- And today's topic is,
five high-value woman characteristics
based on Bible.
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Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite.
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So just a little kinda intro,
I'm obviously, I'm not a scholar, I'm not a preacher,
I'm just really, really getting down to the bottom
of the high-value advice
by studying the Bible
and it's actually quite easy for me to study it
because I'm originally from Lithuania.
So Lithuanian language has not been changed too much.
Really cherished our language,
so we still speak an old version of Lithuanian language.
So, when I'm actually reading my Catholic,
yes, Lithuanians are Catholics, most of 'em,
Lithuanian Bible, I literally understand every single word.
What I do, I actually read my Lithuanian Bible,
then I open the English one,
and then I put it together.
Okay?
So let me actually show you a little bit
of that Catholic version.
Catholic version is like the biggest Bible there is,
is like all the biblical books there possibly are
and this is what it looks like.
So it's a travel version.
The pages are like this thin.
Right? It's like, literally like this thin.
This is why the text is, like, tiny, you know?
Like, tiny, tiny, tiny.
And it's like, yeah.
So, (laughs) yeah guys, wish me luck.
I'm really determined to finish it.
So, guys, anyway, without further ado, let's start.
And I have my notes here,
'cause I want to make sure that I'm sounding
totally politically correct,
and if I'm not, I'm really trying my best,
so, God, please forgive me.
The first high-value woman characteristic, based on Bible,
or my interpretation of the Bible,
would be ignore the negativity.
I would even say don't wear your heart on a sleeve.
So the quote from the Bible would be,
this would be Proverb 12:16,
and it says,
"The vexation of a fool is known at once,
but the prudent ignores an insult."
Which basically means,
and the reason I know the meaning is because,
as I said, I'm reading the Lithuanian one, so it's awesome.
So what it says, it's a silly person
shows their anger, right.
We show we're anger, we show we're upset.
Whereas a wise person,
they ignore when somebody offends them or insults them.
They don't show their anger. They don't show they're upset.
So what I love about it, it really aligns
with the high-value coaching
where I'm telling you girls all the time,
"Don't wear your heart on a sleeve,
don't show your feelings."
So if, let's see, if a guy that you're dating
is attacking you, is abusing you,
is not kind or not nice to you,
don't show him you're upset.
Keep the poker face.
Like, ignore the negativity that he's giving to you.
Reward the positivity. Right?
So a wise person doesn't show that they are upset
because the person who is provoking you,
they don't deserve to see that they made you upset.
And you should not get upset
by somebody who's trying to put you down
because you're not the problem, they are.
If they trying to put you down, they are the problem.
Because a wise person would not try and make you upset.
They would not try to put you down.
Oh gosh, here comes the second one now.
This is about what is a woman of low value
and Bible has a lot to say towards that. (laughs)
So ladies, listen.
Okay the first, it's in Proverbs 11:22,
and it says,
so it's in King James version, English King James version.
And it says, "Like a gold ring in a pig's snout
is a beautiful woman without discretion."
In other words it says, like a pig with a golden ring,
is a beautiful woman without common sense.
Basically saying a foolish woman.
But what is a foolish woman?
A foolish woman is somebody
who's opposite of being wise, right?
So somebody who does not use her common sense.
So let me give you a guy example, right?
If he just met you the first time and he's telling you,
"You're the most beautiful girl in the world,
I could picture you as my wife, I want to marry you,"
and so on, and he's telling you this in the first week
or on the first couple of dates
and you believing this,
well then, you're being a foolish woman
without common sense.
As when you don't use the common sense
you are giving yourself in the hands of a manipulator.
So instead of letting a deceiver fool you
and then blaming him, "Oh, you said this and you said that,"
you know, instead of that, take responsibility for yourself.
And use your common sense.
If it sounds too good to be true, well, it is not true.
If you think about what the guy's telling you
with sense, by being smart,
it's impossible for him to fall in love with you
just because he met you a couple times.
He does not know you yet.
He's just telling you this stuff to fool you.
And if you are getting fooled, right,
well then you are a pig with a ring. (laughs)
With a golden ring in its snout.
You know like, guys, you know what I mean, okay?
So, this would be the first quote on a low-value woman.
The second quote on a low-value woman would be,
"The woman folly is loud.
She is seductive and knows nothing."
Now this is the proverb 9:14 from the King James Bible.
And basically how I see this,
she is seductive and knows nothing and she is loud, right?
So this quote kinda reminds me
of the ladies who look beautiful,
look good, act foolish, act loud,
they really seek attention, right?
Wherever we go we seek attention,
we look beautiful, and we act very seductive, right?
So if you sometimes go to, like, a night club,
not, maybe sometimes, maybe often, I don't know.
You know, you go to a night club
and you see this beautiful woman acting really loud,
really in-your-face, and very seductive, right?
So pursuing men, coming after men,
this is what says, in a Bible,
it's a folly woman, which is a low-value woman.
