Hey, what's going on?
Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com.
I'm going to start with a little bit of a story, a little background on myself.
This was about 11 years ago, 12 years ago back in 2006, 2007, 2008 around that point
when I was just learning how to meet women and how to pick up girls.
I was in my early to mid 20's.
And as a guy who was single in that time, of course, you want to meet women.
You might be in that same spot.
And I remember that I'd read all this information online, there's a lot of pickup material.
There wasn't many YouTube channels.
I mean YouTube just came out around this time so there wasn't a lot of information there.
There was only a little bit of information and the information that I got didn't
resonate with me.
I wasn't sure what to do.
And I was lost.
How do I go out and meet women, especially being a guy who was very shy, which I once
was?
I had to figure out what I needed to do.
So with all this overwhelm of information, I thought, well okay, I can try to use some
of this information, which I did and it didn't work.
Some stupid pickup lines and things like that and using what's called routines, basically
fake stories that you make up that are not true, that are supposed to attract women.
And that felt weird.
And that didn't work.
So what I did, and this is going to be my tip for you, as someone who's just starting
off, is I said "You know what?
Fuck it!
I'm just going to go out right now.
And I'm just going to start talking to as many people as I can."
And I think that idea, that concept is severely underrated and I don't think a lot of people
talk about this.
Instead people are going online and trying to figure out the best opening lines and try
to get all the information, cram all the information
in your head so you have as much information
as possible before you go out and talk to women.
But really, you can do that, you can study all day long, watch all these videos all day
long, and they will help.
But they're not going to get you as far as you going out and just starting conversations,
even if you have no idea what to do.
So my biggest tip for you, especially if you're
just beginning, even if you're somewhere intermediate,
is to go out and talk to girls and fail and get rejected, and get embarrassed and
see what happens.
The skill set of you being able to meet women, attract women, be charismatic, get rid of
your shyness, that skill set right there is built through the experience of going out
and talking to lots of women.
And then you come back and you watch these videos for this support.
OK, so the videos are the support to the action.
Action should come first.
And then videos, podcasts, things like that, that should come second.
And it's okay, you can watch a little bit of videos, you can get a little bit of tips,
but you're not going to be able to use all this stuff, especially if you're just starting
off, because it's gonna be such a jumble in your head, you're not gonna know exactly what
to do with it. You need to go out and have experiences, you need to go out, and you need to
screw up. I'm telling you,
and I'm giving you permission, go out, screw up, make mistakes. The most
important thing you can do is start talking to women.
And here's what you're going to find is you're not going to be as bad as you think you are.
Of course the first few approaches, talking to women is going to be tough.
But if you really just go out there and be persistent with it, there's a learning
curve.
So you actually get better really fast, just like when you go to the gym, and you start
working out and you start seeing big strength gains right away.
That's just how it works.
It's the same thing with going out and meeting women. You're going to be shy and
screw up and you're going to start getting better faster in the very beginning.
And that's what happened to me.
I decided to throw away all the information, stop learning, and just go out and see what
happens.
And I got good really fast.
I got good.
I mean, not amazing.
But in the first three months, I was able to see a lot of results, getting more dates,
sleeping with some women, just really having fun being outside of my shell.
And then after that I had to learn about what are women
interested in?
And how do you dive into your masculinity?
And how do you balance your masculinity, which attracts the femininity and all this other
advanced stuff?
But for you, as a beginner, what I urge you to do is go out, use one opening
line, which can be like, "Hey, what's up?
I'm going out meeting people today. Are you from...?" and then the city or just saying "Hello,
what's going on today?"
It doesn't matter what the opener is, it's about you delivering the opener, and just
getting it out there.
Then after that, you can just see what happens.
And then you can also see that people are a lot nicer than you think.
You go out.
Yeah, you might get some rejection.
Some girls might be like, "why is this guy talking to me, this is so weird."
But at the end of the day, it's not going to be as bad as you think.
And you're only going to find that out not from me saying it from you going out and talking
to people.
This is underrated.
I wish someone told me this when I first started.
But no one told me this, no one said to just go out and make a goal of talking to, I don't
know, 50 people in one week, make that goal, just do that and see what happens.
And then when you figure out... I can't continue a conversation or it starts to die
here or the conversations fine, but I'm not able to flirt. Those are the questions you're
going to have which then you come back and you search those videos.
And then you can learn some stuff and then go out again and implement it from
what you've learned.
And then you're already used to going out.
It's all going to be connected easily for you use the information to go out and
continue to get better.
There's another way to do this.
You can also get coaching something that I offer, I offer one on one coaching, I do coaching
with beginners, intermediate and advanced.
And I put you on a customized plan to go out and hold you accountable to talk to women
so you can get better.
And we help you drill the things that you're not good at.
Maybe it's conversation, flirting, avoiding the friend zone, whatever it is, I coach you
one on one in person or over the phone.
If you're interested in that if you want to get to a more advanced level a lot faster
than doing it on your own, which is going to be very helpful for you go to
www.coachedbytripp.com
and you can apply today.
I'll put a link down the description below so you can apply and then after you apply,
I will reach out to you via email and we can set up a call to see if coaching is a good
fit for you.
That's one option for you.
That's to just get better faster.
Or if you want to do it on your own, that's fine too, might take a little bit longer,
but either way, go out and do as many approaches as possible.
And then after that, come back and get the information.
I hope that helps.
I'll see on the next video.
Good luck.