- I just want to show the world that we're just as normal.
- Want the same things.
- And we want the same things everybody else wants.
We look at all those little people out there and think,
we just want the best future for them.
- Can you look at me for one second?
And can you give me a big smile?
You look like a princess.
- So good, girl.
- Beautiful Cassie,
- But something just as simple as
combing their hair could make a big different.
On my YouTube channel,
I do easy style tutorials
that anybody can do.
I'm not surprised that John and Kelly
don't know what to do
because it takes a lot.
You have to actually learn this from someone,
but they can learn.
They can literally get online,
they can look up how to style the girl's hair
to at least to get your baby hair popping.
- Okay.
This is going to be great Cassie.
- I don't like my baby hair.
- Why?
They're beautiful.
A lot of little Brown girls like you
have an issue with their hair
because they just don't know what to do with it.
Once you figure out how to manage it, trust me,
it's so beautiful.
Sometimes as little girls of color,
our hair becomes an issue.
So for them to just have a little bit of confidence,
if I could give that to them,
I'm gonna go home happy.
- Wow.
(drum beats)
- I'm teaching everybody about drums
and everybody's excited.
(drum beat)
And this is one of my favorite games
to play with my children
and the person that plays the drums
is the person that will decide
when the music stops.
So we can incorporate my favorite game,
the Kashishi game,
and I think they actually are gonna love it.
The first person to grab the kashishi,
gets to stay in the game.
(drum beat)
Don't forget to escape.
(cheer)
- Paul is so excited,
he's actually getting involved.
I'm so excited.
(cheer)
- Me. - I, me.
- Typically people with autism are antisocial.
The fact that Sophia.
was able to pull some good things
that I feel that typically a lot of people
have a hard time dealing with kids with autism.
So, she definitely gets some points on that one.
(everyone cheering)
- So, what did you really think
when you saw our photo?
Were you like surprised or?
I just didn't expect it.
So I'm like, I didn't know.
- You just don't know any gay people
or are you guys choose to go?
- No, I just don't know anybody.
Am I allowed to say gay?
(laugh)
- Mh.
- Yes.
- Like I, because nobody talks about it.
Chuck grew up with a very religious family
who definitely was against that.
- I just want to show the world
that we're just as normal.
- Want the same things.
- We want the same things everybody else wants.
We look at all those little people out there
and think we just want the best future for them.
- This whole experience is new for me.
I think most people are kind of,
they're just scared of what mom or dad
or grandma or grandpa gonna think.
- So we're no different than we would have been before.
- That's right.
So you might have a high school friend,
and they said, "Oh, by the way, I'm gay."
Would that change what you're talking about them?
- No.
It is a very new experience.
It's kind of opening my eyes up a little bit.
I don't think I'm really learning a lot.
- The idea of finding time to go on a date
is the hardest thing in the world.
A lot of times we play video games together.
- And she will play that?
- Oh, she's more competitive than me.
What do you do for fun?
- I can't think of a lot we'd do without the kids.
We don't really make enough time.
Yeah, I don't think that's really high
in Virginia's list.
I just don't think she really likes
going on dates that much with me.
- Having the conversation with Dwight,
it's all I'm seeing is this marriage is in trouble.
He's going down the wrong path,
Spending time with Virginia,
do you want it to be your priority?
- Virginia makes herself so busy
because she likes to accomplish things.
That's really hard sometimes.
I love her incredibly.
- Right.
- But I don't know that she would really believe it
if I said it directly that way.
As much as you want to make somebody happy,
you can't do it all yourself.
I don't know how it's going to work
to try to have more time together
with Virginia as a couple.
But it's something that I'm certainly willing
to work toward.
- What would be something you'd like to do for Virginia?
- I would like to really focus on being kind to her.
And I feel like I already am,
but when I actually step back and look at it,
I don't think I'm doing that enough.
- I love showing how I live,
but it's not about food
and it's not about video games
and I'm hoping that they can make time for each other.
- I was just really broken.
- No one mocks my wife.
(soft upbeat music)
- Hey.
- Hey. Do you mind if we just chat for a minute?
- Sure, yes of course.
(upbeat music)
- I feel like he probably see me
and I'm an outsider
and you know just a tiny bit about me,
but I see a lot of unhealthy things happening here.
I really want to give this family some nutritional guidance.
When I opened your pantry,
I saw the biggest offender in Western diet.
Vegetable oil.
- Vegetable oil is in all your fried foods.
It's in your chicken nugget.
- I think Virginia, mommy judges.
- I see things that have corn syrup, processed sugar.
Another one you've got in here
is Sodium Benzoate.
It's a carcinogenic substance.
So we'd like to get these out.
- I try not to get defensive.
- That causes brain tumors,
diabetes, cancers,
it's bad.
- I just feel attacked.
- When I watch my kids eat things
that I know are loaded with processed preservatives
and all those things,
it makes me cringe.
- It almost came across as like,
oh my God, I can't believe
you're feeding your kids poison.
