Tripp here with TrippAdvice.com, teaching you steps on how to get the girl while still
being your genuine self.
Today, we're talking about how to get your ex girlfriend back.
If you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back, I can give you some tips right now that
will help you with this process.
Assuming that she broke up with you, let me give you some action steps that you can take
to dramatically increase the chances that she will come running back to you.
If she doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be.
Fear not, I have a video coming soon on how to get over your ex.
I know this is an emotional time for you.
When people are in heavy state of distress, it's difficult to think rational and logical.
I urge you to try and think as rational as possible, or else you might make a big mistake
and send her running for the hills.
An example of thinking irrationally or emotionally will be texting her 15 times in one day, telling
her how much you miss her and want her back.
This is a big mistake, which leads me to step number one.
Step number one, do not plead with them, guilt them, shower them with love or buy them stuff.
These again are all turn offs and won't suddenly make your girl come back.
Plus, you wouldn't want a girl back by making her feel better just giving her stuff.
That's not creating a real emotional connection.
It's temporary and superficial.
Step number two, do not over call or text them once you get broken up with.
This will push them away and make you seem desperate.
Women are not attracted to desperate men.
It's a big turnoff.
Why?
Because it shows weakness.
She wants someone who is strong.
Instead, you want to wait on this move so she can start to miss you a little bit and
feel what it's like without you in her life.
Also, make it possible to not see her, so try to avoid her whenever you can.
Give her space in every way.
What's important about this is that when you give yourself space, you may even think twice
about wanting to start this relationship back up again.
Maybe it's not good for you . I would wait anywhere from 30 to 60 days to contact her.
If she contacts you, tell her you need some space.
During this time, I don't want you to sit at home.
Instead, go out, be with friends, make sure you're not alone and do anything you can to
keep your mind off of her.
Step number three, work on yourself.
This is the most important tip I can give you.
Think about what it was that major girlfriend breakup with you.
Is there something that you can change?
Are there any ways for you to be a better person?
Either way, you want to work on some personal development changes as well, because the next
time you see her, it's going to be attractive to her to see the new and improved you.
Get some clothes, get to the gym, start up some new hobbies, make some changes.
Step number four, after you've created some changes, and it's been about 30 to 60 days,
you're going to want to text her, say something very casual and non confrontational.
Like, I was doing blank and that made me think of you.
Wait for her text back and do not text her again until she does.
This is very important, because again, you don't want to come off needy.
Step number five, after you text back and forth, wait 3 to 5 days and then give her
a call.
This call is to eventually set up a meeting, not a date, but a meeting with her.
You can call her up, ask her what she's been up to.
Now that you guys have reestablished a connection via text, make sure on the phone you sound
happy, energetic, you sound positive.
If you don't do this, then you may come off as depressed or needy, which will not up her
spirits to be talking to you on the phone.
At a high point or an exciting point on catching up, tell her that you guys should hang out
sometime and get coffee, not a date.
Make it sound very casual and don't use the word date.
If she asks if it's a date, say no.
You guys are just going to hang out.
Step number six, on a coffee get together, make sure you're still cheerful, you're energetic
and you're dressed well.
You want to show off your best self or the cologne that she always liked.
Be positive.
Make sure to bring up some of the great things changes you've made.
Try and apologize for any negative things that you've done in the past relationship.
But don't make it a focal point of the meeting.
You will also want to bring up some of the past positive memories and experiences that
you two shared.
Get her thinking about how great you two are at one point.
Bring these up casually as well.
Remember, the key here again, is not to appear needy.
Finally, at this point, you can bring up the idea of what would it be like if you guys
got back together again.
Step number seven, she may not like this idea, and if that's the case, she's truly not interested
in being back together with you.
But if she entertain the thought, you two can talk about what that would be like, and
the changes that would occur in the new relationship if you did.
Remember, you don't need her to have an amazing life.
There are other women out there.
If this doesn't work out, start working on yourself to attract higher quality girls in
your life.
I got plenty of videos on this channel to help you do so.
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I'll see you on the next video.
Good luck.