another california team committed suicide last september after she was
allegedly raped by three sixteen-year-old boys uh... and then
bullied as a result of the rate now this story seems very very half a million
because we've seen it happen again and again recently our retail parsons from
canada committed suicide after she was allegedly raped and she was believe as a
result and of course there is a case of uh... sixteen-year-old parole instead of
ohio you know i she did not commit suicide but she faced
severe bullying as a result of a rate so if this is happening again and again in
the question is what do we get into that
stop this kind of
horrible behavior from these teenagers
so if
leads to a number of questions comments first of all
there must be something we're missing in the younger culture
it's two cases where they committed suicide a center of a blue combined was
to move on the rape in the sharing its outer item part of it is that they now
have smartphone saw bcs easier showed the pictures and kids being the idiots
that they aren't and kids are vicious creatures that's part of the story and
they will always have been that's nothing new right that teasing the
bullying the all that has always existed
admiring the midwest in the past
but there's something new
that i'm seeing
where with the whole thing about the rate and then it's like such a cool
thing that you want to share with everybody
i don't think that great with school before yeah absolutely right about that
wasn't that long ago that i was in high school and if someone had been raped
with one of our tears had been raped
it would be a serious matter people would take it seriously they would treat
her org you know he would say there is a victim they wouldn't treat her as a slut
and pulling her i don't know where this culture comes from
but obviously it's something that really needs to be addressed
let me give you guys a few more details on the most recent stories of this
fifteen-year-old was archery pots
unusually at we don't reveal the name of the victim but in this case the parents
want everyone to know who the victim was
uh... and she went to a party it was a house party and she got drunk and was
allegedly unconscious
that's when three at different boys uh... allegedly raped her
and then they took photos of the assault
the photo what buyer all of that the majority of people in her have school
saw them and and that's the reason why the struggling
now taking care must be had before the stories broke before they committed
suicide it
i have to assume that there was some sort of
contra siesta whether it was uh... consentual or not 'cause act i can
imagine they're like haha we're a terror and look at all these cool pictures of
the rate that we took they must be saying to that leads to their friends in
the people to pass it around to she what she wanted she got drunk at saturn at
what they slipped or something
and inuit you know all that is in disputed big it inning trial and in this
case at least
did arrested
and so we're gonna find out in the trial at least some of it
evidence is gonna be aired out uh... bite
even if you think that it was consensual and you think she act meeting slippery
thing in sheep
just passed out for me to read too much on our own
it's still never really it was never cool
to then they could use of your having sex with her and then send around
again i'm saying that something slightly
different and i_d_ of course not cool everywhere and of course when people
find out their outrage and center et cetera but i'm talking about something
is happening
underneath the surface and that apparently
is that we're not getting is happening too often
for not to be something any inference that double standards and you know a
specially when it comes to you know don't girls having sex is close to young
boys having sex young boys will have the sex of course they had applied for delay
leon they lori past the pictures they are literally passage right around
when it comes to young girls what you're a slut you wanted and i do think that
there is a debate among the teenagers as to whether or not she wanted it but even
you should first of all that to beijing even be happy he's allowed investigators
actually take a look professionals
to take a look to see what actually happened and even in the case where she
didn't want to flesh-eating is never ok and we gotta change that culture is what
do you know we were in touch on some there's that was that the for the voices
payment for the girls it shame and their literally they're the same age there in
the class together everything should be there inaudible identical
they also gets into the problem that i i don't know how you feel gamma gas at and
how you feel but you know we now have these rules that are starting to develop
uh... potentially have gotten some other always in trouble
for like when is it
to have sex with someone like if they're drunk
and what level of drunken aviators they consent but they're kinda drunk then you
can still get charged and you and i don't like it
come on like that but the scene and uh...
and we had a rape debate about that
but then you read stories like this and not so much for leave the suicide out
which obviously makes it just an unbelievable tragedy but just the notion
of the way kids
talk to each other and the fact that
it would appear and less these boys ari even
and maybe they are but there's also some possibility
that they don't get the passed out part
that they think whatever she or maybe she mumbled yes and her in coherence
and so they don't get it and now we got no choice but uh...
make these iron-clad rules which seemed sort of unfortunate
and silly but if you're
close anywhere close to that unable to think clearly that we got to say that
these kids know that you literally can do it for somebody might argue with
great and my position now with turned around completely
because ultimately we got to protect these people yeah i i actually agree
with that
uh... i think that you know people maybe were getting too carried away well like
she had two drinks is that consent and my old position would would all cautions
consenting eleven and two entrances satara
and i'm not saying that to traces right now and then we have your honor
were we gotta move the line cuz apparently they don't get a little bit
like we are moving closer to
like before
i mean how dumb are you might like she's on conscience unconscious is definite
affect really relying on agree and i will corset
over the past and present is the kids are getting on issues like i think i
think they can get it back to state that day in don't care i'd think that
their under the assumption that they're not gonna face any consequences of it
and it's because of the way that we've truly allies rape in the country let's
keep it real we are politicians seem ridiculous things about rape
and what consider what's considered replacing considering i don't think
that's it and this is an even more controversial
i think it's part of the like the video game cultures are not play on the issue
recombinant eight but what the public auction at everybody's raping embroidery
beckett all you know how to get that was great
anti-castro robert
all the time
all the time we talked about on the show before
and is that partly leading to a and anyone uniting the term rate not using
the charming right
write the letter i destroyed a mighty disaster center right
is that leading is sub consciously for a small percentage of people in the
country who are young impressionable to think
that the were great this cool and sold in the air making the enormous mistake
had that ended
i think that's it actually go over and i called made bragging about my job
matches are glad to see i raped her
has more time with a double standard than anything else change about how i
like these are teenage boys and their hormones are raging and it's it's all
about getting awarded
because of the number of women across the sleep with you know any which is why
they show it off which is why take the pictures like look at the city go out
for that students are so that's always been true and smartphones are now
needed that's why we say on the show a million times never let a guy take a
picture of you
naked he's going to show it to eight everyone he knows
is if your fifteen-year-old boy the number one thing you want to do is
bright
but is wanting to brag about a description of your breasts
something to brag about haitians unconscious and i raped her so now look
the one last thing i mean some would argue that there's some chance that they
think they are conscious and i had sexually
from a complete list no idea what it will be a cake you know 'cause she
mumbled or something like that
interestingly or she didn't
right before we were making out before she passed that right you don't still
have excuse like that no one not to
as a victory rather than the rate by your your honor
now blessing is
local everybody's now outreach up to two girls committed suicide that was talking
about right
can we get outraged
before they commit suicide when they're getting viciously bullied you know what
wise and everybody up in arms about that for many years this defendant here's one
of the problems that you know we're going to understand this involved this
requires doesn't involved
starting at what
twelve or thirteen
enormously frank conversations not at home
but in school about sex notwithstanding frank
talks with kids
and talks in front of talking in a in a who's gonna have to be in the principal
girls too
thirteen fourteen year old girls you have to talk about section i have to do
a pitcher classmates are gonna do it because of pressures there in the
schools are are are abdicating their responsibility
and we don't have those kind i think that's a busboy estimates so far because
one thing that we definitely been doing in recent years as we've been trying to
uh... you know to shy away from talking about sex in a very frankly with young
people right we've been defunding comprehensive sex ed
we don't talk about the touchy topics belief recap anytime anyone mention sex
we have to get away from like the religious notion of talking about sex is
gonna make teenagers do crazy things you've got to tell them what the reality
is that way they can protect themselves and you know avoid doing risky behavior
we got it