- It's sometimes hard to accept responsibility
for what you're feeding your kids
and what you're putting in their bodies.
(upbeat music)
So.
- We are going camping,
living room camping.
So far,
- Can we bring our devices?
- Heck no.
It is time to pull.
the plug.
- What?
- It's just itty bitty, tiny,
it's pull.
That didn't hurt did it?
- She's removing the internet to make a point.
And that point is costing me points.
It's costing me coins.
Timeout.
- I just pulled it.
- No.
- No time out.
- All this is cool and all,
but I need to do real work
on the internet that involves my yellow cord
in the wall.
- Just go with it, it'll be okay.
(breaths in)
inhale, exhale.
- I'm normally used to having me internet.
So this is going to be crazy.
- You don't clean.
This quarter here's what we're doing.
- We've only been there two and a half years,
but there's still four years of dirt.
Things are not dirty and terrible.
I clean.
- So walking up the steps, right,
and almost tripped.
And I want to touch the banister,
and I looked over at the banister,
and when I tell you,
they were filthy.
- It's not that dirty.
(upbeat music)
- Oh my goodness.
I would've rather just feel the hit my hand,
than touch no banister.
- Well, I saw that you swept eight times a day.
- At least.
- That's a little obsessive.
- And I'm okay with it.
You can never be too plain.
- Whatever.
So,
you're referred to your family as the Williams Company,
so in my experience as a lawyer,
my first rule was time off.
No cleaning for a day.
- What?
Why?
- To show them, the house is not going to fall apart.
And things are not going to be dirty and terrible.
- Let me, let's just be clear,
you gotta have rules,
you gotta have structure.
When you know people are coming to your home,
like for me,
I wanna make sure my home is in order.
'Cause you are a guest, right?
And I feel like respect me enough
to have your house clean.
I really felt disrespect.
I really do.
- Okay, so I just thought I'm supposed to be here
as your role and I'm not getting to be your role.
I'm being guarded away from the babies.
So I was like, what am I doing here?
So he's like, okay, we'll make you feel at home.
Here's some garbage bags,
let's go clean up poop in the backyard.
Well, they really hit a nerve on me
when him and Lena were up on the balcony,
mocking me.
Fine, we'll just sit back here
and just watch her clean up the poop.
He totally,
- So why was the mocking going on?
- Because she equated being gay to eating dog food.
Like that's wrong.
- Yeah.
- And I took offense to that.
- I was just really broken.
- No one locks in my wife.
(soft upbeat music)
- Yeah, this is going to be very interesting.
- Dear Heavenly Father,
I pray for strength right now.
Take away this feelings,
that I won't to reach across that table
and smack him right on his face.
- All right, let's do this.
- I really wanted Jack to step up a little bit more
and do the 'woman things', as he says.
Mrs. Doing everything for everyone else.
And he's not as appreciative as he should be.
- All right, here's the deal,
if you're over here watching,
I'm not going to do this.
- Oh, please.
- Okay.
- I'll be standing right here.
- Nope.
Well, here we go again.
No, this is over.
- I didn't even say anything to you.
- No, I'm really not doing this
if she's standing there for real.
- He was over my shoulder the entire time
when it was his rules.
What is the problem?
- This is just ridiculous.
He literally has just said no
with everything I've asked for him for my new rules.
- I'm not going to do this.
- He does this crap all the time.
- What is the problem?
What's the problem?
'Cause I'm not going to do this right here.
This is what we're not gonna do.
- The point is I want all you just leave
'cause I'm not playing.
- Oh, dad, dad chill.
- I ain't playing, now.
This is for real.
(upbeat music)
- He's not gonna do anything.
And he's not gonna do it
'cause I am a woman.
- I'm not gonna have her over my shoulder.
I'm pissed because I saw a totally different side of him.
- You wanna learn something, asked me.
- I don't wanna have anything else to do with him.
I think you should come in here and help me.
- I appreciate the fact that you're this strong woman,
but think about making some food, okay?
And unless you pay some bills around here,
you can't come in and tell the Jackstern what to do.
- That's garbage.
(upbeat music)
- Good morning.
- All right, so here's the deal,
I gotta get outta here,
but I made you a list.
It's all the stuff that Megan would normally do
throughout the day.
I will leave this with you.
All right, I gotta go to work.
I'll see you guys later, okay?
- I don't know if he really leaves a list
for Megan every single day,
but if he does, like, that's kinda messed up.
This is a lot thing.
(coughs)
Eew.
- Buckle up Carter.
- Walk the dog.
Dalsy, stay here.
Pick up the playroom.
Careful, careful. Thank you.
- Chair lifting.
- Bathrooms. Krista doesn't do bathrooms.
You people just go make sure they're picked up, okay?
I think that's what Megan does anyway.
- She cleans the bathroom.
- Are you sure?
- Yeah, she cleans the toilet too.
- For real?
- Yeah.
- That's not happening.
Clean up breakfast.
Do you ever help mommy clean?
