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many people ask me how they can use the
law of attraction to manifest a
relationship and the even bigger
question I get is how to attract a
specific person or reconnect with an
ex-partner in this video I'm going to
give you three powerful tips to attract
your ideal partner if you begin to
understand the principles given in this
video and apply them in your life
manifesting the relationship you desire
will be easier than ever before number
one examine your self-image your
self-image is the key to any
manifestation you're trying to bring
into your life it's very important to be
centered and grounded if you're seeking
a fun and healthy relationship your
thoughts words and behavior will all
need to be in harmony imbalance in order
for you to line up with your desire and
this is why introspection is such an
important step in manifestation it
requires taking a look at how you feel
about having the person you want to
attract in your life do you feel worthy
are you confident are you content with
who you are are you already happy what
brings joy and fulfillment to your life
what are you passionate about when you
get into alignment with your own
happiness you become much more
attractive to the people around you
being at peace with yourself is the
first step
learning to be happy and content with
who you are in any circumstance is the
most important thing you can do to begin
attracting whole and centered
individuals into your life when you
start treating yourself as important and
love yourself more you will
automatically bring more of that to you
ask yourself how you feel when you're
alone do you feel an inner peace and
happiness can you entertain yourself and
be content if the answer is no this is
what you'll need to work on first
the best way to change the way others
treat you is to change how you treat
yourself as you make yourself a priority
and treat yourself with more love and
kindness you begin to emit a vibration
that matches love importance and
worthiness of attention you can begin
doing this with a simple affirmation
such as I love myself and I'm proud of
Who I am or I now choose to make myself
a priority and begin loving myself more
and more each day
there's something amazing about loving
yourself without the need for anyone
else to create that for you it places
you in a perfect position of attracting
many options as a potential partner
number two avoid the trap of wanting
having a strong desire is important but
when you think about your desire it
should feel like icing on the cake
rather than the cake itself if you spend
your time constantly wanting a
relationship you carry a vibration that
aligns with insufficiency or lack to
want is to focus on something that isn't
there yet and it's never a good idea to
downgrade your desire into desperation
when you carry a vibration of lack
that's exactly what you'll get in return
more lack whenever you notice that you
are feeling lonely or sad about being
single take that time to offer yourself
more appreciation do something you enjoy
to get your vibration back up so it
matches contentment or happiness the
more you do this the more you'll stay
focused on the feeling states that line
you up with their relationship you
desire it's also a great idea to put
yourself in a place where you can people
watch as you do this pick out the
individuals that have certain
characteristics that match the type of
partner that you choose
mentally tell yourself what aspects you
like about each person as they walk by
for instance I like how tall that person
is and appreciate the fact that a
partner who is about that same height is
coming into my life or I like how kind
that person is being to others this is a
quality that I would enjoy from the
person I'm in a relationship with this
will help you fine-tune your order to
the universe and redirect your mindset
into one of being more positive number
three focus on the characteristics of
what you want when you're trying to
attract someone back into your life the
feeling States can be a bit all over the
place especially if they've done
something to upset you much like the
previous step you'll want to focus on
the characteristics that you like while
dismissing the things that you don't by
centering your attention on a person's
positive qualities you will notice that
they almost always begin to display more
of that to you always strive to see the
positive aspects of other people this
works in all relationships but it is
especially important when you want to
attract someone back into your life
finding things to appreciate always
provides us with more things to
appreciate if there are mixed feelings
about a specific person don't focus on
that person imagined someone else that
has the positive characteristics that
you liked in this person when we focus
solely on one individual we cut
ourselves off from other options that
are available oftentimes when the
attention is shifted to other people and
the positive things that you like about
them you'll attract someone that has
these same qualities that you like but
that may even be a better fit for you
for many people who hear this in
particular those who want to have their
ex back the immediate response is that
there isn't a better
if you feel this way it will be up to
you to examine that thought and the
belief in detail there are so many
possibilities available but a belief
such as this will keep them from having
the chance of being an option your
dominant thoughts beliefs feelings and
actions are the cause that produce the
effect attracting a partner into your
life is the result of how you feel about
yourself and life in general therefore
it's very important to embody the
feeling of love contentment and
completeness so that is the signal that
you are sending out the sooner you start
to show yourself greater love and
respect and focus on the things that you
like about others
the sooner you will manifest the
relationship you desire