The level of faith an INFJ has in humanity at any given point has a direct reflection
on how they feel as a whole. In fact, it’s not uncommon for this personality type to experience
fluctuating faith in the direction society is headed. When their faith is restored however,
the INFJ’s outlook completely changes for the better, but what does that really entail?
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Number 1: They want to shout it from the rooftops
Flip the channel to the 5 O’clock news and you’ll see it’s riddled with negativity, violence,
and gloom. Of course, INFJs will be the first to discuss any given deep or uncomfortable topic, but
if information is being spread just for the sake of concluding that the world has gone to the dogs,
it can become seriously discouraging for some people. So, to counteract
the negativity spread, the INFJ has no trouble using positivity as a means of a replacement.
Usually they’ll take the approach of philosophical ideas, spirituality and witty humor. Other times,
the INFJ will use personal examples of times they’ve witnessed the beautiful side to life.
Using stories of how their faith in humanity was restored, even on the smallest scale, is a
perfect example. Whether it’s something as simple as a stranger paying for someone else’s coffee,
or something on a grander scale such as a successful turning point within
a non-for-profit organization. Instead of complaining about the state of the world,
the INFJ uses these stories as means of a conversation starter.
One that allows everyone to leave the conversation feeling a little more uplifted and optimistic.
Number 2: They fill a piece of emptiness Some INFJs live life refusing to face
the difficulties in the world due to the overwhelming nature surrounding it all.
They may choose the blissfully ignorant root if it means protecting their sensitive empathetic gifts
that can spiral them into a state of disbelief and even depression. However, by emotionally dodging
these harsh realities of the world, INFJs replace that broken feeling with emptiness.
It’s as if they’re watching a beautiful production of life, yet they don’t want to look behind the
curtain to reveal how it’s all being produced. And while the approach isn’t entirely a bad idea,
that empty feeling can end up brewing into something that robes the INFJ of their confidence
and satisfaction in life. So, when this observing type gets the chance to top-up their faith tank,
that subtle feeling of emptiness is washed away. Unfortunately, this relief is usually
only temporary, because without the understanding of why there is so much chaos in the world,
they’ll never truly fill that empty space. And that’s not an easy question to answer.
Number 3: They reassure themselves & their optimism
No matter how discouraged the INFJ feels when thinking about the state
of the world and the mentality of the people in it, deep down inside,
they can’t help but to believe that there is an even-grander level of righteousness behind it all.
Despite how much negativity may distract them in their immediate surroundings or within the
state of the world, the INFJ will never give up on that belief completely. Rooted in their
tendency of giving people the benefit of the doubt, they always choose to side with the more
positive aspects of things. Yet, that doesn’t mean there doesn’t come a time when the INFJ
is questioning whether or not this approach is appropriate or logical. Luckily, this is when
having their faith being restored in the way the world is headed, can give them all the reassurance
they need to continue with their optimism. Number 4: They feel excited to pay it forward
There's no doubt that the INFJ personality type is known to be quite fond of the whole ‘pay it
forward’ idea, considering that all they really want is for humanity to learn to help itself.
In fact, they really don’t need to have any faith in humanity at all to feel the pull to
lend a hand or offer their resources. Yet, when the INFJ is encouraged by witnessing kindness and
giving in their outer environments, it’s like a supercharger to this empathetic type’s
determination to contribute to the world. Since INFJs absorb the energies of others,
when they feel the fulfillment and joy on both the giving and receiving ends of a positive
interaction, it’s like they’re experiencing it for themselves. And once they get a taste of that
glee and satisfaction they remember, they may even begin wondering what they can do to direct their
life towards finding more of that feeling. Sure, the gesture may not have been directed at them,
but if they felt the gratitude and appreciation involved, they got what they needed.
Number 5: It can spark and fuel their life-purpose
Speaking of directing their life to chase that feeling of fulfillment,
a simple act of kindness that restores the INFJ’s faith in humanity can end up being the spark that
changes their whole life for the better. Like we mentioned, as some people feed off negativity,
the INFJ uses the positive gestures of people to fuel their emotional and mental satisfaction.
So much so, that a simple act of kindness can act as the ultimate role-modeling encouragement
to push the INFJ towards a more emotionally fulfilling life as a whole.
Maybe they witnessed just how much a gifted new car helped a family in need
that they began an organization to provide transportation for families that need it.
Or maybe they appreciate the passion in someone’s mission so much that they decide to join in.
Sometimes it’s something as simple as beginning to brainstorm for a more fulfilling career
just for the sake of contributing a little more on the humanitarian side of things.
Whatever it is, INFJs are much more apt to start something new
when they realize they’re not the only ones doing it. Which brings us too..
Number 6: They feel like they fit in
In the eyes of an INFJ, there's nothing quite like seeing another person set their needs
aside in order to prioritize helping another. In fact, for this introverted personality type
who sometimes feels like they’re the only ones that remember these simple gestures of morality,
finding little pockets of kindness and generosity in their day makes them think “Maybe I’m not so
different from others after all.” As we mentioned before, logically INFJs know everyone has it in
them to just be a little kinder to their fellow earthlings, but when they witness it first hand
they truly feel at home. In fact, it wouldn’t be far-fetched for the INFJ to see someone doing a
nice deed and then contemplate walking up and thanking that individual just for being a good
person. Or, an INFj may even contemplate starting a friendship with them. And if you know anything
about the INFJ, that should say a lot considering they’re quite reluctant to make new connections.
It all comes down to the fact that there’s nothing that compares to altruism
when it comes to the qualities an INFJ looks for in their friendships and relationships.
Number 7: They try to connect to the philosophical side of things
Known for their psychic-like abilities, the INFJ knows first hand how certain actions can have a
domino-like effect. Whether they ripple out into the world, or come back like a boomerang later on
in life, everything has its repercussions and reverberations. In fact, to most INFJs, this
is one of the most beautiful aspects of random acts of kindness. Even if someone doesn’t take
the opportunity to pay it forward, kind actions always effect more than just that one individual.
For example, if someone was short on change for the bus and a stranger offered to pay their fare,
not only is that person being helped but that means they will get home on time to make dinner
for their hungry children. Or maybe the only reason that person was getting on the bus
in the first place was to go help a friend in need..the perfect karma. Not only that,
but such a simple act of generosity probably put a smile on the face of the bus driver too!
And lastly.. Number 8: They actually become emotional
There's not many things that can emotionally move the INFJ who is much more apt to feeling
other people’s feelings over their own. However, depending on the situation, when their faith
in humanity and community has been restored, an INFJ can literally be moved to tears. Rooted in
a combination of all the previously mentioned occurrences such as finally feeling like they
can relate to someone and the reassurance that their optimistic outlook isn’t totally bonkers,
INFJs can end up in an awe-struck state of gratitude. While they may not break down
in tears in the moment thanks to their composed nature, when INFJs are in their thought-analysis
moments of solitude, they begin picking apart just how much pure love humanity is capable of sharing.
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