- Oh, no.
- Baby be careful.
Annoying.
Oh, this is gross.
So many other things I'd rather be doing.
Chuck's not going to be happy with it anyway,
so what's the point?
I say it's good enough.
We're steaming, right?
Is this what daddy likes?
- Yeah.
If Chuck leaves a list like this every day for Megan,
I'm not sure how she hasn't lost her mind.
- Take a step in the mark.
(laugh)
- Looking good.
You could look better.
Try it again.
Try it a gain, will mommy be satisfied with that?
Is that up to par?
- Looking at these tests right now,
it's like training, training, training.
It's like, when does this stop?
- Start over.
No, come on.
I know they'll be here all night,
so, let's get it right.
- Calif is saying we will not stop
until you get it perfect
and that's pushing too much.
- Come on, gotta pay attention mate.
- And is not given encouragement.
- Try again.
- How much drive can you give your kids
until they can't take it anymore?
- You gotta pull it together.
- It's too much.
[Narrator] - As the day goes on,
Saffier realizes that there's no break
for the super structured legends kids.
- Dylan wash the dishes.
Twins, what did you do wrong?
Try it again.
All right, Lily, is that up to par?
Do you think your mom be satisfied with that?
I think I did a good job.
[Calif] - Miss, ma'am, madam, do you pay rent here?
Try it one more time.
Hey D, slow it down.
Start over again.
Just like your mom would do it.
I tell you what, I miss Sophia,
do you think you can listen to it
for a second and tell me what you think?
- Sure, yeah.
And you can help Lilly as well.
- What I'm feeding right now
with these kids is that they need more time
just to be themselves.
- Hey, do you think he can read it one more time
and you kind of just go through it with them?
- Definitely.
- Okay, so she's going to listen again.
So just do it from right there.
- It's too much happening all at once.
- Cause you've checked their work
and just make sure they're on track.
- And it's making me feel crazy inside.
Everyone just needs to stop.
So how long did they sit at the table?
Until the food is ready and,
- We try to give about an hour.
If it's a busy day
and we're not able to get the food prep,
we have to kind of do a quick meal.
And so the microwave kind of comes in handy.
Go ahead and let's clear the table.
Go ahead and put away your books.
Go to your rooms,
washed up, make sure your rooms are tidy.
- Work together.
Will power.
- Okay, stand up straight.
- Focus and pay attention.
- Oh my gosh,
we can play olden day.
We have this game,
- [Narrator] Attempting to lead a life unplugged,
internet savvy China is busy getting to know
the de Garmo kids.
But is about to take a step back in time
with a game they created called, olden days.
- We have hats like this.
- Right now, I'm really missing my internet
I just don't know exactly what I wanna do.
Like what I would do without technology.
- Be careful, there snakes down here.
- Gosh.
To be honest, I do think
there's some wildlife out here,
so I'm a little bit nervous.
Hold on. - Okay.
There's a spider in the doorway.
I'm really in the forest.
Like this is no, it's not a game.
This is not a joke.
- I'm turning the butter.
- We need this to cut the butter
when we're making it.
- Oh, this looks really dangerous.
These Core kid have to play in the mud for fun.
That's not right.
So if they had the internet,
I think that they will be able to get more inspiration.
- That's what people back then kind of used.
- They sure did.
You're absolutely right.
Olden days, they didn't have knives.
What am I thinking?
I think Grace is absolutely brave.
I wouldn't have touched a single inch of that mud.
Go grace, but I'm not doing it.
How would I look trying to get mud out of these nails.
I mean, you know how long would like take me?
All right, we're waiting on sister to make the cake
we're cleaning up.
I actually think that Olden Day video
would be amazing.
Slice it right here.
All right.
If the kids had internet,
I feel like Grace probably would look up
other kids doing something like this.
I think they're missing out on a lot.
Let's go home.
- Look, here's the menu.
We have to label everything,
but you got to cook.
- Coming from my house,
we eat out a lot 'cause I don't cook.
I have no desire to do this.
There's no way I should be cooking
for five hours for some man
that is fully capable of doing it himself.
What are you going to do, just stand here?
I think you should come in here right here.
- I appreciate the fact that you're this strong woman,
but think about making some food, okay?
Unless you pay some bills around here,
you can't come in and tell the Jackster what to do.
- That's garbage.
Jack generalizes everything on male or female,
he differentiates everything based on what gender you are.
And it sucks.
It shouldn't take five hours.
- I heard you say five hours.
That includes cleanup time because you know,
we have to clean up.
- Like I'm being watched and critiqued,
leave me alone.
- Tuddles.
- Women.
- I don't think Missty necessarily wants
to do all of this,
I think she has to because it's what he wants.
- I thought a one more thing.
What we'll do,
is we'll let you eat one of these two
to make sure you cook it,
- I don't eat chicken.
- Hey, my rules.
- It's not ridiculous,
it's like a two year old child I'm dealing with.
I don't even deal with this with my kids.
(soft upbeat music)