this one recently did aid profile on haiti a mormon man who has decided to
live his life
as a straight guy now these are your closet his wife knows he's gay he
completely admits that he's attracted to men as opposed to women
but he says that he loves this way happily and that he's not trying to
force other people to live
their lives the way he is
now let's watch at the video quickly and then i'll give you some of the squads
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genuinely love my wife
networking failed
defense
anti-government opposite
where your typical mormon family
and we have three dea five daughters anis
six
the vest for and testing is to the mormon faith is such a huge preferably
car writing about for prayer
mr heston
mormonism is incredibly
important as a part of my life
basic family father
they have for this day
thank you for our family
remained in this case they had
amma and and dot t_
so one thing that mister meraz different than most is the fact that i am
homosexual
directors and marijuana recruiters are one of her
remarks
it's up to ten interesting story to say the least but he says
you know if you're gay i mean their proms and consulate in your life
in either way
so he really wanted to have children he really wanted to stay true to his
religion which is part of the reason why he made his decision to marry a woman
i'd just give you some more context into what he's going to i just find this
entire case was really interesting
that scan
you know or what how do you feel when you walk into a room of naked people
naked men naked women what are you attracted to he says the following
i've never found a question the cuts in the heart of the matter more effectively
sellick everyone in this room took off their clothes
would you be turned on by the girls are the guys might answer which i didn't say
out loud was unquestionably the guys and it was unquestionably not the girls and
that's still is my cancer it's really not very complicated yes it is because
it was especially in junior high school management telling that to say that they
still
there is still the case disease involved date
reinstitute became a scintilla where style being right now that might well he
realized he was gay and he is likely why aren't i
find myself attracted to girls what's going on at this so i think redwood
completed by this that the first i think it's at also there's a properly and in
some ways
business they said we say
narrowed more recharge character is everything
don't worry about being gay it does
be more women go then become married in and have this awesome lovely life begins
level two great included in that awesome lovely life is what he describes as a
active
robust sex life he has a slight
he has a history
so now
uh... the second part though is that i loved his honesty
right it's the so the fact that i can stand is when
the market's partners of the world are like women what what i'm told this trip
and and the but interlude maybe will be a little over a remarks fiber but larry
pratt and i didn't have a nor have i ever been gate several times the male
bathroom
in use a kid and all their portugal progressive entry
now he's not saying that he's like identity but i chose to do this
and then at that point you
you have to respect his decision to say okay that's which incident
well i think you have to respect
the decision that i've grown up makes about how to lead to his own
near and he's not trying to convert other people with a very careful in fact
he urges in the blog posts that he wrote
darker ran
he says if you happen to me and let that guy actually have those quotes because i
think um... they were very powerful political poorly gets about one action
one and i mention what you said about the sex life
you know it's how do you have sex with someone that you're not attracted to you
any kind clarifies that for the readers he says
i will get into boring details of the research here but basically when sex is
done right
and deepest level it's about intimacy the circumstances of our marriage
allowed us to build a sexual relationship that is based on everything
partnership want in their sex life intimacy communication genuine love and
affection this has resulted in us having a better sex life than most people i
personally know most of whom are straight
to thinks about that number one in other words i close my eyes and think about
annual and focus on satellite read that and i know i know that he doesn't mean
it that way
but you want to be attracted to your partner you want the last thing i know
that last
fades
uh... in a marriage regardless of whether or not you're talking to the
person
well-liked as a one man to know that my husband never really found the
attractive and kind of forced himself to be with me because he wanted kids and he
wanted to stay tuned as we went in
i wouldn't be feeling that way
and i'm not just his wife alice her decision and you know they're not trying
to convert and there are a lot about and how do you know she's not closing her
eyes and think about bob dole
the production facilities as well is that
and but if they're talking about it and they're honest about in their community
i don't have it sounds like that works for them kuwait edge of the good part
says is that they found the bond in their connected
to each other and they
love each other and they clearly loved their kids the kids here
as happily is that overwhelmingly oppressive lee religious home can be
seen that that that that that seem incredibly happy but
but they're here i don't know what example of an answer so i always but let
me see which wells yeah it's not in terms of that you know this being used
as propaganda acting up to see the following
uh... at one eighteen very clear that what happened across that brings me
profound drawing
and that is the right path for me idoney endorse this as the only path for
somebody who is gay and religious i will never ever judge somebody else's path is
being incorrect and i know many people who have chosen different paths than
myself if you know unless somebody who is gay and l d s are christian