Now the other quote of a low-value woman
would be Proverb 5:6.
And I really, really love this one as well.
This is what it says.
"She does not ponder the path of life,
her ways wander and she does not know it."
So basically saying that, a low-value woman is,
she does not choose to go the right way.
She does not choose to do the right thing.
Her ways wander, so she does whatever she wishes.
She does not follow a discipline,
she does not follow any rules,
therefore she doesn't stay on the right way.
She is all over the place, messing up her own life
and she does not know it.
This is why, ladies, I keep saying to you,
discipline, self-control and to follow the rules of life
in order to be happy, is very, very important.
Because as soon as you stop following the rules,
this is when you do whatever you please,
you end up acting foolish and without knowing it
you dig yourself traps in which you fall right in.
Here comes the third characteristic by the Bible
and I love this one so, so much.
And the way I would phrase it, is,
do not give power to the arrogant.
Okay? So let me read the quote.
So, Leviticus 19.
So you can find it on Leviticus 19.
"You shall do no injustice in court."
And now listen to this.
"You shall not be partial to the poor
or defer to the great,"
pay attention to "defer to the great,
but in righteousness (laughs)
shall you judge your neighbor."
So what I want you girls to focus on here,
"You shall not be partial to the poor
or defer to the great."
In other words,
do not submit
to somebody who is acting very proud and arrogant.
Okay?
So like a relationship example would be
if your guy is being rude, disrespectful,
arrogant or unkind to you,
or he is playing a power game on you,
do not submit to him.
Stand your ground.
It's really important ladies, stand your ground.
You don't need to submit to somebody
who is acting arrogant, proud and disrespectful towards you.
You must stand your ground.
Okay?
So if he's giving you a power game,
be a wise woman and give it back to him in a wise way.
Don't submit to it,
because if you will submit to a guy
who is disrespecting you, who is giving you,
you know, power games and playing many games on you
and you still submitting to him,
you're basically accepting his bad behavior
and what you will get more is more bad behavior.
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Now the fourth one is about boundaries.
"He that winks with his eyes deceitfully
procures griefs for men.
But he that reproves boldly is a peacemaker."
Now guys, let me translate it in simple English
of how I have read it in Lithuanian.
Okay? So interpretation.
So it basically means, guys, love is peace.
It does not say right in Proverb, but just listen to me.
Love is peace. Right?
Now, when you do not set in
healthy boundaries with people
you get pain.
So, for example, that's, it says here,
"He that winks with his eyes deceitfully," right?
So he's letting things get away, right?
"Procures griefs for men,"
causes pain for men.
So when you don't set in the boundaries
and you just kinda look through them,
over the time you going to bring pain to your relationship.
Right?
"But he that reproves boldly is a peacemaker."
But the person who sets in the boundaries
is a peacemaker.
So ladies, if you want peace in your relationship
you must set in the boundaries
and do not let men slip away
by doing their little silly things.
Okay?
But you have to be wise on how to set in the boundaries.
And how to get a man to respect you
I have amazing boundary-setting in a video
which you can find just by following the link right here.
And here comes the fifth one.
And I really, really love this one
because I see so many ladies in my YouTube video comments
saying, "But Greta, I'm not a man,
I don't need to go for my goals,
I don't need to build my empire,
I don't need to do this, this is a masculine thing to do."
Well, that's not what it says in the Bible.
So the fifth one would be go for your dreams.
Proverb 14, it says,
"The wisest of women build her house,"
okay?
"The wisest of women build their house,
but folly with her own hands tears it down."
So ladies, God gave you two hands, he gave you two feets,
he gave you a wonderful brain, he gave you common sense.
You have everything what it takes to go for your dreams.
To go for your goals.
To bring out the best in yourself
and to achieve what you set yourself to achieve.
Instead of depending on a man to make you happy
or to take care of you.
Yes, it's fantastic when a guy takes care of a woman
when he provides for her.
A man should be a provider.
But God has designed you
in a way that you can provide for yourself.
And if you are a wise woman who can build a house,
who can help her parents,
who can be independent,
the Lord, He's just gonna be proud.
Because everywhere in the Bible it's encouraging people
to be wise, to be smart, to be confident,
to be fearless, to do the right thing.
Do not wait for a man to make you happy
or to provide for you.
Do it yourself.
Good thing about the 21st century
that you have the abilities to do it yourself.
Yet, yet, a man is a provider
and he should take care of you.
But you can do it yourself, so go for your goals.
Go for your dreams, okay?
And how does loving yourself
will make him love you even more?
Please watch my video right here.
So ladies, these were my five characteristics
of a high-value woman which I found by studying Bible.
And I was just so excited to do this video
and I hope you guys loved it
as much as me sharing this with you.
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in a way that possibly be incorrect,
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I'm not a preacher, I'm really sorry.
And if you have anything to add, you know,
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Can't wait to read your comments.
Okay? Thank you for watching!
Kisses from Manchester.