Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. I want to give you
one of the biggest signs that a girl is interested in you and this goes beyond
just interested in you when you guys first meet. This is also a sign that
she likes you if you guys have been friends for a while. I know there's a lot
of guys out there who get into the friend-zone or they're not sure if
they're in the friend-zone because they're talking to a girl they've been
friends but it's kind of like they're flirting but they're not. They don't know
what's going on so I'm gonna give you the biggest sign. I'm gonna say this
to you, you might say Tripp that is so obvious like really that's the one?
But I was really wracking my brain and really kind of diagnosing like a whole
situation where a girl will show many signs of interest and I've done a lot of
videos on this topic before. And there's all these different signs but
there's one that stands out that's really like the giveaway.
I'll tell you what it is. It's the compliment. The compliment.
When a girl says something nice to you and she compliments something you've
done or something that you're doing or maybe she's complimenting something on
your physical appearance or your style, but the compliment. It's really
powerful. I kind of went back and forth between maybe you know when a girl
touches you in a way where she touches your arm or she's always
giving you a hug. Things like that. But you know what? Even if you're with a girl
and she's friends with you and you think you're in the friend-zone, they still
might do that and still think of you as a friend because that's just what people
do but the verbal compliment; that's something that really takes a lot of
effort on a woman's part. It's easy just to oh you're my friend and hug and
whatever and touch and whatever but really her saying something nice to you
about you is a big sign so let's go through all the different areas where
this might happen. Let's say for example you're just meeting a girl and
you're at a bar or on the sidewalk or during the day you know one of those
cold approach situations and you're talking to a girl. If she gives you a
compliment, that's huge. Why, because you just met her.
She has no reason to say something nice to you. In fact, when the girl knows that she
doesn't like a guy, she will never ever give a compliment, say
anything nice and she really wants to do the opposite. Not to say something mean.
But she wants to just kind of back off and not talk to the guy.
Her putting in that effort to go and say something nice is a huge sign.
Whether she says it when you first meet like I said at a bar or club whatever or
maybe you guys are on a date and she gives you a compliment then or she's giving
you a compliment on a dating app, that is her trying to say to you I'm
interested and even if she's not thinking that on a conscious level,
subconsciously she does like you so she's trying to do something nice for
you to be nice to show you that she's interested and to get you to like her.
Now in the case where maybe you've known a girl for a little while. Maybe she
works with you, maybe she's a friend from class, maybe she's a friend in your
social circle, one compliment that's not going to be a big deal.
She compliments you once or once in a while, not a big deal. But in this specific
scenario, what I want you to pay attention to is, is she's saying a lot of
nice things to you all the time and every time that you guys hang out?
Does she say something really nice about you or to you?
Does she compliment you in any way? Again, this can be physical appearance,
this can be something maybe that you showed on social media, something that
you did that you're talking about and she's like oh that's so cool, something at
work or one of your hobbies or something that you've completed a goal. Whatever it
is but even in the case where also she's more offering it to you and you're not
giving her the lay up to say. She's just saying it out of nowhere. This is a big
giveaway sign. She's trying to be extra nice to.
Not because she's your friend but because she's interested. Of course
there's exceptions. You might have a friend that's just so nice and
she's complimenting you all the time and she doesn't like you. This isn't a hard
core science here but the point of this video is I want you to look out for that.
I want you to notice when she's giving you those compliments because then you
can be certain okay this is a girl that is interested in me. But you really got
to know this too. A lot of guys are obsessed with the idea of okay I gotta
get those signs. I gotta get three signs that she likes me
and then I know I can go for the kiss or I can ask her out. Really at the
end of the day, I want you to throw away all that stuff and
just assume that she's interested and move forward. Don't just wait for the
signs to ask her out or to make a move. It's okay to just go for it and
better to go for it and get rejected then not go for it at all while you're
sitting back and just waiting for these signs to appear. But if you get that
compliment, that's pretty good too. If you are in the friend-zone or you
want to more importantly avoid the friend-zone, I have a whole blog post
really long and in-depth how you can avoid it for good, how you can get out of
it, that is in the description below. I want you to check that out right now.
Click that link, go there, read that so you never have to be in the friend zone
again. Write a comment down below. Let me know what you think and I'll see you
in the next video.