- Why is he not chasing me?
This is such a common question in the 21st century because,
unlike the olden days where it was an expectation
for a man to pursue a woman,
as a sign of respect and worthiness,
there has now men seem to see themselves as the princess
and want the women to fight the dragon
and rescue them from the castle.
What's next?
Do they expect us carry them over from the shoulder
and ride the white horse also?
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Anyway, here are five tips explaining
why is he not chasing me.
Number one, he thinks he is the king.
This sickness or fever is caused by media,
because it is now filled
with lots of YouTube videos telling men not to pursue women.
Example, in London, most of men, if not all,
give women breadcrumbs and expect them to do all the work.
Why?
Well, the male dating coaches and the media in general
are brainwashing men into thinking that they are princesses,
which causes men to dig themselves a hole,
because no high-value woman will ever accept this.
If you are on a dating app
you will probably spot this more easily
because the breadcrumbs usually begin with, "Hi",
or just him liking your pic,
which you are then expected to continue and chase.
Obviously, the high-value response will be minimal like his,
like you gave me hi, you're gonna get a hi back.
But, some women fall for this,
and we go all and start to ask questions.
And before you know it,
she's chasing, arranging the dates, just like he wanted.
And yet at the same time even though he was
the one who wanted it, he gets turned off
because when a woman chases a man,
she doesn't fulfill any of his love needs.
Because she's coming across as a pursuer
and automatically very quickly turns a guy off.
Number two, he doesn't believe in chasing
because he believes men and women are equal.
Meaning the same.
This comment always makes me laugh,
because it is so ridiculous, and let me explain why.
If we are so equal,
then how come God created Eve from Adam's rib.
God created Eve to be his companion so two can become one
by complimenting each other.
If we were the same, Lord would have created another man.
Women give birth to children
and are physically more fragile than men.
Women are emotional and created to be nurturing mothers.
Therefore saying that men and women
are the same, is rubbish.
If this was the case,
we would have had mixed sports teams
and men would be giving birth too.
Two.
He is not that interested.
Like most men on the dating scene,
he's talking to multiple women,
or if he's not messaging you or organizing a date,
then he is simply not that interested.
Do not take this personally, this is normal when dating.
However, if you are in a relationship
and he is behaving this way,
and he is perhaps taking you for granted,
so in this case, you need to look at your own behavior
and see where perhaps you are going wrong.
But for ladies,
if you feel like he's taking you for granted,
please check out my video right here.
Now, I actually got confused
and I'm not sure am I on number three or number four.
Let's assume I'm on number four.
If I'm wrong, I'm sorry.
Number four, his friends are influencing him.
He may like you but his friends are controlling his actions.
This means he is weak minded
as he cannot make decisions himself,
but instead allows himself to be influenced.
Example if actually me tell him similar things
to male dating coaches.
Don't text her,
wait a few days and she'll come running.
And if a woman is not acting desperate by chasing,
they might tell him to dump her as he is the king,
especially if his friends are dating low value woman
that are always pursuing them, taking them on holidays,
or constantly lose emotional control.
If your guy is not that self aware as a man,
so, then he will start to trip or gameplay on you,
so you would chase him too.
If you would like to know the games men play on woman,
check out my video right here.
And now I'm confused,
it's either number four or number five, let's see.
He is turned off.
Perhaps you have said something,
or behaved in a way he found unattractive.
This depends on the situation but
if you have been chasing him, being needy, clingy
and in general over affectionate, then this is too much.
How can he pursue you, if you are the one chasing him?
Then that is the case, men start to chill, get lazy,
and take a woman for granted,
as it's simply too boring for them.
Ladies remember, men have testosterone,
therefore giving him security and certainty
will not fulfill his love needs.
He needs a challenge to stay interested a long-term
and not a woman that puts herself on a plate.
If you would like to know how to stay a challenge for a man,
please watch my video right here.
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