16 Signs A Guy Likes and Is Into You!
#16 Two Texts-In a Row!
No.
He.
Did.
Not.
Did that guy just text you twice in a row without making you wait?
And he's not your boss, asking you to work late?
Girl, he's not just eager.
He's grade-A into you.
Look, no guy wants to appear desperate by lighting up your phone with text after text.
So, if he's doing this, he's hot on your trail and wants you to notice.
This also means he is confident with openly communicating with you.
This is not every man, though.
There are still those who prescribe to texting in far-between intervals, You know, so they
don't come off as too desperate.
This brings us to our next point.
#15 The Waiting Game Can we just throw this sophomoric game out
the relationship window?
This guy is totally into you, and is trying not to come off too strong or seem too desperate
for attention and conversation.
He will text you back every time, but will wait an unusually long time between texts.
This guy digs you, and likely, wants you to show more interest.
This way he can inch himself closer without feeling like he's overstepping his boundaries.
The major indication he likes you is that he constantly texts back.
If he's just being spotty and dodgy then you may not be dealing with a willing man.
Make sure there are other clear signs of interest.
Just in case he isn’t actually playing hard to get.
Know the difference, so you don’t get hurt if you like him.
And avoid a potentially embarrassing situation if you misread his signals.
#14 Grocery Store Buddy When a guy is willing to do simple things
with you such as a casual stop at the grocery store, he’s interested in you and enjoys
spending time with you.
Especially if he’s inviting himself or asking if you'd like him to "tag along".
Based on your mutual need for sustenance, it’s a win-win.
Can you blame him for exploiting this loophole?
If the grocery trips begin to feel kind of like dates, maybe something beyond friendship
is brewing.
A potential bonus is that a man who shops well, might also cook well.
#13 An Open Book He is not an open book with everyone.
He's introducing you to his interests because he is motivated to find common ground between
the two of you.
When a guy goes out of his way to share personal interests with you, he is also revealing his
deeper self.
Maybe in an attempt to impress you with his vast interests and knowledge.
This is a great position, because it may reveal some important details about his character
and principles.
After all, a guy who tells you what he has just named his puppy will probably give you
different vibes than the one who lets you in on his deep-rooted obsession with collecting
fingernail clippings.
Ick.
#12 The Introduction You are at a trendy bar or a crowded party
and a guy approaches you.
He can either be alone or with a friend.
The important detail is that he is introducing himself to you and trying to strike up conversation.
This guy has probably noticed you since you stepped through the door and has finally decided
to make a move.
If he talks to you for more than a few minutes and remains engaged, this is a good sign he
is interested.
Unless you sense an ulterior motive, such as making another girl jealous, he’s likely
a guy who wants to create a spark with a pretty girl.
#11 The Cold Shoulder This one provides nice contrast from the forward
type, and is also a bit counter-intuitive.
Some guys have figured out that women really don’t like to be ignored, so they will purposely
ignore you in an attempt to get you interested.
It’s not as easy to read this type of guy correctly, and probably the last way you want
a man show his intentions.
But, some people enjoy challenges, so this behavior works on some personality types.
It’s important to observe the context around a situation like this.
Maybe he’s annoyed with you, hence ignoring you.
So, it’s probably not an attempt to lead you on.
If a guy that appears shy or you don’t know well is giving a cold shoulder, it could be
for a variety of reasons.
However, if it’s a guy who’s friendly with you, and has displayed other signs of
interest; he’s more than likely playing this little game with you.
#10 Remembers The Details One biggie is that he remembers your name
after your first time meeting.
No matter how brief and casual it was.
If he remembers your name, that's a sign that he's either on top of things, interested in
you, or both.
Those are all good signs in my book.
Or, he could have looked you up to remember your name.
That’s either creepy, or sweet.
You need to be the judge of that.
To test whether or not he is paying attention to you, refer back to what you said a few
minutes ago.
Just to see if he’s following.
Don't interrogate the poor guy because you'll scare him away.
But just discreetly checking if he's on the same page is a good way to measure his interest
(and memory lol).
If you can tell that he has no idea what you have been talking about, he probably has his
mind elsewhere and isn't in the moment with you.
On the other hand, if he is engaged and responding with interest and sincerity, that means he
cares.
#9 He’s A Giver A giving guy naturally makes attempts at the
most basic and primitive male instinct - to provide.
He is essentially showing you that he is capable of keeping you satisfied.
