Tripp Kramer here from
www.trippadvice.com. How do you spot choosing
signals?
What's a choosing signal? Well a signal
that a girl is interested in you.
I have a simple method for this, very easy.
Three things I want you to pay
attention to. One, is she paying attention
to you? The number one of all time.
Two, is she touching you? Three, is she
talking to you? I'm gonna say this again.
Is she's paying attention, is she's
touching you,
is she talking to you? These are choosing
signals. These are signs that she's
interested. These are signs that she
might be single. No matter what, you
gotta know that you will never know for
sure for girl is interested in you unless
she is willing to go all the way with
you, meaning have sex. Or she's willing to
continuously meet up with you under the
circumstances of a date or under the
circumstances of sexual connection
between you two. That's how you know.
Anything other than that, she's not
interested. Let me break this
down a little bit before the sex part
happens. Before that happens, you gotta
know if she's interested. So the
choosing signals, is she paying attention to you?
Let's say that you see a girl at a
bar, club, restaurant, during the day,
sidewalk, grocery store, wherever.
And you wanna go talk to her, there's no choosing
signals there. Don't think like how am I
gonna know if she's interested or if
she's single? You don't know until you
start the conversation, until you start
the interaction with her. It's from
there that you can start to spot the
choosing signals. It's from there you can
see; is she engaging with me in this
conversation and how do you know?
She's looking at you, she's paying
attention to you and then the other two
things I said; she's talking to you
and/or she's touching you. Touching
isn't necessarily something that you
need to know if she's interested but it's a
very big sign if she does. So don't think
oh you're in an interaction with a
girl and you're like oh she hasn't
touched me yet, that she's not interested.
No, she could still be interested so pay
more attention to again if she's talking
to you, giving you eye contact, paying
attention to you. That is the number one,
that is the ultimate, that is pretty much the
only indicator of interest or choosing
signal you're ever gonna need; if she is
paying attention to you. A lot of guys
they don't focus on this because they
get very nervous. They let their anxiety
and their emotions cloud their judgment
of what's going on in an interaction.
A lot of guys are very focused in on
themselves. They go to a girl and they're
just like uh what do I say next?
They're not paying attention to what she's doing.
And I ask you to really try to work on this.
One of the ways you're gonna
do it is by this concept called
systematic desensitization fancy for you
desensitize in yourself in a systematic
way which means you got to be talking to
more girls. Put it in a system, create a
little system for yourself to
desensitize yourself to talking to girls.
Doing the thing that's very scary.
Once you do that then you're gonna be less in
fear mode less in like oh my god what
do I say? You're gonna be more versed in
being able to communicate with women on
the spot and flirt on the spot that then
your brain is gonna be able to pick up on
these choosing signals. You're gonna be
able to tell if she's interested.
You're gonna be able to tell if she is engaged in
the conversation, giving you eye contact,
asking you questions, talking to you.
Not head in the clouds somewhere else
facing somewhere else but she's with you
in the moment in this little bubble together.
Again this may be a longer journey
for you. It's not like you're gonna go
watch this video and now you got
choosing signals. You know what they are
now, you're aware of them. Honest to god
that's all you need. You don't need
anything else. There's so much
information out there about all these
different IOI's that girls give.
It's just it's nonsense. It doesn't matter.
In fact I can go even far enough to say
that the content that I just gave you in
this video still doesn't even matter.
You still don't even need any of those
things because there's nothing to do
with them. I'm just giving this to you
because it's really not the worst idea
to know if she's interested so you can
at least gauge what's going on in
conversation. But is it absolutely
necessary? No it's not because the only
indicator of interest
that you're really gonna need is what I
said earlier. Is she willing to see
you again? Is she willing to see you
again under the context of dating, sexual
connection. Is she getting physical with
you? Is she kissing you? Are you guys
moving toward having sex? Again the sex
component is important because that's
the only difference between your
relationship with this girl (and I've
talked about this before in other videos)
and the relationship with you and any
other person on the planet. That's what
makes it the sexual connection and
that's what makes it so you know that
this girl is actually interested in you
in more than being a friend. Well then
how do you know if she's single for sure?
I'm gonna help you out there. I got a
YouTube video called "how to ask a girl
if she's single" which is the next step here.
How do you do that? Click in the
description below. There's a link to that
YouTube video where you can learn how do
you ask her if she's single, how do you
find out if she's single, so you can
actually take her out, see her again,
continue hanging out with her and
developing that sexual connection with
her like I'm talking about. Go check
that out. I'll see you in the comments.
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