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As a dating god, I get thousands of dating questions and messages per week.
A lot of guys ask me how they can be more confident or how to be more attractive so
they can make girls like them more.
In my godly experience, with goddesses like Hera, Aphrodite, your mom, Athena, and your
stepsister, the NUMBER ONE thing I’ve found that resonates with girls the most is this
one personality trait.
And that one personality trait is being polarizing.
When you’re willing to be unapologetically yourself, say what’s on your mind, and risk
being politically incorrect, girls and people in general will gravitate to you.
When done correctly and tastefully, being polarizing shows tons of authenticity and
it makes people trust you more and want to be around you.
And in a dating context, it’s incredibly effective.
Often times when you first meet a girl, the girl makes a decision on whether or not she
likes you in the first few seconds based on very little information before telling you
to fuck off or entertaining the conversation with you.
Trying to fit in and be like everyone else, results in you doing just that… being like
everyone else… and that’s the problem.
You don’t stand out.
You don’t make a lasting impression.
And you don’t provide any unique value because she can find the same quality of guy and same
characteristics in another guy who just plays it safe.
Everybody nowadays is so scared to say what’s on their mind and be authentic so when you
do it, it comes off as refreshing, daring, and attractive.
Being unapologetically yourself and being strong in that frame is a superpower when
it comes to attracting girls.
Now simply being yourself is half-baked advice.
You can’t just be yourself and expect pussy to start falling from the sky…
You have to learn the skills and psychology behind dating so that you can execute on it
and play to win.
But when it comes to talking to the girl and connecting with the girl, simply being yourself
and being totally comfortable with who you are is an attractive trait that will not only
make more girls like you, but your peers as well.
Now you hear me talk about things that are unattractive all the time.
Things like neediness, lack of confidence, texting the girl too much, and so on…
None of these are necessarily positive traits to have anyways because they have a negative
impact on your life and are a sign of insecurity among other things.
So if you currently have these traits, your life will be better without them.
So by “be yourself” I mean that you should be the best version of yourself, and if you
have negative personality traits, you should be actively working to remove those because
if you don’t your life in general will suffer, not just with women.
The reason “being yourself” doesn’t work for guys is because that alone will not
get you girls.
You still need the skills and understanding in order to get results.
Imagine you were 6 foot 5, 220 pounds of pure muscle and had innate athletic ability, but
you never played basketball before in your life.
You had no idea what the rules were, how to dribble correctly, or how to properly shoot.
You’re gonna get destroyed by guys who are smaller and less athletic than you because
they have a better understanding of the game and they have the skills necessary to win.
In sports, it’s not enough to simply be in shape and have good control of your body,
you have to acquire the skills and knowledge necessary for each sport in order to do well
and get results.
Dating is the same way.
If you’re naturally confident and have good conversational skills, you’re gonna have
better luck than the guy who doesn’t have those things BUT you’re still missing a
huge piece of the puzzle.
Simply being confident and knowing how to carry a conversation doesn’t mean you know
how to make the conversation romantically charged, you know how to escalate it sexually,
or make it physical in a comfortable and smooth way for the girl.
But let’s say you do have the skills necessary to pick up girls… you have all the knowledge
and experience but your personality still lacks... you’re gonna have a tough time
building real, strong connections with girls.
Meanwhile, the guys who are unapologetically themselves and are willing to be polarizing
are going to have more success and better relationships because they’re being authentic.
It’s seriously a cheat code.
The reason guys avoid being polarizing and instead play it safe is because they’re
too worried about offending people.
But the truth is, no matter what you say, somebody somewhere in the world will be offended
by it… you could literally just sit down in a corner in your own house and that would
somehow be offensive to somebody.
You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t.
So you might as well just be honest and authentic in who you are and convey to the girls you’re
talking to because it’ll create better, more honest relationships, and will increase
your attractiveness by a ton.
And that my disciples is it.
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