In Bangkok, in the hostel, read to go out for a little night on the town and I want
to talk about today's video which is 5 science based ways to be more attractive.
I'm going to be giving you 5 of these and no I did not make these up.
These are all done by scientific studies that make you appear more attractive.
Let's start with number one.
Number one is uncrossing your arms.
Open body language appears more attractive.
I'm not going to get into the details of what the study said but I think intuitively when
someone's arms are crossed, they have tighter body language and they look uncomfortable.
They don't look relaxed rather they look nervous.
The opposite is true, right?
More relaxed is more open, friendly and ready to give
a big hug when someone needs it.
The second tip is there was a study done shown that you appear more attractive when you're
in a group of people.
If you go out with people, your friends, and a girl sees you in that group, you are going
to appear more attractive because what happens is our brain recognizes that you're with a
bunch of people and automatically that averages out your look amongst others.
This happens when we see girls around, right?
If we look at girls, we see maybe a bunch of cute girls.
Then you zone in on each one of them and they look different from what you thought they
were when they're in a group.
Our brain is doing this scan so go out
with friends.
The third is to give the girl an opportunity to talk
about herself.
When you're with someone and they're talking about themselves, people love to do that.
That makes you more attractive, why?
Because they get the opportunity to talk about their favorite thing in the world, which is
them with somebody else.
This triggers something in the brain that they're having an enjoyable time with that
person which could be you.
In order to help you do that I have a free gift for you if you are not ready.
It's called Chick Crack the topics of conversation that women love.
it's going to teach you how to get a conversation going
with her.
One more thing about the idea of having someone to talk about themselves, when you're with
someone and you give them the opportunity to talk about themselves, it stimulates the
same part of their brain and thinks about sex and food which are the primal things.
That part of the brain makes them very happy when they get the chance to trigger it and
talk about themselves.
That is another reason why a girl would like to talk about themselves when they're with
you.
It will in turn make them more attracted to you.
The fourth one makes me cringe of saying it because it sounds so cheesy but there's been
so many studies done on this simple idea to appear more attractive, so you might as well
use it.
It is smiling.
Make sure that if you are approaching or talking to a girl or if you are meeting someone for
the first time, you're not freaked out.
You're not doing it in a terrible mood where your faces looked scared or droopy.
Put a big smile on your face because it's going to make you look better.
I'm going to give you another one and this is sort of a long term play.
You're going to be wanting to work on for a while on this because it's not an overnight.
It's not as easy as uncrossing your arms, smiling, getting a group of friends together,
or even talking to a girl and having her talk about herself.
This one is crucial in terms of appearing more attractive and that is your skin.
You want to take care of your skin as much as you can.
Why?
Your skin shows whether you are healthy or not.
We are attracted to people who have better skin.
I want you to be very careful with this one.
Do you need amazing skin to be able to attract a girl?
No, you don't.
This entire article is giving you some extra tips that you can use when you're talking
to girls and trying to appear more attractive but they're not crucial.
As best you can, help your skin, be more healthy, get some good sleep, drink plenty of water
and stay out of the sun.
Those are the three biggest things you can do for your skin.
Of course, there's genetics and some people might have acne or whatever stuff going on
with their skin.
Just do your best.
It's about doing your best and trying to add as much as you can into your toolbox.
Do you need any of this stuff to attract women?
No, you don't have to smile.
You don't have to be with friends.
Your skin can look terrible.
You can have your arms completely crossed.
You can talk to a girl and she can not talk about herself.
You can still attract a girl but I want to give you as much info and things you can use
as possible because when you're able to use this stuff, it helps you a little bit more.
If you are smiling a little bit in a conversation and the girl notices that, it’s awesome!
I didn't make these up.
This is all based in science and I'll put an article link in the description below as
well as the conversation topics that women love to talk about.
Go check those out and if you made it this far, don't worry for those guys who have already
been annoyed by the fact that I have information spread out throughout the entire vlog.
I am going to put down below some timestamps that you can refer to to get the advice again.
Alright, sound good?
Awesome.
I'm going out to check out some night markets and I'll see you on the next video.
Peace out.