10 signs that show you do not have class being classy isn't about money it isn't a factor of
your pedigree or your family background it has nothing to do with how naturally
endowed you are being classy really is about self-respect my wonderful elegant
ladies welcome back to another video my name is Vivian the founder of woman of Elegance
which is a platform I've created to help women globally become the most elegant classy and
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most welcome so without further Ado let's discuss 10 signs that show you lack class
sign number one you are a Shameless homewrecker you go after married men you're his Dirty Little
Secret in short a woman who dates and chases after married men has no class not only is she classless
but she also has a low self-esteem and she doesn't see her value and you might ask yourself how did
you get to that conclusion ladies if you did have healthy self-esteem you would know that you could
easily find yourself a decent single unencumbered man but because you feel you aren't worthy of that
you would rather go for a man who belongs to another woman we really have to conclude that
you do not care you have a flagrant disregard for the marital Arrangement and you don't care about
family values and the family constructs you don't care about destroying a home that has been built
with Fidelity and love and respect and Trust if you don't care less about whether this man
is married or not and you're ready to accommodate him in your life regardless of the fact that he's
married to another woman then you can actually be described as a homewrecker forget all the
lies that he's telling you that he wished he had met you before his wife and that he's not happy in
his marriage and that he loves you more if you fall for this for whatever reason whether it's
love or lust or money or desperation you have just played into the Trap of being used for easing off
sexual tension and emotional stress and gratifying his sexual appetite and even probably trying out
extreme sexual fantasies that he wouldn't want to try out on his wife out of love and respect for
her so he tells you that you're the best better than his wife or any woman that he's ever known
for that matter you in return feel honored and may even begin to scheme on how to displace this
incompetent wife and step in as the missus you need to understand that you are the loser in
this game there's a high probability that he will never divorce his wife for you why because it's
all games to him he's the only winner here even if he leaves his wife for you keep in mind that
there's probably going to be another girl who's going to take over your role as a new side chick
what makes you think he will stay faithful to you if he's cheated on his ex-wife you have no moral
grounds to expect him to stay faithful to you what goes around comes around a man like that has
no problem cheating because he knows there will always be another low value woman to toy around
with have some self-respect and class and stay away from Married Men no matter how desirable you
find them or they find you get a job or be content with what you can afford live within your means
and stop looking for sugar daddies to fund your lifestyle it's selfish it's unfair and it does
not speak well of you at all close your legs to marry men the second sign that you lack class is
that you have a potty mouth there are almost 172 000 words in the English dictionary that you could
use are you telling me that your vocabulary is so limited that you have to resort to profanities
you may have an Immaculate sense of style be physically beautiful and have all the heirs
and the aura of a high-class woman and everyone will think of you as a classy a sophisticated
lady but you see the moment you open your mouth to talk and begin to release the expletives and
the profanities that have become a regular part of your vocabulary you mess the whole thing up
people who saw you as elegant initially will think twice immediately therefore before you
go running off your mouth at somebody before those profanities roll off your lips before you
open your mouth to use those rude and offensive words realize that you're doing yourself more
harm than good by tearing your own reputation to Smithereens consciously begin today to watch what
you say and how you say it if you're used to using offensive language Purge your vocabulary of such
words learn to use polite words words such as I'm sorry please excuse me thank you pardon me this
should be an everyday part of your vocabulary and say it like you mean it be genuine the third sign
that shows you lack class is that you disrespect and mock others that you feel you are better than
some women worship money they worship Fame social statuses and any other thing that they consider
desirable so once they see a person that they consider well to do they're all over the person
seeking to shower their adoration and admiration and show the utmost respects for that person
you can recognize the type of woman from the way they behave more respectfully and loyally around
celebrities and wealthy people they treat with disrespect anyone that they feel they're better
than money wise or fame or beauty connections or whatever they flatter the boss and they look down
on the driver you don't want that to be you ladies the big shots know that you're just sucking up to
them because of who they are and what they have and the average man knows that you're just being
fake and shallow the earlier you begin to honor and respect people regardless of their social
standing this is better for you respecting people just because of what you can gain from them is
exploitation check yourself as it may even be your self-esteem that needs to to be evaluated
people with low self-esteem see associating with people in the high echelons of society as a way
of boosting their self-esteem that needs to be corrected quite quickly sign number four you are
loud and noisy and generally crass being a loud mouth is an instant turn off and I'm not just
talking about having a loud voice because this could be natural hereditary maybe I'm talking
about being noisy in a noticeable and annoying way there's just something repulsive about a
raucous woman a woman who is loud and crass lacks discretion such indiscretion is a sign that you
lack class intact it is okay to be the life and soul of the party and make the atmosphere fun and
Lively however a classy woman understands how to go about this in style tactfully with an Elegance
Flair a loud woman lacks these qualities it's not even about being an introvert on extra it it's
about knowing when to talk how to talk and what to say and when to stop talking babbling Non-Stop and
saying 19 to the Dozen exhausts people around you bake no mistake about it you are not entertaining
your listeners they're probably just wondering to themselves when you're going to stop talking stop
with the loud exhausting gesticulations and trying to be the center of attention it's so
exhausting your listeners may just keep quiet and allow you to have a field day of making a
disgraceful show of yourself be Lively but do it with class talk but then do so with tax laugh but
do so like a woman of High Caliber and not like a deranged taina okay everything in moderation
the fifth sign that shows you lack class is that you boast about your parents or your spouse's
wealth unfortunately there are many women out there that allow their successes and their wins
to get to their heads they become boastful and super proud and use their success as a yardstick
to measure everything they do not hesitate to reel out their achievements and their accolades
the cities that they've traveled to the popular people that they've met they do this at the
slightest opportunity and unfortunately some women use these as parameters to Define their worth this
is not classy and people tend to do this to cover up their own emptiness and inadequacies are you
