Hello. Hi.
Hi. I'm Neave.
I'm very nervous. How are you?
That's all right.
She's out there?
Yeah, she's out here. Say hello.
Hi.
Hey.
How are you?
What's the big deal?
How are you?
I'm a little anxious and nervous, but I'm better.
Absolutely also the same for me.
Okay, well I'm ... This is Elle.
Hi, I'm Alice. And I'm Neave. Nice to meet you again.
We're glad to be here,
butt also I think curious and somewhat confused.
I'm also a little confused and I didn't want to do this.
I was concerned that she called you in the first place
because when you talk to somebody
and then they don't trust who you are,
it made me feel anxious.
I get that. It wasn't that I didn't trust you, but-
You needed to make sure that ...
Yeah, you were real before I gave you all of my heart.
It just hurt my feelings a little bit.
Okay, I'm just going to jump in.
Where does it come in that you aren't able to video chat?
I just didn't think there was
that much of a lack of faith in me.
I didn't that it was like she needed to verify
who I was over FaceTime.
I thought she just wanted to, so it was low urgency for me.
You know what I mean? When I'm talking to a person,
I would really just rather talk
instead of focusing on how I look.
I completely understand. I'm not trying to blame you,
I understand your anxiety over all of this.
But just one little video or something?
I'm not trying to defend her on this side,
but I kind of do understand
because we live in completely different time zones.
Two hour difference though.
Yeah, two hours.
I don't know, I've just never been ...
We don't even talk on the phone.
Why did you block her on Facebook?
I got incredibly anxious about this whole thing.
I have my own anxieties as well
and I just felt like all of this didn't mean as much
because of the fact that she didn't trust who I was.
We spoke to your friend Maddy
and asked her if the phone number that Nique
has for you is the same number she has for you
and she said it's not.
Yeah, I have two phone numbers, one for the people
I know in real life
and one for the people that I meet on Role Play.
That helps me keep things organized
Okay, I have other questions but at the same time
I don't want to front load this.
You guys just met, so maybe we should just check in.
If you guys could go talk,
we cold talk just for a minute and just go over stuff.
Got you.
Cool. I'll got sit with you over here.
Okay, how do you feel?
A lot better.
You feel a lot better?
Yeah. I'm mostly satisfied with the answers
she had to the questions
because I do understand most of them.
Yeah, but I guess ...
Can I be totally honest with you?
Yeah. It just feels [bleep] weird.
Yeah, it's exciting. She's her, she's real,
she's nice but at the same time, you wrote to the show
because there's a whole year where she spent
avoiding being real with you
and now that we're here it's just like,
oh yeah, yeah, water under the bridge.
Never happened, never happened, never happened.
I'm sensing something that's not genuine.
What do you think?
It's okay. She's really sweet. I'm also very nervous.
What has been your impression of this relationship.
I love her. I think she's ...
I used to be romantically interested in her
and we used to flirt a lot,
and then I stopped feeling that way
and without addressing it really,
I just kind of thought it was mutual
because of her relationship with Princess with everything.
At least from what Nique told us,
she has very strong feelings for you.
Yeah. When I was saying I don't feel like TV
is the best place for this,
I meant it's probably not the best place for me
to tell her that I don't have romantic feelings.
Right, I just think it'd be helpful for her
if you were very clear.
Remember, this whole thing Nique, this is for you.
This is your time to question what were her intentions.
There's still some things I want and need to know.
Yeah. Should I go ask her to talk to you?
Yeah.
There's a couple questions she wanted to ask you.
Do you want to go talk to her?
Yeah, yeah. That would be fine.
Can I come in?
Yeah.
What did you guys talk about?
She was attracted physically to Nique at the beginning,
but then she felt like it just turned into a friendship.
The main reason she didn't want to come on the show
is because she didn't want to tell Nique to her face like,
"Hey, I'm not into you."
I've been asking you constantly to come down to Texas,
but you denying each time made me feel
like you didn't want to see me.
I definitely wanted to see you.
It's just because of your relationship with Princess,
I thought it wouldn't hurt your feeling
if I didn't make it down to Texas.
I didn't know you were actively seeking
other romantic polyamorous relationships.
I just didn't think that it was as big of an issue as it was.
I should've listened to what you were saying
and actually taken what you were saying to heart.
I do want to eventually come to California for school.
If you're still in the area,
would you want to be in an actual relationship with me?
I don't think that's what I'm looking for.
But you know, there's so much possible in a few years.
You're not going to come down for a while, so ...
Yeah, that makes me feel a little bit better.
There's still some time left.
Do you want to go back over there?
Yeah.
How'd it go?
We did get a lot of things cleared up.
Possibly in the future if I'm able to come down to California,
it's a possibility for a romantic relationship.
Really?
Yeah.
Well, do you want to leave it for the moment
and we can come back?
Later or tomorrow?
Yeah.
Great, bye.
I feel like today did not go as well as it could have.
A lot of what I said was being misinterpreted
and I didn't really correct her
because I didn't want to embarrass her.
In retrospect, I should have made things clearer.
Hopefully it'll be better tomorrow.