Greetings guys, gals, and non-binary pals and welcome back to another video!
I hope that you are well and I hope that you are fighting because there is a lot to be fighting for.
As usual, there will be a link in the description to the page on my website with a bunch of petitions, donations, emails to send to MPs, etc, etc.
Now today, before I get started, I just wanted to show off about something really quick.
And that is...
That is my badge here!
Do you see? Do you see it? Do you see it? Do you see it???
Oh!!
Yeah! I was stabbed a couple days ago and I was- I'm so excited. I'm so happy.
I got a text a week ago like "You are eligible for your vaccine! Book it here!" And I almost cried.
I'm so happy that I've been stabbed.
Yeah, I just wanted to share. I got a cute badge for it.
It's a stealth bi flag.
And I love it.
I wear this badge with honour. Every day, I'm going to continue to wear it for the rest of my life.
I love it so much. It is the best thing that I own.
Now for today's video, we are going back to an old classic.
It's one that's been suggested to me to go back to a bunch and...
I thought that I would do it.
It's painful but it's been a long time and I think that we need to see what's going on, and we need to have-
We- We need to talk about it. We need to scream. We need to get some stuff out of our systems, you know?
It's a good day to be angry at men.
And that is why we are going through r/NiceGuys.
The best place on the internet, full of the- the most wonderful people. Only the best people are on r/NiceGuys, obviously.
Are we ready to get angry at men?
Yeah? Always. Always ready to be angry at men.
It's like one of my favourite pastimes.
Usually, if people break up, they break up for a reason.
And if as you say, she dumped them...
I'm sure she had her reasons to dump them.
And it's not because they're a "nice guy".
I don't think it's because they're good. That's not usually why people break up.
And also, did you ever stop to consider that you don't need a partner to be accomplished and successful?
Are you gonna say that to a single man?
Are you going to see a single man and say "you dumped all the good women and now you're worthless. Now no women want you."
"You should have thought about that. You're actually just sad and depressed."
No! You probably wouldn't. You probably would not say that to a man.
Partners don't complete you.
You aren't any more of a person when you are with a partner than you are by yourself.
You can be equally as happy, if not more happy, by yourself.
Sometimes, you don't want to be in relationship and there is reason for that.
Sometimes you just haven't found the right person and that's okay too.
You don't need to be in a relationship.
Relationships don't complete you. People don't complete you.
You can have a very perfectly good life with or without a partner.
If she was standing naked in front of you, I'm really hoping that it's a situation in which she is consenting to being naked in front of you.
In which case, you should probably look.
I'd be a bit upset if I was naked with someone because I chose to be naked with someone and they just stared me in the eyes and didn't look at me.
That's not how- That's not how it usually works!
Usually if you're naked with someone, you're naked with them for a reason.
I'm just imagining going to have sex with someone and they're like "No. I will not look at your body. I respect you too much."
"I respect you too much to acknowledge you have a body."
"I will only look into your eyes."
It's just really funny.
Women don't choose to date abusers.
That is the thing with abusers, is that you don't know they're abusers when you start dating them.
They usually seem like the most lovely and kind and caring people and they make you feel special.
That is a part of the process to have you getting stuck in an abusive relationship.
Is they are so kind and loving and lovely and they make you feel important and special to the point where it becomes a problem and they make you think you can't live without them.
They make you trust them to the point where they can hurt you and they know that you won't leave.
And then they hold things over your head and they gaslight you and they blackmail you.
And they- They're just awful people.
But they don't start off that way.
Women don't choose to be with abusers. No one chooses to be with abusers.
That's not how any of this works.
And also, no one is claiming all men to be abusers.
The problem is that so many women have been abused, and a lot of men are abusers, and that is normalised.
A lot of women are also abusers, and a lot of men also get abused.
It's not gender-specific, first and foremost.
And secondly, that's not how abuse works.
It is a very real issue and a lot of women talk about it and talk about being victims because a lot of women are victims.
And most of us don't speak about it because we're told not to and we're told that we're liars and we're over exaggerating and making it up.
So everything about what you just said complete bullsh_t.