always in the habit of reminding people how you're connected to the Prime Minister related to the
president's wife Friends of the mayor's daughter dropping names of the intention to impress and
intimidate others into thinking you're better this shows you have low self-esteem you don't even know
how to define find your self-worth boasting about the type of car you drive I just bought an Aston
Martin last week the hotels you've stayed in your bank balance educational qualifications and even
your marital status is evidence that you do not have class your relevance or your worth isn't
tied to your qualifications your possessions or connections so without your certificates or your
money or your connections how do you value yourself sign number six you don't stress
well you may ask yourself Vivian you're constantly talking about appearance how you dress and how you
put yourself together Etc but why do you think this is you dress how you want to be addressed
we are not God we cannot read Hearts and Thoughts and intentions the only indicator that we have in
the first instance is the physical appearance your appearance is very important no matter what you've
been told and I'm not talking about beauty because Beauty really is subjective I know that there are
standards across the world but it is really subjective but what I am talking about is how
you present yourself to the world the importance of how you dress cannot be overemphasized you are
your own representative the way you present yourself aesthetically tells people who you
are what value you place on yourself and the extent to which you regard yourself
dressing Chablis says that you are not classy but nothing screams classless louder than putting all
your assets on display for All Eyes to Feast on freely dress elegantly keep it modest and leave
something to the imagination when you dress salaciously it signifies you hold no regard
for your body and you don't mind showing everybody what you have it's sad but don't be surprised when
people disrespect you because of the way you dress when you dress provocatively you actually place a
label on yourself that reads you don't have class and no matter how archaic or old-fashioned that
may seem that just holds true today it really does sign number seven you lack manners people
without class lack manners and act as if they don't really care what others think if you lack
proper manners and you make no attempts to improve yourself in this regard then you are telling
others that you lack class you drink from the bottle and you deride people who observe correct
etiquette you make jest of social rules and joke that etiquette rules are not for
you well actually The Joke is on You whenever you go out with people and you make all these
etiquette faux pas or you just show a disregard for the etiquette within that social sphere it
just tells people that you don't respect them when you begin to understand the importance of
etiquette and how it makes our mutual interactions with other people in the society cordial and
seamless you'll become less self-centered and learn to apply the basic etiquette rules at
least imagine sitting at an elegant dinner table with others and talking with your mouth full of
food the site of half masticated food in your mouth can make others lose their appetites at
an event you can easily point out the guests who lack class just by observing their willingness
to comply with social rules ladies you may not know the rules at a particular dinner table but
just a quick observation around you will just show that you're willing to learn and you're willing to
integrate but when you have a disregard and think to yourself oh this is too old-fashioned or why
should I eat like this or why should I use this fork or that fork it just shows you don't have
respect for the people in your midst and we're not just talking about dining tables some women
extend their mannerless character to their online presence you see them engaging in keyboard rules
with people they hardly know or they don't know at all on social media you see some women calling
each other out insulting each other and calling each other on printable names washing their dirty
Linen in public and you're foolishly providing entertainment for the drama loving social media
users a woman who chooses to fight and settle her issues with another person under the prying
eyes of social media is nothing short of classless points number eight you generally give off an air
of desperation ladies if you can avoid giving an air of desperation please do so at all costs that
monster called desperation has a way of making you do things opt for choices and settle for
options you would never even consider on a good day desperation can make a woman behave classless
and cheap ladies no matter what circumstance you find yourself in try as much as possible to keep
any feelings of desperation on the check as being desperate can make you appear without class no
matter how badly you want something whether it's a job or a husband or money or child don't let
desperation lead you into actions that could make you seem like you have no value actions
like offering your body in return for a favor doing wife duties when he hasn't even put a ring
on your finger really shows that you don't have class remember having class is about having self
respect and showing that you value yourself and you stay true to your values sign number nine
you will do anything for attention even betray your friends some women live for attention they
can't do without it especially when it comes to perhaps male attention and they'll do anything
to get it these types of women equate their beauty or their desirability to the amount of attention
they command from men when you love attention so much that you go to whatever lengths including
betraying your friends and the people that you trust to get it it is proof that you totally
have no class thriving on any kind of attention that comes your way without selection shows that
you lack class and you'll settle for anything just as long as it's male attention for example going
as far as to steal or compete with your friends for their men's attention is despicably low class
watch your actions ladies you do not want to be associated with women who don't have any value
if you don't respect yourself who will Point number 10 you don't value good hygiene are you
pretty and gorgeously well dressed do you consider yourself as a woman of High Caliber how seriously
do you take your body grooming on a scale of one to ten how do you rate your body hygiene efforts
good body hygiene is one of the most important aspects of your life that you should not joke
around with and you should not take shortcuts with a lack of proper hygiene can seriously impact your
health when you practice good hygiene it shows easily on your body and when your body hygiene
is less than desired your body also Bears witness to that chipped Nails bad breath body odor flaky
skin unkempt hair dandruff rotting teeth are all signs of poor body hygiene or even a lack
of proper nutrition if you have health issues that are causing these things for example halitosis or
dandruff then of course you should try and get these checked by a medical practitioner but if
this is a case of just being lazy or you can't be bothered then this shows a lack of class
your health and well-being must take precedence so try your best to practice good body hygiene
ladies I really do hope you enjoyed this video and it's something you'll take very
very seriously because if you're really trying to improve yourself and live An Elegant life
and be the best version of yourself then you must start from the inside and of course I've
spoken at length in many of my videos about appearance and you really need to curb some
of the behaviors I've mentioned here if it does apply to you thank you very much for watching