to you, I kind of just have to let you know that we probably don't
like you, because if we are interested in you we will talk your ears off. We want to know everything
about you. We will be in constant contact with you. The second thing to keep in mind is to be
authentically yourself. We are very talented with connecting the dots and spotting inconsistencies.
So if you all of a sudden change your dialogue or change something that's pretty substantial that
shouldn't be changed overnight about you or if you are in fact lying to us, we're going to catch
on very quick and that's not going to lead to a successful dynamic or relationship. We're going
to call you out on such inconsistencies and if you don't have a well enough argument to explain why
you did that, it's not going to work. We will just walk away. The third thing to consider is you have
to have very thick skin. If you're full of emotions and cannot contain your emotions or control your
emotions, it's probably not going to work out dating an ENTP. We don't necessarily consider
emotions when we communicate. It's not the fact that we don't understand why you reacted a certain
way. It's the fact that we think and communicate very logically. The fourth thing is a good debate
is a turn on to us. So if you have a different point of view on something, or you have a different
way of thinking, or you just have something different to interject within the discussion
at hand, do it. Because we will love that. As soon as you bring in that new discussion or new idea
our focus is going to be completely on you. We're all of a sudden going to fixate on you and try to
poke and prod you to understand why you think that way or why you have a different point of
view. That is going to grasp our full attention, so do not be afraid to have a different point of view.
Don't be afraid to debate with an ENTP. Do it. You won't regret it. The fifth one, is kind of picky
backing off of the fourth one, but if you are in a discussion with an ENTP or we're getting to know
you and you do kind of agree with everything we're saying, don't simply just agree and nod your head
and say yeah you're right. Kind of expand on the topic that we were talking about. Even if you're
100 in agreement, try to bring in more context or more information into that topic because maybe
we haven't considered all sides. And even though you agree with us, you can expand and enlighten us
even more on that topic. We love that, so don't be shy. Debate, discuss, and dissect. The sixth thing is
you need to have patience if you're going to be talking and dating to an ENTP because sometimes
it takes us a while to get to the point of what we're trying to say. We kind of go off on a lot of
tangents. Our minds are connecting all of the dots. Our thoughts are kind of scattered, so sometimes
it takes us time to get to the point we're trying to get across to you. So please have patience while
we're talking to you. I know you're probably like, come on just get to the point, we will get there.
I promise you. So just have patience, hear us out, be considerate, we will appreciate that, and thank you
later. So if the relationship is getting a little stagnant, you kind of feel like we're drifting away,
or maybe not as excited or invested in the relationship. Like I said before, a way to
spark our interest once again is to bring in new ideas or topics into the dinner table. We find your
mind sexy. We want to learn. So if you can teach us something you have our full undivided attention
and that will spark even more interest into you. The eighth thing to consider is please have your
own life. ENTPs are extremely independent. We really value our alone time even though we're extroverted
we're pretty much 50 50 on introvert versus extrovert, so we need a decent amount of time alone.
Give us our privacy, give us our alone time, we will do it the same for you, we're not going to smother
you, and we don't want to be smothered either. Please be confident that just because we're not
hanging out with you all the time or talking to you all the time, that doesn't mean we don't still
like you. We just really value independence. So the next thing I want to talk about is,
if you're already dating an ENTP or if you're currently dating, and maybe you have your first
argument or fight, it gets super emotional and that ENTP gets upset. You guys had your first fight,
it started with a discussion, it ended up with an argument, and all of a sudden
your ENTP is in an emotional state, the biggest tip and trick I can give you, is to leave them
alone. They need to find a space where they can completely decompress. They need to be alone.
And they will probably think through the whole entire discussion and if they were wrong they will
come to that conclusion. We do not hold grudges. ENTPs can admit fault. We will state when we were
in the wrong. Let us be alone. Let us figure out, okay we did cross a line, okay we did go too far,
okay we did hurt your feelings, you in turn hurt ours, was it justified, X Y Z. I don't know. You all
have been in relationships right? Whether it's your family or friends, but like when feelings are
involved it's just like, oh it's exhausting right. We don't naturally want to hurt one another, so we
will apologize when we have gone too far. But we need to decompress and come to those conclusions
beforehand. If you're constantly in our face and you're constantly poking and prodding us it's not
going to end well with you. We are very vicious with our words. Our words cut deeper than any
blade could possibly cut. We are very ruthless. So please, we don't want to hurt you. If we are
an emotional state, please for the well-being of the future relationship, don't chase that ENTP.
Let them be alone. Let them decompress. I promise you they will figure out what happened and what went
wrong and then it will be resolved. So please have confidence in your ENTP. The tenth thing
and i've kind of discussed this all throughout, but we are sapio sexual individuals. Your brain is
absolutely hands down, without a doubt, the sexiest thing to us. We crave information. We are internally
motivated to learn. So if you are smart, if you're constantly studying, if you're constantly learning
new skills and trades, we will never tire of you. We don't chase bodies. We chase brains. We won't leave
someone who's able to constantly stimulate our brain. So if you want to turn on your ENTP, start
a discussion, and start a debate. You will have our undivided attention and it's gonna end very well.
ENTPs do you guys agree with this? I hope you guys enjoyed this video. I'll be talking to you
guys soon. Don't forget to like and subscribe. I really do appreciate it. Alright. Bye guys.