Hello my wonderful friend! Let's talk about the reasons
why women reject men. If you've been asking
"why do girls reject me?" then the answers are in this video.
The first step to knowing how to avoid rejection forever
is knowing why you're being rejected in the first place. You can't really
fix a problem if you're not sure what the problem is, right?
It's kind of like when you have a leak in the tire. If you don't know where the
leak is coming from you can't fix it. But as soon as you know
where the leak is, where the problem is, then you can fix it. So after this video
you will know why you get rejected by women
so you know what to do about it so you can start fixing it. Sound exciting?
Awesome. Before we dive in if this is your first time watching one of my
videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a
Christian dating coach for men and I teach you how to stop wasting your
time and energy on dead end relationships and just learn
the skills you need to be able to get your ideal girl.
So if that's something you're looking for make sure you subscribe, ring the
notification bell, give me a big thumbs up and make
sure you watch to the end. Let's dive in to the top three reasons
why women reject men. Again, if you keep asking yourself
"why do girls reject me?" then you're about to have a lightbulb
moment. Now our first reason why women reject men
is best explained through a story. It's a story about someone we will call
Charlie for privacy reasons. Now Charlie hadn't been on a date in an incredibly
long time. Several years in fact. But he had noticed this
cute gal and she said she'd go out with him and
he was so excited. He was almost 40 and he was really just
hoping that this time it would finally work. You know he
dated here and there over the years but
nothing had ever lasted long term. Well he got ready for this date, super excited,
super hopeful this was going to be it, and it totally and completely tanked.
And he was heartbroken. He tried so hard, why did it never
work? Why did women always turn him down or why did
all of his relationships end in breakups? And this is when he came to me
and I could feel the pain as he was talking to me.
He started explaining what happened and I quickly realized what the problem was.
There were some massive mistakes he was making that actually caused women to
feel uncomfortable and not want to spend any
more time with him. Now the truth is Charlie is an amazing guy and he's very
very competent in so many areas of his life. He's good at his job,
he's good with his family, but when it comes to dating and relationships
he thought he had really solid dating and relationship skills
but the truth is he just didn't. And because of these mistakes he was making
he didn't understand how to talk to her in such a way that would make her feel
comfortable and attracted to him and really help her feel good when she was
around him. He didn't understand how to ask her out, he didn't know how to
interact with her on the date, what to do on the date, follow up, all of
these things, he just frankly did not have the dating
and relationship skills he needed. And that is why he was almost 40 and
kept being turned down, kept being rejected, kept being
embarrassed, and kept spending his days alone. Now the good
news is as I mentioned yes, I knew instantly the mistakes he was
making but I actually also knew what he needed to do.
All he needed to do was learn those super effective dating and relationship
skills and then he wasn't going to have to worry
about being rejected all the time. Because when you have dating and
relationship skills you get the girl. That's just how it works. So the first
reason why women reject men is if they just frankly don't
have dating and relationship skills. It's not because she's trying to be mean
it's because she feels uncomfortable, the attraction isn't there, and she's just
going to move on and she's going to find somebody else who does have
those skills. Now if you would like to learn more
about how you can learn those crazy effective dating and relationship skills
make sure you watch my free masterclass. You're going to learn the three biggest
mistakes that keep you single. You're going to learn why you are not getting
your ideal girlfriend and what to do instead to get her. You'll also learn the
same five-step framework I teach my paid
clients to get their ideal girlfriends. Seriously guys this is
science. This is cool stuff. So make sure you click the link in the
description below or I will put a link in the pinned
comment to sign up for that and watch it. Again,
totally free, it's gonna help you so much. No more rejection guys,
no more rejection. Now our second reason why women reject men,
if you find yourself asking a lot "okay, why do girls reject me?" there's
a really really good chance that you are attracting
toxic women. Toxic women are gonna mistreat you all day long. All they
really care about is what you can do for them.
And all they really care about is using you to boost their ego, to buy them stuff,
to make them look good, whatever it is, all they really care
about is using you. So yes, they will reject you
and they will break your heart. Another quick story for you. A client of mine
he had no problem getting a girlfriend. He
frequently, you know, had women think he was incredibly attractive and he would
get girlfriends but just when he started thinking "yes!
This is amazing" and he'd start looking for rings
they'd break his heart. Completely and totally break his heart. And he couldn't
understand why. This is when he found me and he enrolled
in my paid program How To Get a Girlfriend
and he told me he was shocked to learn that he was attracting toxic women.
And all this time he thought it was him. All this time he thought "wow, am I just a
loser? Like what's wrong with me?" When in reality he was attracting toxic
women and they don't really care about you they just care about what you can do
for them. And so yeah they'll break your heart at
the drop of a hat. Now thankfully because of my program he was
able to learn the skills he needed to stop attracting those toxic women.
But just realize that if you're getting rejected a lot there's a really good
chance that you are attracting those toxic women. So make sure you watch
this video and this video if you have not yet. They will
help you so much to be able to identify if you are attracting those toxic women
in your life. Quick question before we keep going. I
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to create for you guys so please let me know if you'd like more
videos on how to stop being rejected. Now our next reason why women reject men
is actually because you're just frankly not compatible.
Now I'm a little nervous to say what I'm about to say
because it is true but some people take it way too far and way out of context.
To a certain extent, dating is really just a numbers game. It just is.
You have to start going out with someone getting to know them better before you
know if you're compatible. With that said some
people rely exclusively on the fact that it's a
numbers game and they don't learn those skills they
need. And at that point it's not a numbers game it's a losing game. There is
no way to win if you don't have those relationship
skills that I've mentioned. So you don't want to take it too far. But
with that being said you just have to get to know several
people. Very few people end up with the first person they become
interested in. And so to a large extent it's kind of
normal to get to know someone and realize
maybe this isn't going to work. That is normal. Now with that being said there
are things you can do to reduce that and make that happen
nowhere near as much. For instance, this is why if you've watched my
masterclass you know this, one of the first things I teach my paid
clients is you've got to create clarity. You need to really know what it is you
want. And when you do that you save yourself
so much time guys. Seriously so much time because you are better able
to identify if you're compatible before you even get
to know her. It's going to save you a lot of heartbreak, right?
This is the power of creating that clarity. So if you haven't yet watched my
masterclass make sure you sign up through the link in the description
below or I will put a link in the pinned comment.
Seriously this is the fastest and easiest way to get your dream girl so
make sure you give it a watch. So bottom line with this guys is that
sometimes you're just not compatible and that's normal. And it's key to not take
that personally but also learn the dating and
relationship skills you need and create that clarity
so that you don't run into this problem anywhere near as often.
Make sense? So now you know that the main reasons why women reject
men is if one, you don't have the dating and relationship skills you need.
Seriously as a coach this is something I see so
frequently. So much more frequently than you would
think. So if you find yourself rejected again that's something you need to
address. The second thing is if you're just
attracting those toxic women. They are going to use you, they're going
to abuse you, and you're going to feel terrible. You will find yourself rejected
frequently. And three if simply you are just not
compatible. Which does happen but there are things
you can do to reduce that if not remove that from even happening. Thank
you so much again for watching my amazing friend!
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more reminder, if you want to make sure you just avoid
rejection for good make sure you check out that
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I think that's it. [laughter] Yay! So let's sum up. Now- Okay what? I think
that's everything. [singing] Cause you're my everything! Name that
song. It's a goodie. [laughter] Okay.
I'm ad-libbing now. Can you tell? I think I did it!
So proud of myself.