There really shouldn’t be another reason that a guy would regularly buy, or lend, you
things.
An honorable one, anyway.
If a guy insists on buying you, and only you, every coffee, then he wants to impress you.
If the attempts at winning you over with material goods seems too desperate, then look at that
as a sign and back off.
And, if there is a good occasion to give you a gift, but the man does not take advantage
of the opportunity, this could also be a sign that that he’s not attentive or genuine.
#8 Old News To His Friends When you are introduced to his friends, you
feel like they have heard about you thousands of times.
Maybe it even seems like they were anticipating your qualities or already have questions about
details of your life that they couldn't have possibly known.
If this is the case, it's because your name has been regularly spewing forth from his
mouth.
He hasn't been able to contain himself, so he’s been gushing about you to his buddies.
If they seem to have inside jokes and are cold toward you, that may indicate something
rude has been said.
If they are kind and treat you with respect, this is a sign that your potential man has
good character and is respectful.
#7 Tell-tale Toes Look down.
See his toes?
Where are they pointing?
Well, if they are pointing right at you the whole time you are talking, then you have
an energetically interested man on your hands.
What a gift!
As long as this guy isn't a creeper, I'd say he's a keeper!
But, if his feet wonder and his body seems to be pulling away from you, then he might
just want to escape.
So, really look at his body language and try to translate it.
If you listen to your intuition, you will know if you’re standing across from a potential
partner.
#6 Eyes Tell No Lies Doesn't that slip off of the tongue well?
I think so.
Anyway, it's true.
If his eyes dart away from yours, he may feel uncomfortable and want to exit your convo.
However, if your eyes lock at first sight, and throughout your conversation, it’s a
magical feeling and a great sign.
You should see his eyes light up with interest when you speak to him.
The goal is to see a spark of happiness in his eyes when you look at each other.
This sign cannot be mistaken.
You will feel it in his gaze if he really cares about you.
So pay special attention to his eyes, they truly are windows to the soul.
Just a quick note, though.
Even if he does not gaze into your eyes, or hold them in his for more than a beat, he
still might like you.
He just might be a little shy, and that’s cool, too.
#5 Digital Exuberance Oh yeah, the day after you meet him he’s
already added you on every social media platform.
This poor guy has even endorsed all of your skills on the Linked biz sites.
Now he is sending you that casual, "Hey, blah blah, let's meet up" via Instagram.
While this may come off as intrusive, this is the world we live in.
Technology has its place.
You’re currently checking out these tips, right?
=) The best move is to respond back and see what he has in mind.
This could be the beginning of something great.
Created, in part, by the strange magic of technology.
I suggest you pair his online interest with genuine interest.
Stalkers are not attractive nor ideal mates.
#4 Relationship Detective "So...
do you have a boyfriend?"
“Seeing anyone?”
He suddenly asks, when the opportunity arises.
If he hears that you are not taken, his interest in you will likely increase.
You should begin to notice even more signals that he's into you.
If a guy asks you this type of question, it gives you the opportunity to declare your
intentions.
You can turn him away by replying something along the lines of, "No, because I don't want
one right now."
Or, maybe you are, in fact, single and totally ready to mingle!
#3 The Lean-In It's almost as if you are a magnet and he
is a man-shaped pillar of steel.
Whenever the two of you talk, he seems to lean closer and closer until he is practically
in your lap.
It's not like he's moving in for a kiss.
Much more like he's trying to seem as engaged as possible; resulting in him eventually encroaching
on your personal bubble.
If you find this type of situation occurs on a regular basis, this guys is totally crushing
on you.
#2 Laughing Partners You are sitting in a big group and someone
cracks a joke that sends everyone into a laughing frenzy.
This is a prime situation to feel out the intentions of the present men.
If a guy is into you, you might look at you every time he laughs.
This is a major sign that, in his mind, there is already a connection between you.
People tend to look at the person they are most comfortable with or desire the most when
they laugh in a group setting.
Next time you’re wondering if a guy is into you, just wait for a moment of laughter, and
try to spot whose gaze is beaming in your direction.
#1 Your Interests Are His Lo and behold!
That band you introduced him to last week is now his new jam.
Oh, and that movie you told him about - also his new fav.
This either means the two of you are just naturally similar.
Or more likely, he's trying to build connections between you with similarities in taste.
Watch for a pattern to emerge.
If you notice that he continues with this type of behavior, it’s because he really
likes you.
If you decide to pursue him, it will be interesting to see how similar the two of you really are!
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