the line between coming on too strong and not showing the other person that you are attracted
to them is thin very thin flirting makes you vulnerable and it can be scary and that is why
learning subtle ways to flirt is a really great skill to have and in today's video you are in
luck because we are going to look at some of the best ways to subtly flirt with someone in a way
however that won't embarrass you but will show them that you are interested in them stay tuned
eye contact it's so so important so let's talk about it making eye contact with someone
shows them that you are well and truly interested in what they are saying but also in a romantic way
that you are interested in them too so engage in eye contact while they are speaking or lock item
across the room any lady will love this and would immediately understand that you are flirting with
them so watch for the eye contact and do it back very easy one say hello as you walk past them
acknowledging someone and making the effort to wave and say hello and wish them well as you walk
past is a lovely cute way to flirt it's going to make them feel special imagine that you are in the
office you like a lady in another department she walks past you so you say hello and it's the start
of the spark she feels seen and this might lead to her flirting back and then eventually a date
liking their pictures up on social media if your crush posts a picture on instagram or facebook
like it and maybe leave a compliment like you look great or wow that looks really fun
this is gonna put you on the other person's radar every so often as well send them a snapchat maybe
of you with friends and if they reply it will be the start of a conversation now guys don't go too
far and comment on every single photo doing it every so often will be enough and do not scroll
through reams and dreams of images and then like something from 16 weeks ago it comes across creepy
group hangouts instead of having that pressure of hanging out with them one-on-one why not start
with some group hangouts it's really easy if you guys work in an office together hang out with some
co-workers after work you still have time to talk one-on-one and show off your personality
but without all of the pressure of hanging out with just the two of you also you can still flirt
around other people flash them eye contact and she will pick up what you are definitely putting down
listen to what they are saying listen to what the other person is saying but do it carefully
if you have spoken to her and she mentioned it's her brother's football game
bring it up at a later date and casually say hey did your brother win that game
she will be so impressed that you really listened and you remembered and it will show her that you
do truly believe in her and you value everything that she says try and keep the conversation going
when it comes to keeping a conversation going you don't have to litter it up with facts
yes guys that doesn't mean facts on video games unless your crush is a gamer because some girls
don't really care for that ask simple questions to keep the conversation going for example if
you were talking about where someone is from ask them what their favorite restaurant is in
that local place things like that keep it simple but keep the conversation going shows that you
are interested in what your crush has to say and this doesn't put on too much pressure but
it does allow for a little bit of flirting at least this is my favorite out the whole video
and that is offer them some of your food here's a not so well kept secret guys food is the way
to a girl's heart it really is offer her some of your food and she will be happy once i went
on a day date with a guy and we were walking around chatting and exploring and we decided
to stop at good old mcdonald's for a few snacks i got a burger but forgot to get fries and the man
that i was on a date with offered me some of his fries and whoa i was hooked i thought it was just
so nice that he decided to share his fries with me a selfless act and that is something that girls
look for in a partner so the fact that he did that on our first date well it was a great start
gift them something gifting your crush something thoughtful will school you made your brownie
points this is a great way to flirt without being too obvious perhaps she has mentioned that she
loves a certain brand of tea next time you see her you can say oh i saw this and thought of you
and she will love that you did that for her and thought about her when you guys were not together
it could be anything from her favorite type of chocolate to a drink you will know what she likes
and she'll be so happy and touch you did this and i have to stress this you don't have to get her an
expensive gift if she likes kinder eggs leave a kinder egg on her desk and she will love it
ruffle their hair anything to do with touch is quite a bold flirting move so it's only reserved
for the confident ruffling someone's hair though is like a teasing act which can be a little bit
more subtle if you're trying to go for that kind of look maybe your lady has done something she's
teased you you can joke with her and play with her ponytail only for a second but still it's not
a very obvious way of flirting but it's a little bit of enough to make her have those butterflies
touch her arm during conversation whilst we are on the subject of touch touching an arm or even
a shoulder is a great way of flirting but it's not always that subtle though if you are having
a fun and a jokey conversation touching her arm or her shoulder lets her know that you are interested
now guys i would suggest that if you are trying to subtly flirt you wait until you are on a date
when you actually pull out this one lower your voice that's right guys sometimes you can be
really loud you have deeper voices than us ladies so we understand that you want to show off your
masculinity but when it comes to flirting keep your voice volume low speak directly to your crush
in a lower softer voice and maintain eye contact and this will drive her wild it will make her feel
like she's the only girl in the world without you having to lay all of your cards out on the table
take their hat if the pair of you have a jokey and a teasy relationship this is a great way to
flirt without being too obvious you could put your crush's handbag over your shoulder as a
joke you can steal their hat or wear their jacket or glasses it creates a sense of closeness within
the relationship and they will treasure that item even more because you've touched it it's a subtle
way to flirt and if you've already established a relationship with the person you could do this but
possibly not on the first eat compliment them such an easy one pay your crush a compliment
make sure you do mean it maybe they are talking about their job and you can very passionately say
wow your work is very important to you and they are so lucky to have you you are really great
you can also carry on a conversation about her working styles you could offer them a more direct
compliment like i really love your dress and they will love this you might find that the lady then
feels more confident and pays you a compliment back but remember to make sure it's a genuine
compliment and if you can stay away from telling her she looks beautiful it's a bit of a pointless
compliment very important you need to know when to back off just a little bit
when it comes to subtle flirting you have to know when to back off and when to step back into
kind of put an end to things if you notice that your crush is becoming disinterested or agitated
it's time to take a step back the sad truth is not everyone is going to like us in a romantic way and
there are plenty more fish in the sea and there is definitely a little fishy for you you just
have to search for it so if you notice that your crush is not all that interested you can let it go
you can still maintain a friendship but the best thing is you have been subtly flirting with her
and she might not even know that you 100 like her she might just think that you
are a lovely person so therefore you never have to feel embarrassed brilliant right
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