Did you know that there is one, sexy trait that inspires deep love and admiration with
a man that lasts forever?
In fact, if you’ve ever wondered how to make him addicted to you… in the best way
possible… then this is it!
Now hold your horses -- this isn’t about anything directly or obviously sexy… and
this is why it’s so darn powerful that every woman knows this hidden and extremely powerful
attraction secret.
You see what men find attractive in women isn’t about how sexy you look in your lingerie,
or how often you work out in the gym, or how cute you look wearing his shirt.
Sure, that helps, though he’s not going to commit to you because of these factors
alone.
This is why it’s so important you stay with me as I define what guys like and need to
experience with a woman to devote themselves completely to her.
Hi, I’m Nаdinе Piаt, a dating and lasting attraction coach for smart savvy women and
the founder of Healthy You Hеаlthу Lоvе.
I’m also the creator of 4 world leading love and relationship programs, including;
Unlock His Heart and Never Lose Him.
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Now...
I’m going to cut to the chase on today’s topic…
The top most attractive trait that a man needs to love you forever is humility.
But the problem is, most women and also men don’t consciously link humility to sexiness.
In fact, most clients I’ve worked with at first don’t really know what humility is
and why it’s the very ingredient that allows for a true emotional and physical bonding?
So what is humility?
Well, humility is to act without pride or to face your pride and change your course
of action.
Humility is about being acutely aware that we are all limited and fallible human beings.
Humility is getting off your high horse and taking a look at yourself from a Bird's Eye
view and acknowledging that sometimes we can be overly sensitive, indifferent, irritable,
quick to judge, emotional and perhaps unreasonable at times… and that’s the short list.
haha
And yet, humility is not self-deprecation, it’s not taking the blame for things that
you did not do, nor is it allowing yourself to be criticized or controlled, or allowing
others to wrong you or put you down because they feed off shaming and blaming you.
To paint a clearer picture here is an example of what humility is…
Imagine you’re cooking dinner with your partner, music is playing, and you’re having
a good laugh together.
You’re teasing each other in a cute kind of way, BUT then you say something a little
sarcastic and negative to your boyfriend.
As soon as the words leave you mouth you realise that what you said was unkind.
This is not the first time you’ve done this, and like each other time, you notice the expression
on his face change, his body withdraw…. and you know your words didn’t land very
well.
If you’re stuck in a mindset of being right, or while you believe that sarcasm is funny
and words can never hurt, which is not true, they do hurt, you won’t feel the need to
apologise and show some humility, you will believe that your boyfriend is too sensitive
and needs to get over it.
Or maybe you have some unresolved issues in the relationship and these little digs are
your way of hurting him.
If this sounds anything like you then I have something to help you with this today, a free
gift called WordPoison - 16 words and phrases that are an instant turn off to a man and
will block desire… so go grab it now!
The link to Wordpoison is in the description below.
So what are the reasons why someone would put someone down or be unkind, well it can
stem from a multitude of reasons.
Some people like to create distance because they actually fear intimacy, some people are
as I mentioned resentful about unresolved issues and instead of talking about these
things, they lash out in small or big ways, while others associate drama with love and
they believe they need drama to feel connected...
AND This is why humility is so attractive because it takes real courage to admit that
we’re not perfect, to admit we have fears, and it takes even more courage to admit why
we do what we do so that we can change what we do.
A relationship does not need to be perfect to be healthy and connected, though it does
require two people to face and heal their internal pain and struggle so that they can
wholeheartedly love themselves and another…
Have you ever had a man admit to you his shortcomings or voluntarily apologise to you for his actions?
It’s pretty damn special when they do...and then... when they follow that up with changing
their behaviour it reveals strength of character and a commitment to themselves and the relationship…
to you.
There’s no better aphrodisiac than; truth, mindfulness and a willingness to change…
a willingness to face your “stuff” - and I can assure you, you’ve got stuff, I’ve
got stuff, and so will your current man or future man.
Why?
Because we’re human… and it’s okay.
And yet, some people really aren’t interested in looking at their “stuff” it terrifies
them.
So if you want to have the most beautiful, heart warming and passionate relationship
and you want to make him addicted to you - then don’t be afraid to face your so called flaws
and love blocking actions…
Humility is about honouring yourself, loving yourself and honouring and loving your partner…
it’s all about the big picture of your life.
Of course you need to be with a man who can do the same in return because that’s when
things really get hot and steamy.
When we’re no longer hiding, we’re able to truly experience the depths of emotional
and physical intimacy - without humility and vulnerability this level of lasting passion
is impossible.
In fact in my program Never Lose Him I share a few very specific tips to help you with
this.
I have a whole section about humility and ways to rise above your pain and fears that
inspires a man to completely and easily open up to you.
I think you’ll also love the EBE - the emotional barrier eliminator technique - now this is
a skill every woman needs to know.
Check out Never Lose him in the link below.
So the bottom line here is - without humility, we’ll stay rigid, opinionated, disconnected
from true love, narrow minded and stuck revisiting old patterns that no longer serve us or a
relationship… and that ain’t sexy!
So it’s time to get down and dirty and BOND with your man with a big healthy dose of mutual
humility!
If you’re single then start honing this skill with your friends, colleagues and family…
all relationships need humble souls to stay strong.
There you have it the super sexy traits men find attractive in women.and make him addicted
to you
So tell me--what can you do today to be more humble?
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It’s been a great honour to have you here with me, I encourage you to choose to love
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