How to make a woman want you and trigger instant attraction so that she's constantly
all over you. What's up, guys?
My name is Mossab Alsadig. If you're new to the channel, I'm a dating and relationships
coach. I hope guys get better with women.
I've done it for a lot of guys and I'd like to do it for you as well.
So by the end of this video, I'm going to teach you exactly what it takes to get a
woman to want you. What kind of things trigger instant attraction in the same way
that a nice body triggers instant attraction for us so that you can implement this and
start getting women to chase you.
All right, let's get into it.
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So in order to learn how to make a woman attracted to you, in order to learn what
triggers, in order to learn how to trigger attraction, you first have to learn what
triggers attraction. So in learning anything, there's really three things that
you need to know in order to get better at a thing, which is, first of all, what to do,
and then it's how to do it.
And then if you know what to do and how to do it, you need to ask yourself why you're
not doing it, which kind of goes into the inner game and enter the mindset and
mentality and masculinity stuff.
But for now, let's first of all talk about what you need to do.
And the thing you need to do is trigger specific attraction triggers that are
biologically hardwired to get women attracted.
And so these have evolved through evolution and the things that women look for in the
same way that we look for a big butt or big boobs, long hair, you know, slim waist and
all this stuff. So let me tell you about the few things that women consistently look for,
and we'll get them attracted no matter who they are.
And this is not a personal preference thing.
It's not like, oh, some women like this, not all women like this.
That's all nonsense, right? So if you just follow what I'm saying, you'll be able to
track women consistently if you can show these characteristics.
So the first thing is for women, it's all character traits.
It's all personality traits that they're looking for, because in ancient times, in
caveman times, they had to be with a guy who had good survival value, right?
The women bore the children and raised them and the guy took care of the children and
her. So she needs a guy who's able to take care of her, defend her and the kid from
other stuff, like from outside forces, whether it's animals or other people, and be
able to survive in the world.
So if you can show qualities that make you seem like you have a higher survival value,
this will become attractive.
And so what are the things that can show that?
So the first one is to be a leader of men.
So if you can tell a story about how you lead guys, whether you're a manager at work
or you're president or whatever, of some club that shows that you or maybe you do
public speaking, whatever the case may be, if you can show that, you can show that
you're a leader of men, you can also show it in person.
If you know you are leading guys and you're saying, hey, let's go over here, let's go to
this part of the bar, you know, grabbing grabbing drinks for people, like telling
them, asking them what what they want and sort of showing that you are the leader where
everybody's is focused attention on you that is very, very attractive.
That's number one. So another one is pre-selection showing that you have other
women in your life. There's also evolutionary adapted because women want to
see that other women like you because instead of doing the legwork to figure out if
you're cool, they can just trust.
Trust another woman's judgment to see.
Okay, yeah, he's cool because this other girl likes him and she has no reason to like
like a guy when he's not worthy.
That's pre-selection. Another one is to show that you are a protector of your loved ones.
So even if you're a leader, if you're a if you're pre-selected by the women, if you
don't show that you can protect your loved ones, then you're kind of useless as a guy,
right? She wants the guy who's willing to protect her potential children that she has
with him. So if you show that you can you take care of your elderly parents.
If you show if you have a job that takes care of people, if you're a doctor,
obviously, that's a great one.
So anytime you can imbue these characteristics from your life and if you
don't have these characteristics, that's the first order of business, is to work on
building those, getting those out there.
So whether it's taking care of a dog, showing that you're really good at taking
care of your friends and like helping them out and all this sort of stuff that shows
that you're a protector of loved ones.
The other one is a successful risk taker.
So if you can show that you take risks, right?
So this goes back to hunting, right?
So if you can show that you back then, if you went out, hunted, brought back the the
animal and it was a success, even though it was a risk that you might have gotten killed
in all that. It's very attractive, right?
Because you brought back the food to the tribe, helped everyone eat.
You know, it's very much attractive in that sense.
So if you can show nowadays that you successfully take risks, whether that's in
business, whether that's you could show it with women.
So if you very confidently go up in approach that shows that you're taking a risk and
she's going to be impressed and attracted to that.
So that's one simple way to do that.
But it's through your story. So, you know, do you ride motorcycles?
Do you go skydiving? Do you take high risk behaviors that pay off?
Right. Have you quit your job to go all in on something and ended up working out?
If you have a story like that, be sure to tell it right in the very beginning.
So she knows that you're an attractive guy.
Before you try to get to know her or anything, you have to first show why you're
cool. So why should she want to get to know you?
And you need to establish this through either your Instagram or your public pages or
through storytelling in person, anything like that.
So that's high risk taker, successful risk taker.
And the last one is your emotional circuitry should be stable, should be healthy.
And this is just through your vibe, through having a good time with people, through being
funny, through cracking jokes, through being lighthearted and not being all down and upset
at a party or something like that that shows that you're kind of imbalanced and there's
something wrong. And that's, that sucks because a lot of guys, when they are in a low
position in life, maybe something is going wrong for them.
It's very hard to fake good emotions, right?
There's there's ways around it where you can, for example, put a pencil in your mouth
and smile. And the more you smile, the better your emotions will be.
So not only can you think thoughts and affect your emotions, you can actually do
physical actions that will affect your emotions.
So when you're happier, when you're able to smile and you show that you're nice to people
and your vibe is good and you're not going to turn into a killer or a serial killer and
a killer in the middle of the night that is attractive to women.
So the way to do this is through your storytelling, imbue any of these
characteristics in the story.
And the point of the story isn't to show this right.
It's not, look at me.
