we all experience falling in love and being in relationships in our own unique ways for the infj
love is often an important thing but it can be difficult for them to really find it since they do
have high standards for what they want in these types of relationships INFJs in relationships
definitely have a unique set of values in ways in which they give and receive so here are some
things you should know about how the infj falls in love and how they respond to this welcome all
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get updates in the future they are idealists INFJs are often idealists especially when it
comes to their romantic relationships they invest so much into this idea of what love should be and
so it becomes hard for them to really deal with these expectations at times INFJs do sometimes
put people they love up on pedestals seeing them as something perfect when this isn't possible this
can lead to them feeling disappointed later in the relationship but they struggle to really let go
even if they feel they should the infj idealist is expect a lot from falling in love and from their
connections simply because they can often build this up in their minds when they spend a lot of
time imagining what it could be like to truly fall in love with someone and want to become wrapped up
in this INFJs don't really want things to get out of hand in this way but their minds do have
a tendency to run away with them they fall hard but not fast INFJs definitely fall in love hard
when they do but this does not happen quickly they often take time before really opening up
to someone and so falling in love can be a slow process for the infj when they truly fall for
someone they want to be sure that this is for real and often take time before they can trust someone
enough to let them into their hearts for the infj it isn't easy to just jump into things and they
are this way with love as well they don't just fall in love at first sight even though part of
them might start to feel something towards someone rather quickly because of their strong sense of
intuition they simply don't allow themselves to dive in and really need to be patient with their
feelings and hope for a partner who is patient with their process while INF JS might not fall
fast when they do fall for someone it is something which means very much to them they feel everything
so deeply and so for them falling in love is a very serious and intense experience they often
put everything they have into the person they fall for and truly want to give their hearts
openly infj is really do invest a lot into the people they love and when they fall in love with
someone they don't hold back INF Jai's want to do anything they can to make this person happy
and to immerse themselves into these feelings they struggle to let go while INF Jai's take a while to
fall in love once they do letting go can be deeply challenging for them this is often why they can be
so has sistent to jump into love because having to let go can be heartbreaking and affect the
infj for a long time they don't know how to really move on when someone has made their mark on their
souls and so they don't want to take this risk when it comes to love when they love someone the
infj might feel this for a long time even after things have ended even after they have found a way
to appear as if they have moved on they take love seriously and so for them it doesn't feel right to
abandon these emotions and just pretend they never felt something so intense and powerful for the
infj letting go or moving on when something has affected them so deeply just doesn't feel natural
while they might not want others to know that they are struggling to let go deep down it can
take much longer for the infj when they fall in love this is something which reaches the depths of
their heart and soul making it a part of who they are for a long time to come they can be cynics
but deep down they are romantics most INFJs can appear to be cynics on the outside while deep down
they often possess the heart of a true romantic they use their minds and can be rather logical
people and so they might not openly express these more sentimental or emotional parts of themselves
outwardly they don't want to appear like they are hopeless romantics and so most of the time
their outer shell can be rather cynical infj x' really are contradicting people most of the time
and so they can possess both cynical and highly romantic qualities they will make consistently
cynical comments and behave as if they are someone who does not believe in true love and might even
be hesitant to take a risk on it deep down most INFJs believe in love even to the point of valuing
it above everything else even their sanity they believe in romance and really dream of
being able to let go and drown in these emotions they do often dream of this type of love one they
can really ignore the rest of the world for an experience with every fiber of their being for
the infj this type of love is something they might desire but can be a bit fearful of at times they
know that if they let themselves truly fall this means they can end up with a badly broken heart
in the end of it all they give everything while INFJs might have some contradicting feelings about
love and the way they really fall into it they do give everything when they are in love with someone
INFJs give a lot of themselves to those around them and really believe in doing whatever it takes
to make these people happy when the infj falls in love it is no different it might even be a bit
more intense for them they want to make the object of their objection happy in any and every way
possible INF J's will work hard to please their partner and want to find ways to provide for them
and bring them joy for the infj this can actually be a lot of pressure when they are in love since
they want to live up to these expectations they set for themselves INFJs have big hearts and will
often do anything for the people they love and so being in love only amplifies these emotions
this is why it matters who they fall in love with and they might be fearful of it at first
because the infj can fall so hard that they give all of themselves to someone losing parts of who
they are in the process when the infj finds the right person it can be a truly magical experience
drawing this person into their own bubble and their own inner world the way they fall in love
is often a rare process something which can enrich the lives of those around them in such
a unique way for the infj falling in love might be frightening but they definitely experience
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