There's a big mistake that I see my clients making all the time which causes women to ghost you and
just completely disappear, which is what ghosting is. I want to be able to tell you today what that
is so you don't make this mistake anymore. Because guys will do this. And I'll tell you,
I'll probably even tell you on this video right now, not to do it and you'll probably end up doing
it anyway because it's so hard for guys to refrain from taking this action. Why do you want to
learn this? If you learn this, then you're gonna hopefully prevent any ghosting, any disappearance
and understand what it's going to take to keep a woman around and keep her attracted so that
you can have either the relationship that you want or have multiple dating relationships that
are casual. Before I get any further, let's just jump into it. The mistake that I see guys make is
double texting or texting too much. This has caused women to completely
disappear. I'll have clients who I'm on the phone with and show me their text messages. They'll text
me the text that they're sending to girls. And they'll say I don't get it, what went wrong. And
I said well, you're sitting here all day, talking to them, texting them, texting them paragraphs,
maybe asking them a question, and then not hearing back from the girl, and then texting again. You're
basically just showing the woman that you are not busy, that you can spend all day talking to her
and this is very unattractive. It's causing you to basically look like nothing's going on in your
life and makes you look very needy. Like okay, not only are you not spending time doing other things,
but you're spending time trying to get my attention. That's what the girl is thinking.
That is not a very confident demeanor. Basically neediness is unattractive because it's showing
that you have no other options. I know this sounds funny. I bring this up quite a bit in my videos.
But a woman doesn't want to know that. She wants to know that you are desired by other women.
Maybe that's not something that she's thinking on a conscious level. But she is thinking this
on a deeper level. She is thinking that she wants to be with a guy that is desired by other women.
And when you're needy, it's basically showing that you lack something. There's something in your life
that you're lacking, you're trying to fulfill it by talking to her and this is also showing
no confidence. You got to be careful here when you're over texting a woman, double texting when
she's not answering your questions. You might say well Tripp, what am I supposed to do now?
What if I texted her something and she didn't respond? What am I supposed to do? I'm gonna give
you the answer that you're probably not gonna like, but it's the best answer that I can give
you that's going to get you the most results. And that is you don't text again ever, unless
she text messages you back. A lot of guys might think well, what if she dropped the text? What if
she didn't get the text somehow? What if she was busy and lost track of time or wasn't thinking and
isn't getting a text message from me and thinks I didn't text her? First of all, that never happens.
I've never heard of a text message being dropped. I'm sure that does happen from time to time. But
it is so incredibly rare that a text message is dropped. You don't have to worry about that.
On the other note, in terms of texting a girl and her being too busy or not looking at your
text or whatever. If the girl likes you, she's checking. She's definitely checking.
She'll even maybe go back into the text messages that you're sending her. She will wonder what's
going on. She might even think to go into the text messages to see if you texted her
even if she didn't look earlier and. she thought she missed it. The point is, if she likes you,
she's paying attention to your text messages. And that's what we want. We only want to hang
around women who are that interested that they do go to whatever depth they need to go to,
to then respond to you. I've noticed that women tend to ghost and disappear because they have guys
that they're talking to. Especially if they're a high value woman, they're talking to all kinds
of different guys from online dating, guys that they meet out and about. The ones that are gonna
draw the most attention are the ones that are only texting for a specific reason. And that's to meet
up. Now you might think well don't girls like the attention? Yeah, they like the attention.
But this is where it gets complicated. Even though they like the attention of getting texted,
they don't find themselves attracted to the guys that are giving them all that attention. All they
like is the attention but what they're getting it from the guy, it's showing, you're showing that
you are low value because of the aforementioned reasons. Showing neediness, you're nothing else
going on in your life. This is showing a lack of confidence and a lack of something going on that
you need to be texting her all day. In summary, don't double text, don't be texting her all day
and only text to be able to get her to meet up. Next time you text message a girl, I want you to
just leave it at that. Just completely leave it. Don't ever text her again. Any girl you're texting
right now... if. she hasn't responded, you're done. And the second she does respond, then you
can move to meeting up with her. I have copy and paste examples of text messages that you can use
to get a girl to meet up with you. And they work amazing. They're called my 7 Deadly Text Messages.
It's completely free. I'll put a link down below so you can get that. It's a little video that's
going to be giving you the exact text messages to send to get a girl interested, intrigued
and to meet up with you. Check that out. I hope that helps. And remember... no double texting.