17 Things Only People With An Alpha Personality Do
Alpha, beta and omega personalities are usually reserved for the study of animals.
Among animals, the alpha individual is the leader of the group.
Being the alpha gives them certain benefits like preferential access to food and mates.
They’re usually the strongest and most aggressive in the group.
Does this sound like you?
Maybe you'd like to change your personality, become more confident and learn how to be
an alpha male or an alpha female?
Well, this video is for you.
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But Bestie, we hear you cry, aren't alpha and beta just for animals?
How can a person like me become an alpha male or an alpha female if, well, I'm a person?
Through those thoughts in the bin, chum.
Those are beta thoughts.
Recently, there’s been a movement around alternative ways to describe personality types.
This includes using the “alpha type” to talk about people with dominant personalities.
Alpha people can be said to be the same as people with a Type A personality.
Those who fall under this classification are ambitious, outgoing, and aggressive (just
like an Alpha animal).
So, if you’re wondering whether you’re an alpha personality or not, this list should
help you.
If you want to step up your game, get confident and learn how to be the alpha male or alpha
female you deserve to be, then this list is for you.
Here are some things only people with an alpha personality do:
1.
Speak Your Mind.
The first alpha trait we're going to look at is letting people know how you feel.
If you're an alpha, you speak your mind without holding back.
That’s not to say that people with alpha personalities are rude and don’t care about
people’s feelings.
They do!
But they’re not ashamed, to be honest.
Betas hold back and cower in the corner.
2.
You Act Instead Of Talk.
Our second trait on the path of how to be alpha goes back to the old adage: actions
speak louder than words.
As an alpha male or an alpha female, you’re guided by actions, not words.
When you say you’re going to do something, you do it.
Not only that, but you have the self confidence to act on whatever you're doing, no matter
what other people say.
You also expect the same from other people.
And if you're an alpha who acts when they say they will, your actions will give others
the confidence they need to follow through as well.
3.
You’re Hands On.
An alpha personality can be organized and keep a list, but they’d much rather get
up and get it done with.
You won’t find an alpha personality making excuses for not doing something that needs
to be done.
4.
You Like Alone Time.
Your personal time is your chance to unwind and relax, so you make it count.
You also need to be confident when you're alone, to have the self confidence not to
need to be around people all the time.
Meditate, discover new things about yourself and the world, then return to the public a
stronger person.
5.
You’re Not A Pushover.
You’re respectful, but you don’t let other people step all over you.
You’re very good at sensing when someone is about to try to take advantage of you,
so you put a stop to it right away.
Be confident and know that you're your own person.
Don't let anyone tell you what to do, especially if you don't want to do it.
6.
You Have Strong Beliefs.
They can be political, social or philosophical, but there’s a topic you’re very passionate
about.
You stand by your opinion and defend it always.
Have self confidence in the things you believe and don't let anyone bully you into thinking
otherwise.
7.
You're Passionate.
By which we mean you do something you love.
This doesn’t mean that work-wise your life is perfect.
In terms of hobbies, you’re more fulfilled and passionate than anyone you know.
As for if anyone makes fun of your hobbies, make sure that you're confident and most of
all– in the know.
Nothing is more beta than someone who brags or talks about something they know nothing
about.
If you're going to have a hobby, make sure you throw yourself into it.
Passion is not only alpha, but it's also pretty darn sexy as well.
8.
You're Self-Confident.
Also, you don’t pay attention to what people think about you.
Because you’re strong-willed and you know yourself very well, you don’t let other
people’s opinion of you affect you in any way.
As an alpha, you have the self confidence to know their opinions don't matter.
9.
You Are Protective.
Whether it’s of your belongings, your space, or people, you include certain things into
your circle of caring.
Anyone who crosses something or someone that matters to you will have to face the consequences.
10.
You're Considered Bossy.
Or at least people misinterpret your passion for bossiness.
Sometimes, when you’re just trying to do something in the most effective way possible,
people might not see that.
So they label you as bossy.
11.
You’re A Perfectionist.
You don’t do this to annoy others, you simply want to make sure you leave no stones unturned
when performing a task.
You also know that as an alpha, sometimes your opinion might be worth more than the
betas around you.
But remember– a strong leader is someone who doesn't put others down.
Sway opinions with your powerful words, don't dominate people.
12.
You Work Hard.
An alpha is someone who throws themselves into whatever they're doing.
You’re a hard worker (in fact, you're bordering on workaholic).
It’s easy for you to put a lot of work into everything you do.
This means making sacrifices to make sure everything gets done.
13.
You're Courageous.
Keep in mind, to be an alpha you don't have to be fearless.
There's no one on planet earth who is completely without fear or insecurities.
There will always be something that scares us, something we're afraid to lose or something
that we don't want to face.
The alpha is the person that in spite of fear, still takes on whatever task they're asked
to face.
The alpha will be afraid that their dreams aren't going to come true, but will chase
them anyways.
The alpha will be scared that their new venture is going to fail but will try anyway.
Don't be fearless, but don't be afraid of fear.
Embrace it and conquer it.
14.
Controlled Emotions.
Life throws us some curve balls sometimes.
Occasionally, you'll get fired, or dumped or we'll fail miserably at something.
These moments in our lives can affect us pretty harshly, but it's the way that we deal with
them that separates the alphas from the betas.
A beta will lash out emotionally, tear up the world around them and dig themselves a
grave.
The alpha, on the other hand, will simply take a few deep breaths, then calculate their
next move.
15.
Physical Health.
Personality isn't the only thing that makes an alpha, they have to be physically strong
as well.
Not only because this makes you more intimidating, but it makes you feel strong.
If you feel strong on the outside, then there's a good chance you'll feel strong on the inside
as well.
It also shows the people around you that you care about your body and you're not letting
your mind and physicality waste away.
We here at Bestie have a bunch of videos to help you stay in shape, take a look at them
and start on your perfect alpha body!
16.
Know Your Weaknesses.
An alpha isn't good at absolutely everything.
Not knowing your weaknesses sets anyone up for failure, and the alpha knows this.
However, this doesn't mean that the alpha will dwell on their weaknesses either.
They'll discover them, then work to improve themselves.
They also, while enjoying alone time, know the value of the pack.
Others can help you overcome weaknesses, especially if they happen to be strengths for them.
Don't be afraid to seek help, lots of people will be coming to you for aid, but there's
no shame in going to them if you need it.
17.
Strong Posture.
Finally, and this cannot be stressed enough, you need to have a good posture.
Betas are hunched over to hide themselves from the world but alphas need to look and
feel dominant.
Straighten out that back and stand tall– be a beacon of confidence, let everyone see
what an alpha you are.
And that's it!
What did you think of our list?
Did you learn some self confidence?
Did you learn how to be an alpha female or alpha male?
Or were you already an alpha, and did this list just confirm your suspicions?
Tell us in the comments section below what you thought.
No betas allowed.
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