- Peter, come. Can we have a...
(indistinct chatter)
- [Amina] You still mad?
- I was, 'kay... I don't hold grudges. I don't get mad.
- But you know that wasn't, like, to make you mad.
And it wasn't... That's what I didn't like,
that you made it out to be, like,
I'm doing it on purpose to make you upset.
- [Peter] That's not the place to say that.
Like, I felt like it was malice.
I thought it was... I didn't think that was
coming from a good space.
- Peter's saying I'm malicious. I know he doesn't mean that.
He's saying it 'cause he's mad.
Peter hates being in an argument and losing
and I may have pushed him in the corner a little bit,
but... Malicious? Me? No.
- I'm not letting my four-year-old son
put on the costume until he get... Listen.
- Okay. You- - Until he's a certain-
- Okay. And that's between you and Tara.
- Facts. - That's why
I said nothing so far.
- Well, you should have kept it that way.
- I've been minding my business all this time,
since we've been here, from day one.
Do I ever say how I feel? Do I ever speak on anybody else?
Everybody else does it and it's okay.
But when I do it, it's wrong.
- When you talking about my mother (bleep) kid, my son.
Yeah. Yes. That's my son.
- Can you join the conversation, Tara?
- [Tara] That's my son as well. We protect the kids.
- And how did you feel about it?
'Cause you were there and you did not say a word.
- This is not gonna be me against the community.
- [Tara] Amina was yelling,
and just calm the (bleep) down.
She can have her opinion. I don't really care,
but if you're gonna bring up my child,
then I have... You know, I'm the voice for them.
Peter and I are on the same page.
(indistinct chatter, soft hip-hop music)
- [Bobby] Peter telling his son
that he can't wear a ladybug,
it reminds me of when my pastor told my mom
that I shouldn't walk feminine.
And matter of fact, I dressed up as a ladybug.
- If you guys, as the parent of Gunner
don't have a problem with that. It's all good.
- But- - And I apologize
and I'm not gonna interfere in your parenting, anymore,
at all, ever again. - I appreciate that.
- [Amina] And it's your issue
and nothing gonna change my own child.
- I appreciate you. Thank you.
- Stop (bleep) screaming!
Give somebody else a (bleep) chance!
- I am not- (bleep)
- [Peter] Thank you!
(overlapping yelling)
- Amina's voice was hitting a pitch that sound
like somebody was scratching the chalkboard.
It was driving me nuts.
- I'm going going to get shut up
every (bleep) time 'cause I'm the nice one.
- [Shekinah] Amina. Amina!
I thought I was the only aggravating cousin.
I didn't know we had another aggravating cousin, too.
See, you'd messed up, Amina. I'm watching you.
- Stop screaming so we can talk!
- [Amina] I'm not gonna get- - [Woman] Shut up!
- [Man] You're not being heard right now.
(overlapping yelling)
- [Amina] Everybody gets to scream at me
and I don't get the scream back? What the (bleep)
- Those three years that we lived together,
he really had control over me to where he could shut me up.
Those times is over and I'm gonna speak up.
I'm gonna say what I wanna say.
- This is my son. I don't need anybody's (bleep)
opinion on my son.
- And I'm just so glad... - Relax.
- I don't have a son with Peter.
'Cause it would be a nightmare.
- It gotta be deep for them, but, lady, for a costume?
- I, but...I'm just saying I'm gonna...
I'm not letting my four-year-old make a decision
to put on a costume.
- Well, bro, you know ladybugs-
- They get of a certain age- - But you do know
ladybugs are also male, right?
- Yeah. But this was a girl one.
(Amina sobbing) - Please, take a deep breath.
Take a deep breath. Calm down.
- Do you know how supportive I'll be of one of my sons
if they come back and say, "Dad, this is what it is,"
more than the other ones
'cause I know what they gon' go through.
You can't change that, if that's what it is.
And I don't want to. I'm not that dude, bro.
(upbeat hip hop music)
- Thank you, guys. I appreciate you.
- No problem. Thank you, Peter, for coming.
I appreciate you.
- [Tara] Amina. Get over here, we've been...
Look, look. - [Woman] It's okay.
- [Tara] We can have differences of opinions as moms.
I'm not trying to argue with you about anything.
We're good and we're not- we don't have a problem now.
- We protect each other's kids is what I want you to know.
- [Amina] I'm so affected by what I learned today
with Jonathan and everything that he went through as a kid.
- I can feel it. I see it. I see it. I see it.
I see it. I see it. I see it. I see it.
We are just two different people
and we're gonna mother differently.
And we have to respect, and hopefully learn something,
from each other that makes us better mothers.
Her kids are happy and so are my kids.
That's all I care about.
We went through what we've been through, Amina.
That is the importance of what we're trying to build.
- I guess we do. I guess, I guess-
- It got outta hand, but we here. I mean, look.
Family fights and we made up. We're good.
- Okay. - We're good.
We're drinking on you tomorrow.
- Okay Good. Okay. We good.
That's all that I want. We still good.
(music crescendo)