I protect my loved ones.
It's a it should be a small part of the story where you say, I went back to my
parents. You know, you went back to to visit and you had to take care of them for a little
bit. And then while you were there, something else happened, right?
So it's kind of like a like a drive by.
You sort of tell that, that you share that positive quality and then you tell the rest
of the story, which has kind of nothing to do with it.
And that's how you demonstrate higher value.
So the point because otherwise, if you say I take such good care of my parents, you know,
I'm with them all the time and you know, they're getting older.
It just sounds like a bragging, right?
So you don't want to do that. You don't want it to be a side portion of the story and the
story. It is something to do with something else.
Now, the second big way is to use mystery and intrigue.
But before we get to that, I want to encourage you and ask you, would you consider
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So when it comes to mystery and intrigue, there's two ways to do this.
So the first way is through your verbals, right?
Is to show her that you can get her or that you that she can get you or she might not be
able to write. So I talk about this a lot, is suspend her from between hope and doubt.
So if she thinks I can get this guy, maybe I can't.
That causes intrigue.
And so when where mystery comes into play is to show, first of all, talk slowly, slower,
and then talk with pauses in your in your speech.
Right? So talk slower and also talk with a lower tone.
So when you simply talk slower, this adds intrigue and this adds mystery because a
person who's talking slower, first of all, why is why is he doing that right?
He must have all the time in the world to simply talk slower and and wait for people to
or people will wait on him.
Right. So this shows a high level of value and women will sense this.
So if you can simply talk slower and keep her suspended between hope and doubt, through
things like teasing, through things like doing pushes like push away, don't always
constantly be chasing her and pulling her into you, right?
If you instead of going in for a hug, you can push her away like playfully a little bit
first and then go in for the hug.
So when you can combine this dynamic between pushing and pulling, it adds to the
excitement as to the intrigue and it adds to the mystery as well, because like, who is
this guy? Why he's, first of all, cool because of the stories he told and the
characteristics that he has. But then maybe I won't be able to get him.
Maybe I can, especially.
And this works better if it's a super hot girl who is constantly used to getting the
guy that she wants right. If she's constantly used to guys walking like throwing
themselves all over her and just catering to her every whim.
If you're not the kind of guy that does that, this will instantly add mystery and
intrigue because you stand out from all the other guys.
So if you're able to do that, if you're able to withhold your attention, your interest,
until you see that she likes you, this will be very good for you in sparking attraction
in the very beginning. So avoid anything that will make you seem like a simp like any
other guy. So if you go up and say, Hey, you're so beautiful, I had to buy you a
drink. How many guys do you think after that?
Probably this week. Probably 50, right?
20 to 50 guys that have asked her that this week.
So when you think about what all the other guys that what they do, all you have to do is
just be different from them and you'll be put in a different category of, oh, this
guy's at least different. This is interesting. I want to get to know more.
But if you do stuff that every single other guy does, if you cater to her, if you text
her all day and night versus withdrawing and having other stuff to do when she likes you,
then this will cause her to chase.
This will cause her to say, why is he not treating me like all those other guys?
I wonder what's going on. And this will cause that intrigue and that is what
attraction is to women.
Attraction to women is intrigue and interest, not lustful.
I need to have sex with them, right?
It's just intrigue.
So if you think about it that way, you think about what kind of ways you can trigger
intrigue in the woman. So simply being different from all the other guys will do
that, right, by being having different characteristics.
The five that I mentioned earlier and also getting her to chase by not being so present
all the time or doing all the stuff that the other guys do.
And this leads me in to point number three, which is to be untamable, right?
You want to be a lion and not a little lamb.
So you want to be a lion who's basically untamable, right?
You want to be that guy who she thinks of as kind of wild.
That's to do with this successful risk taking.
But also you want to be a guy who she thinks she has to work hard to get right, because
the more somebody works hard for something, the more they value the thing that they
actually get. So if you are a high value guy, you will naturally make people work
harder to be in your life, right?
You want to be selective. You want to be very exclusive with who you let in and out of
your life or in your life.
So if you think about a high value person, right, Bill Gates, whoever, just any any
person who's hard to get a hold of, they are more valuable because of their attention,
because of who they let into their lives.
Bill Gates and all these billionaires have levels of assistance, right?
Not just one assistant, but their assistants have assistants and those have assistants.
So it's very hard to get a hold of them.
You're basically not going to be able to.
And if you can sort of have that in your life as you become more attractive, as you
work on going out and approaching women and bettering yourself through your fitness,
through your job or career or business, you need to also add layers, the same improvement
to your attention and the way you let people in your life.
So as you get better in life, you want to be more you have stronger filters for who?
What kind of women talk to you, what they can say to you.
The boundaries should be more enforced and stronger so that you're not just walked all
over, even though you're a high value guy.
There are so many people that are millionaires that don't know how to interact
with women because they don't treat themselves as millionaires.
They don't treat themselves as I'm a millionaire.
I'm this guy who's high value that this woman needs to earn, right?
They think they need to earn the woman, which is completely the wrong mindset and
just puts them at a bad position when talking to her.
And she's going to be attracted to this. She's not going to want you.
So think about how you can be more selective with your attention, how you can be more
untamable and be that wild guy.
The more you can be that, the more attractive you want to be to women.
So I hope that that's a bunch of ways where you can be more attractive to women and get
them to want you through building intrigue and mystery.
And also, if I just mentioned, if you'd like, help with implementing this stuff in
your dating life, go ahead and check out the links below.
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You will be able to fill out a form, pick a time on my calendar and we'll be able to see
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