- [Voiceover] Hey, Psych2goers.
Do you know your love style?
Love is an intense feeling of affection.
It can be quite complex
as you may love certain people and things differently.
As that definition can be quite ambiguous,
there are further love classifications you may have,
also known as love styles.
Take the quiz to find out your love style.
There'll be 10 questions.
Record the letter you pick every time.
If you can't pick between two answers,
choose which resonates with you the most.
Let's begin.
Number one.
After a long day, what's one thing you'd love to do the most
to occupy your time?
A. Have a nice dinner with your significant other.
B. Crash at a friend's house,
and spend hours bending TV shows.
C. Go on a dating app and look for someone
to spend the night with.
D. Participate in self-care and enjoy hobbies in solitude.
Number two.
You spot an old acquaintance that had a crush on you before.
You...
A. Try to make a move on them.
B. Be friendly with them just like old times.
C. Joke around and poke light fun around them.
Or D. Act like your normal self.
Number three.
At a party, you're most looking forward to...
A. Talk to the most attractive person in the room.
B. Stick around with people you know,
and have a fun time with the gang.
C. Flirt and banter with strangers.
Or D. Have a good time regardless of who I'm with.
Number four.
At school, you're most known for being...
A. An outspoken classmate.
B. The loyal friend.
C. The class clown.
Or D. The most organized.
Number five.
How do you comfort a friend
when they break up with their partner?
A. Tell them their ex was a good for nothing anyway.
B. Talk to them with empathy and kindness,
they're at a tough spot.
C. Joke around and invite them out
for a friendly night out.
Or D. Give them space,
but make sure to check up on them from time to time.
Number six.
When your friend or partner has done something wrong to you,
what do you usually do?
A. I'd be fuming.
B. I'll give them a second chance.
Or C. I'd forget about it.
Or D. My needs go first.
I'll reconsider whether they're still good for my life
or not.
Number seven.
What do you look for in a partner?
A. Someone who's sexually attractive.
B. Someone who can also be my best friend.
C. Someone who knows how to lighten the mood.
Or D. A loyal and sincere partner.
Number eight.
When do you think is the right time to kiss someone?
A. As soon as the spark appears, even it's the first date.
B. After we get to know each other more.
C. When they wanna kiss me too.
Or D. When the time feels right.
Number nine.
What's your idea of a healthy relationship?
A. Physical intimacy.
B. After some time,
they'll be the person I share all my secrets with.
C. That we can joke around and flirt
while still remaining committed.
Or D. We share the same values,
and are committed to each other.
Number 10.
How would you describe your love style?
A. Passionate and intense.
B. I like to take things slow,
and embrace the moments spent together.
C. I'd go with the flow,
as long as we're both enjoying ourselves.
Or D. I make sure I'm ready first,
and then I'll open up to others.
Okay, time for results.
All tallied up?
Here are your love styles
according to the letter that appears the most.
Eros, sexual passion.
If A appears the most, your dominant love style is Eros.
This type of love represents sexual passion and desire.
You are the hopeless romantic type.
Quite turbulent at times, but a true passionate lover.
People would regard you as a spirited and energetic type.
And you're known to be someone
who's not afraid to speak their mind.
Philia, deep, loyal friendship.
If B appears the most, you're a philia lover.
This type of love represents friendship
and close companionship.
You value, honesty, loyalty and commitment,
and you expect your partner to share the same values too.
People would describe you as someone
who will defend your friends and lovers till the very end.
You're also known to be cheerful, easy-going and empathic.
Ludus, flirty, playful love.
If C appears the most, you are an idealistic ludus lover.
This type of love represents playfulness
and flirtatiousness.
People may describe you as the life of the party at times,
there are no dull moments when you're around.
You like being adventurous in your approaches,
and you're known to be a spontaneous person
who can be talking with a stranger one minute
and dancing with them the next.
Philautia, self-compassion.
If your most common letter is D,
your most dominant love style is a philautia type of love.
You are self-compassionate
and have a strong internal compass.
Your strong ability to be in tune
with your values and morals makes you naturally attractive
to people who share similar values,
and you are considered to be thoughtful,
kind and considerate,
which your partner loves about you.
What love style did you get?
Have we missed anything?
If your results were accurate,
let us know in the comments below.
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