Should you stay single?
I know crazy question for me
the girl who's all about
settling down without settling.
Well, that's the key isn't it?
Men who decide to go their own way
to bow out from dating women all together,
I feel for these guys.
I get hundreds of comments
are brokenhearted.
Maybe they've had a really bad relationship with a woman
and gone through a really crappy divorce.
Maybe they've just been rejected
by a lot of really nasty women who are mean
and act like entitled princesses.
Maybe they went out with a girl
who cheated on him with their best friend,
that sucks.
No wonder they feel the way they feel
maybe that's you.
I hate it when I see good guys
get their feelings toyed with
by some psycho chick.
In fact, it was one of my main motivations
for switching over from women
to men in my YouTube channel.
I wanted to help men stop
walking into relationships with toxic women.
Women who will tear your heart out
and then just drag you along
and play with your feelings.
Have you had this experience?
If you have, share your stories
there are red flags that others can learn from.
Dating these crazy abusive women
can turn you into a psychological wreck
and many men even have their lives destroyed
by their wives leaving them and
going after them for everything they've got
and then child support
and then they don't even get to see
their kids when they want to.
It disgusts me
to see some women acting like this
and it's no wonder there are so many men
who are going their own way.
However, there are other women
there are keepers out there,
they are hard to find,
they are unicorns but they do exist.
The thing is
is there's a lot of competition for them
and you're not going to find them
at the bars or clubs.
And they're not going to look like a show pony
with big fake fingernails,
lots of makeup, hair to the nines,
their designer purse.
Those are high maintenance girls
not high value.
But you might be surprised
to discover that not all women
act this way and there are a lot of women
I know many of them
who are very disapproving
of women who do act this way.
They give a bad name to all women
and that makes it difficult for the good ones
to be seen for who they are
and not painted with the same brush
as all those other entitled princesses.
So, I urge you if you are
still on the fence about whether or not
you want to go for a woman if you want to
eventually have
a relationship with a woman.
If you want to find a keeper and keep her
then you've got to avoid
the black and white thinking.
There are women who are brats
and the worst part
here's the worst part,
you're not teaching them a lesson,
you're not teaching the brats a lesson.
They win
because they're still going to get some action
by the desperate beta men
who are tripping all over themselves to get to them.
So, the only people who lose
are the good ones,
the good women out there,
the good men out there.
And if you've been screwed over
by one of the bad ones
and you bow out entirely, she wins.
She knows you're off the market because you
are bitter towards all women.
Does she care?
Not really other than
she's like well, he deserved it
or whatever she might be thinking.
The best revenge is a happy life.
Seriously, whether you're single
if you choose to stay single
or find a good one,
but don't let some skank who treated you poorly
cause you to miss out
on true happiness if you do want a relationship.
Don't serve a lifetime
of loneliness and misery
because of what some woman did to you in the past.
Do you really want to live the rest of your life
without that amazing intimacy,
connection, and romance
a great partner can give you
all because you make the innocent mistake
of falling for some nasty female?
There are good women out there
looking for a good man like you.
Their problem is
a lot of men who've been hurt
don't feel they deserve
deep down inside not on the outside,
but on the inside they don't feel like
they deserve a high value woman.
They ignored the red flags
in that relationship.
Why did you ignore the red flags?
The only time we ignore
being treated really poorly
is if we don't think we can do better.
But if you think all women are bad,
if you paint them all with the same brush
then you're going to be aloof or suspicious
of all women including the good ones
who give you attention
or who want your attention.
And then as you probably know
you won't strike up conversations
because there's too much of a risk.
But I just want you to know
because I get success stories
and I've been getting success stories
for years now and they're still together
and happy.
That there are some good women out there
and I have faith
that you can find the right one for you.
So, hang in there
not from a rafter.
Thanks for being here, God bless.
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