your job is to love and nothing more
let go of your impulse to correct them or control that were propelled and down
the path you think is right for them do what you need to do to move past that
involves do not condemned the choices your loved ones make
so you gotta do you still questionnaire him credit for that
that outlook is a good guy at
bowling debate i think are having internally in my head is whether any of
it is wrong
buddy type i think he is
morrissey right really he doubts the decision you want to make you want to
have kids get free beautiful kids you know he believes is religion is not my
cup of tea but he cares about a deeply i'm sure he does love his wife
you know and in she might be his best friend the subway celebrity dot he's not
asking very important critical questions that anybody who's emotionally honest
reelection leon assassins idle
ultimately i cannot believe
this guy's want him to be happy and i want to family to be happy hope that
goes without saying
and i love that he made a point to say don't tried changed
knew that this is a cessation he talked about the mormon church the doctor the
mormon church is true one of the key doctors as the barrett freedom and a
woman is ordained of god at the family of central the creators pan for the
eternal destiny of his children
but that's alright it might not know we got a use for that but we're not mormons
so if i got it said but what he's done here is saying look if you're trapped in
this religious theocracy the denial you are part of it is he's found a way
he is found one of six women in the country god bless and will be like elmer
a gay guy
newsies my friend
but that's not what that is not what ninety-nine point nine percent of the
people in the world are looking for
and by the way you could also have a family while you're getting you can
deduct this amount that's where i a and again and so in that sense it also
you know by saying that there were met with the doctor deciding as a doctor
that is
bigoted against gay people
that that's the most important part in that's the thing we can ever get really
quite thereon
because it's on the one hand this is an respect my rosewood is on the other hand
they don't respect at day people's identity and and how they wanna live
their life and also keep in mind that he's putting himself in a really
difficult situation because the mormon church still rejects an engaging or
rejected
i know i act that the defense is pastor and maybe even the mormon church this is
what is your uh... and they said it was correct that there are members of the
women church there are two are supportive of him that will tell him
looking day is not a synonym itself
date passed on to say and do not hesitate to use videos propaganda his
immediate seem like the verdict today
it's ok you can make the choice to have a straight line if you don't
well then it's your fault but he still deals of criticism within the church
members are like
your day cell revived so there's that feeling is that this happened over gay
people if the dollar there's the dahmer mormons in this case around him and then
there's the slightly less dumb ones
who say it's okay to be given to cattle
that's the same sort of hideous hateful oppressive ideology
portraying thousands and hundreds of thousands of gay kids across this
country but is that body as you know it's a fun to be gay just don't act on
your both primal sexually
insane
and the other thing that i can't bear about this guy
end this idea is that
he mentions here any he says we have several reasons for opening about this
part of our lives first and foremost my clinical work is a fair sticking in the
direction of helping clients
who struggle reconcile their sexual orientation with their religion dot over
right up to
not there has to get out don't see the sky unqualified is a dangerous dangerous
dangerous guy no one should go see this guy for help you or would you like this
we do not talk to other people about making this choice
ever ever ever any point doesn't see my he doesn't seem like he's trying to have
forced people or convince people to live the airline is one of these are probably
energy
isn't that what is done that have overlooked is a very
advance one manages son that and
it
explain call it a mistake as he looks like the early stages in america as a
therapist
as a fair birthdate but so we might have my conclusion on this is that what if
we're just look at it in a bomb just hit right al the reality is is probably
bisexual right he says no
but he says no but i mean i'm my guess is on the specter was on a
black-and-white issue of the spectrum is probably twenty percent
trade in eighty percent damning it bc can
soldier on in the inner cities and the woman who is clearly very very close to
write et cetera so and i wouldn't judge in that state government's reliable okay
but within the context as bad as pointing out of the larger three
the whole point of this paper is to say if you're gay it is a choice look at
this guy's see he made the choice
that straight even though he deals k so you can do the same thing in fact he'd
give me therapy on how to do the savings so surprised that you really feel
president sexually spin you cook with a straight white stuff
and if you don't you're doing i think that this will be you know
those as propaganda by conservatives but
considering the fact that it here on the h one which is not an anti-gay network
and they don't have that type of agenda
i don't think that that's what they're point was i think they're pointless
hey this is really interesting it's gonna get instant replay let's talk
about his story i don't think that they intend to use it as propaganda
but i do agree that conservatives will use that as propaganda so that's
dangerous i don't know i know that i'm not putting intense but v_h_-one before
so it is i'd be really surprise it was a basis somewhere by the mormon church
i'd just don't want this guy
seeing other people have a clinical environ
like corrupt hardware store
go through withdrawal we don't do anything else