It just sounds like you're an abuser and don't want to admit that you're an abuser.
You don't think what you did was wrong and you don't want to admit it.
You're like "She claimed that I am an abuser and I am not."
But you probably are so...
But if they didn't answer, I bet you would have messaged her and been rude.
You would have called her ugly or like "why didn't you answer you little b_tch"
Because that's, a lot of the time, what happens in these situations based on everything else I've read in r/NiceGuys.
Women- Women- Women just can't win.
We can't win. We can't do anything right. It's always wrong.
It's just- It's always wrong.
Unless it's what men want us to do, it's wrong.
And my guy?! Wishing abuse on someone because they said no to you once?
Please never, ever interact with women or anyone ever.
Women are allowed to say no.
We are- We are allowed to say no to you.
And if us saying no leads to you abusing us...
Just don't ever talk to women or be around women.
Stay in your bedroom forever.
I say that a lot in these videos, but please lock yourself in your room and never, ever leave.
Thank you.
Bro??!? Maybe you should treat everyone as a human being??
Oh my god?!?!?
You're like, "I tried treating you as a human but you don't deserve to be treated as a human. You only deserve to be treated as an object to f_ck."
Holy sh_t?!
What? Is that how you normally look at women then?!
You normally look at women as nothing but a sex object?
That's f_cked up. That's really gross. That's disgusting.
All women, all people, are people.
We are humans and you should view us as humans.
If someone upsets you, that doesn't make them not human.
You- You claim to be a good guy.
You claim to be a "good guy", but you're out here dehumanizing someone because they upset you.
You're allowed to be upset over a breakup but dehumanizing someone is disgusting.
It's disgusting.
I am extremely glad that she left because you seem like the absolute worst-
No, you don't seem like. You ARE the absolute worst type of person.
You are the worst type of person and I hope no one ever has the misfortune of being in a relationship with you.
You are quite clearly an abuser and you think that you have done nothing wrong and you never can do anything wrong and it's always women's fault.
Treat people as humans.
Treat people as humans. It's really not that difficult.
It sounds like she was very good to leave.
Uh, you would have been a terrible partner.
I feel like this would have been the energy you were putting in the whole relationship.
This is just straight up abuse,
And I- Uh. It is- No. No. No.
Just f-ckin, don't ever interact with women.
The same advice as the previous person.
Never interact with women.
Stay in your bedroom and never talk to anyone ever.
No one is wearing makeup to deceive men.
It is not my fault if you think that I naturally have sunsets on my f_ckin eyes.
You're acting as though makeup turns you into a whole different person.
It literally doesn't.
It's just covers blemishes a little bit, and can slightly modify the shape of your face and adds colour.
If you think my eyes naturally look like this, that sounds like it's a you problem.
That is entirely on you.
That's your fault.
I didn't do this to deceive you. I didn't do this to impress you.
I- I did this because I like it.
I think it looks pretty and it makes me feel good about myself.
No one is trying to deceive men.
Not everything is about you. Not everything is about men.
Why do you think that everything women do is for men?
And saying that we deserve legal punishment because you're superficial and also too stupid to realize that I don't have natural sunsets on my eyes?
It sounds like a f_ckin you problem, man.
That sounds more on you.
Don't be so superficial to the point where you're like, "Oh, your face doesn't always look like that?! Gross."
Obviously not!!
Even people wearing more natural makeup, like when you wear more natural makeup, it doesn't change your face that much.
Like you're literally the exact same person but your skin isn't as smooth and you don't have super long eyelashes or black lines on your eyes.
Like, I don't understand.
Why does that deserve legal punishment?
You're like "Oh you don't look identical to how you did an hour ago, you should go to jail."
What?!
I don't understand.
Men? Note:
Not everything is about you. Not everything we do is for you.
In fact, a majority of things we do aren't for you. Pretty much everything we do isn't for you.
So...
Shut up.
I'm going to leave that there.
Uh, once again, by the end of these I always have a headache because I-
Ahhh.
I am going to finish my iced matcha and make food.
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Stay safe. Keep fighting. I love you.
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