Tripp here from TrippAdvice.com, teaching you how to get the girl while still being
your genuine self.
Today, we're talking about how to not be awkward with girls.
Before we jump into today's video, I want to tell you about something that I think is
going to help you out a lot, especially if you're watching this video.
I have a podcast, it's called How To Talk To Girls.
That podcast has a ton of different episodes that's going to teach you things like how
to keep the conversation going, how to be interesting in conversation, what's the best
way to start a conversation with a girl, whether if you meet her at a bar or during the day.
If you want access to this podcast, it's on iTunes and it's completely free.
All you have to do is go to the description, and there's a link there that’s going to
take you right to the podcast.
You can go there, you can subscribe.
I'm putting out at least a couple of episodes every single week so you can learn how to
be amazing in terms of talking to girls and getting them attracted to you.
How do you not be awkward around girls?
First, let's define what awkward is.
Awkward is any kind of moment that you might have with someone where you say something
that's weird, strange, or out of place.
Maybe you're tripping over your words.
Maybe you're literally tripping while you're talking to someone.
You're fumbling over your words.
You're saying something that creates a very uncomfortable moment.
That would be something that would be considered awkward.
If you aren't awkward in conversation, or you know how to handle awkward situations,
the girl is going to look at you and think that you have a lot of competence because
the interaction is going to go smoothly.
If you continue to be awkward in conversation, you run a high risk of the girl not really
being able to connect with you well.
Therefore, not being able to build up enough attraction with her.
You need to build a very strong connection with the girls you meet if you want to get
their number and take them out on a date.
Let me help you in terms of not being awkward when talking to girls.
Stay tuned to the end because the last tip is the number one thing that's going to help
you beat the biggest enemy in terms of being awkward.
First, if you say something weird, out of place or you create some awkward moments,
I want you to call it out.
That's the first tip.
Call it out.
Call out the elephant in the room.
Just own up to it.
Be honest if something isn't going the way you want in conversation.
If you're real with the way that you feel and the way things are happening conversation,
and you're very honest about it, what's going to happen is it's never going to be awkward
because the awkward people are the ones who are too scared to call it out.
Here's my second tip.
It has to do with body language.
If you've been watching my videos, and you know I pretty much bring up body language
in, I don't know, probably one out of three videos.
There's a good reason for it because body language is very powerful.
It helps you communicate much stronger than what you're actually saying.
If you're awkward in conversation, your body language is going to show that.
I always think about the guy in Superbad, what's his name?
Mclovin.
He's very awkward.
The reason why he's so awkward mainly is because his body language is always so stiff.
He's always like this.
He's always walking around with a stiff and he's like aaa, aaa.
He looks like he's constantly cringing.
One way to not feel awkward in front of people and to prevent other people from feeling awkward
around you, is to be very relaxed in your body language.
Don't keep your shoulders up here.
Keep your shoulders down, stay relaxed, stand very erect and tall.
Look people in the eyes because you're going to create awkward moments if you're not giving
good eye contact.
Make sure you're really relaxed when you talk to people.
Number three, people are judging themselves as much as you're judging yourself.
A lot of people feel awkward because they think that the people they are talking to
are paying attention to their every single move.
They're too much in their heads.
They're not in the moment with the people that they're talking.
Here's the big secret.
Everybody's thinking the same thing.
That's right.
You think you're the only one who is caught up in your head thinking about what other
people are thinking?
The people that you're talking to are also thinking that.
That tip is to remind you that you don't have to always feel like everyone is looking at
you, it’s an awkward moment.
People are also inside their own heads, figuring out whether or not you're judging them.
Everyone's figuring out if people are judging each other.
It's a whole mess.
I want you to go in to the conversations, remembering that not everything is about you.
Here's my last tip.
Keep talking in conversation, even if things get awkward.
Most guys, when things get awkward, they’ll stop talking.
What does that do?
That makes a conversation even more awkward.
What I want you to do is keep talking like that awkward little situation never happened.
Keep the conversation flowing.
I know you're probably thinking, Tripp, that's very contradictory to your first tip that
says, call out the awkward moment.
Here's the difference between both of them.
If an awkward moment happens with a girl, and you can tell that she feels awkward, you
can read that in her body language, or the way that you squint her face, or maybe she
looks confused, that's when you want to call it out.
If something happens that you think is awkward, maybe you're thinking in your head like, wow,
I said that really weird thing, or something really strange happened, but the people you're
talking to aren't reacting, that's the point when you keep on talking on conversation.
Glide past it and keep going.
There you have it.
Those are my four tips that are going to help you avoid awkwardness or deal with awkwardness
when you're talking to a girl that you like.
Let's recap these points really quickly.
Number one, what you want to do is you want to own up to any awkward moments that happen.
If you can tell that awkward moment has been created, and the girl that you're talking
to feels a little bit weird, all you got to do is call it out.
Number two, you got to remember that you got to have relaxed body language so that you
don't make it seem like it's awkward.
Number three, make sure that you remember that no matter what, everyone is always inside
their own heads, thinking about themselves and not everyone is judging you.
You don't have to sit there feeling so awkward, like everyone is looking at you, everyone
is judging you every single second.
The last one, if things get awkward, it's only something that you think is awkward,
you can tell that everyone else that you're talking to, the girl that you're talking to
is fine and pretty normal, then don't call it out.
Keep the conversation pushed forward and continue talking.
If you want more information on how to avoid awkward moments, and how to be really stellar
at conversation, all you gotta do is go into the description below this video.
There's a link that's going to take you to my new podcast called How To Talk To Girls.
Like I said, it's going to help you in every little aspect of conversation, so you can
rock it when you're talking to the girls that you like.
It's going to teach you how to keep the conversation going, so it's very smooth and there's none
of those awkward pauses, awkward moments.
You're gonna know exactly what to say whenever you talk to a girl.
Go ahead and check that out.
As always, I'll see you on the next video.