Goober's like my best friend.
He looks out for me.
So when he called me, and he said Tristan, me and my girl
broke up, I started swiping again.
I saw your wife's profile.
I looked at it, screenshot it, showed me it.
And it's deactivated, right?
I don't know.
Because I don't know you.
Mia is telling me that her profile isn't active,
and she deleted the app.
But I honestly don't know if I can believe that.
She's lied to me before, so how do I know
that she's not lying to me now?
TRISTAN: I don't trust you.
I know you don't.
TRISTAN: I don't.
That's why Pastor Cal keeps talking about trying.
I've said that consistently.
I said there is a cloud that's hovering
around that is stopping me from falling in love with you.
And I said it's because of the broken trust
because you lied to me.
And then this now, too? I'm done.
Because of everything that has transpired
in these last three weeks with me and Mia, I felt it.
And there were times when I was falling in love with her.
But now I just don't know.
I feel that everything with her right now is a lie,
and I don't know how I'm supposed to trust her.
Mia, I really don't, I don't talk about this any more.
I didn't get married at first sight
to be with someone who doesn't trust me and doesn't love me.
I got married at first sight to, you know, get into arguments,
but still learn about each other and come back to each other.
And right now Tristan's not showing me that.
So I want to talk to Dr. Jessica to figure out
how to move forward from here. - Hi.
Hey you two, how are you?
We had our most explosive argument ever this
this morning.
That doesn't sound too good.
So tell me what happened.
Tristan's friend Goober told Tristan
that he saw my profile on a dating app, which
I honestly thought I deleted.
And it just started like this whole argument
where we're both so, I guess, like emotional and heated
that we keep talking in circles.
When you say it's emotional and heated,
tell me more about what you mean.
I'm upset with her because I don't trust her.
The trust was broken from when she lied to me.
Then, I felt betrayed again when I found out she was
still up on these dating apps.
You know, all of this is like building up.
There are some significant communication problems here.
And one of the things that can really erode marriage
is resentment.
And Tristan, when you're talking to me,
it sounds like there's a lot of resentment that's built up.
Yeah, I took the ring off.
Since the arrest, everything has been centered on how Mia
is doing, how Mia is feeling.
And I didn't realize how much resentment
I was holding in until this dating app
situation just came about.
So here's the thing.
Unless you no longer want to be in this marriage
and you're going to sign divorce papers,
don't take your ring off.
Don't threaten divorce.
Because it's just, it's like emotional blackmail, really.
Now does that make sense? - Yeah, it does.
After everything that they've been through at this point,
I'm not surprised that Tristan is struggling with trust.
But, at the same time, he hasn't had
the opportunity to process his feelings
and how this has really hurt him.
And so, I believe that if Mia is able to be
consistent and dependable over time, the two of them
can work on rebuilding that trust
and have a happy and healthy, successful
marriage for the long term.
The trust is going to be an issue.
And that's gonna take some time.
And that's OK.
I mean, the two of you, several weeks ago, didn't even
know the other person existed.
And the way in which we build trust is consistency.
Being who you say you are and continuing
to show that to that person.
Even after having this humongous fight,
I am still wanting to be married to Tristan.
And I know it will take a while for him to fully trust me.
But I hope that him being able to open up to me today
will help us slowly start to get rid of that cloud
and move forward positively.
All right, thanks doctor.
OK.
Bye bye.
That was a lot. - Yeah.
That was good, though.
Yeah.
I feel emotionally drained, but I'm
actually a little bit encouraged after talking with Dr. Jessica.
And I'm still committed to this marriage,
because I still have the faith and belief in Mia.
And I still have the faith and belief in us.
So I'm willing to trust that this was just a mistake
and move forward in a more healthy, productive way.
We'll get through it.