Hey, guys, it's Victor here. And today we decided to ask Chinese girls a really interesting question
Is money important?
That's what we decided to ask them
And before jumping into the video, as always, don't forget to turn on your YouTube subtitles
Let's see what happens
Money or love? Which one is more important?
Is money more important?
Yes
So if a guy doesn't have money, you would not meet him?
I can meet him but...
Money or love? Which one is more important?
I think...
Money is important
What if you don't love a guy, would you marry him?
No, I wouldn't
And, for example, what if he's 30+ or 40+ and very fat
No, no, no, I absolutely wouldn't
But what if a guy doesn't have lots of money but loves you, could you date or marry him?
Even if a guy loves me, it's not a necessary reason for me to be together with him
Because the guy I choose to be together with would love me anyway
If I choose to be together with a guy, the prerequisite of falling in love with him is his behavior, his personality
But money is just a part of it and not the the most important one
Could you like a guy who doesn't have lots of money
In the past I could, now I can't
For example, one guy has lots of money, but you are in love with another one. Who would you choose?
I don't know
So, should he have a house, apartment or a car or something like this?
At least he should have a house or apartment because we can't just rent out some place and live there
Money or love? Which one is more important?
Everything is very important
If a guy has no money, could you date or marry him?
No, I couldn't
In the past I thought that love was more important, but now I think that money is more important
Why do you think so?
Because I grew up and became more realistic
The question I'm going to ask is...
Can you shoot these people...like...like... looking at us and stuff
So, yeah, em...
Money or love? Which one is more important?
Love
Could you possibly choose a guy who has no money, no house or apartment, no car? Could you marry a guy like this?
I have actually chosen a guy like this once
Just a couple words about some of the interviews we are taking right now
It's really important to notice that
It's Harbin, and it's a part of China where in public are... I don't know...
It's just like some people are acting kind of impolite and weird
And so that's why when I try to take some interviews here people are just staring and sometimes they are just...
Right now when we were taking an interview, there were like six people standing and literally staring at us
It made those people, who I took interviews from, feel really uncomfortable
You guys need to understand that those reactions we are getting here during these interviews...
Sometimes girls feel really uncomfortable because people are staring, and not everyone is used to people staring at them
So, they are not me, I am just used to it, but, it's like, this is just my note on it
So, you don't have any requirements for guys, right?
I have
I mean requirements related to economic aspects
Em... he needs to have a house or apartment
So, he needs to have a house or apartment and only then you can marry him, right?
It's not that "only then I can marry him"， it's that in this case we could work hard together
But, first of all, he should have a house or apartment
But I can work hard together with him
So, he should have a house or apartment and only then you will be working hard together with him
When it comes to marriage, do you have any requirements for a guy?
Yes, I have
Which ones?
For example, car, house or apartment...
Yes, he should have a house and a car
When it comes to thinking about marriage...
What is necessary?
One needs to have a car and a house
It's absolutely necessary, right?
But what if a guy doesn't have any of those? You wouldn't marry him, right?
Yes, for sure
Really?
If a guy doesn't have a house or apartment, you wouldn't meet him at all?
I could just be friends with him, but I wouldn't date him
He doesn't have a house or apartment
I might date him but would not marry him
You might date him but you wouldn't marry him, right?
Yes
Oh, that's what you mean
Yes
What requirement do you have?
First of all, when we eat out together it's not only me who always pays for us, in this case it would be very difficult for me
If we split the bill it's a bit uncomfortable, but if we take turns like I pay for you now and you pay for me next time, it's much better
Do you think that a guy should pay all the time, or it should be equal, like I pay for you this time and you pay for me next time?
What would you prefer?
I personally prefer the second one, like, "you invite me this time, I will invite you next time" type of relationships, so it won't be awkward
What should a guy have?
At least he should be saving money and he shouldn't spend all his money at the end of each month
If he is the type of person who spends all of his money at the end of each month, I would not have a sense of safety when being with him
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