- Have you ever read those billboards that tell you
how dangerous texting and driving is?
Better left unread than dead.
The irony of course is that instead of texting
you're now reading a billboard,
but that's beyond the point.
Anyways, when it comes to texting your ex,
I have a very similar slogan for you,
"Better left unsent than looking desperate."
Now when it comes to texting your ex, most people
are just straight up doing it wrong.
And that's not because they're bad people
or they're stupid, or they're making any big mistakes,
it's because most of the time their heart hasn't healed
and they're allowing emotion to get in the way of logic.
So in this video I'm gonna be sharing with you three texts
that you can go ahead and send your ex once you've
gone through a very step by step healing process
that will get you to that point, keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam Lodolce from SexyConfidence.com
where I help the 21st century woman create a love life
that she absolutely freaking loves, and this is the
second video of this series all a part of this launch
of Heal Your Heart and Win Him Back,
it's a brand new resource that I've created and you
can find it at WinningHimBack.com, and you definitely
wanna go ahead and check that out, it's only gonna be
available for a very short period of time.
And if you want all 29 texts to be able to send
your ex and you want a roadmap to be able to not only
just heal your heart, heal your broken heart,
but also be able to win him back,
or if you decide you don't want him back
go ahead and find someone better, then WinningHimBack.com
is a great place to get started.
And before I get into these three texts in this video,
it is important to know that you don't want to
send him these texts while you're in what I call
the no contact period, and you don't wanna do that
because your heart takes time to heal,
and I recommend about three weeks of no contact.
Don't talk to him, no texting, no nothing,
and then after that period then you can go ahead
and send these texts.
So here are a few texts that you can send
that are Sexy Confidence approved,
and they definitely won't make you look desperate.
Text number one are just happy reminders of the past
or your past relationship.
Here's the thing I love about this type of a text
is it brings you back to that feeling
that you had when your relationship was going really well.
And again, you don't wanna do this right after the breakup,
right when things ended.
You want to do this once things have cooled down
and everyone's had enough time to let their emotions
kind of settle in how they're feeling.
And this text really allows you to
tap into that period before the breakup,
that period where things were ideally going well,
and if they weren't ever going well, then
there's no reason to ever text them this anyways
'cause you've probably moved on with your life
but if there were times in the relationship
that were going well and you wanna bring them back there
then this type of text really allows you to connect
about that very special time.
And you can get specific in this.
Like, the thing I like about this example text
is that it's very specific, and the other thing
I like about this text is it shows that you're getting
out there, you're still doing stuff, right?
You're going to that brewery, you're being social,
you're changing, you're improving,
and this is going to send a very good message
to your ex that, look, maybe you have changed,
while also reminding him that you remember
the things that he really likes.
Text number two is showing him that you
have a thriving social life.
Look, this text is pretty sweet,
because you are trying to actually get legitimate
information from him, but also you're showing him that
you're gonna go out and dance and you've got friends.
You're gonna be having a whole night out.
And by sending him this text,
you're sending a very clear message
that, again, you've got a lot going on in your life
and you're not just like, destroyed by the breakup.
And finally, number three is to ask him for advice.
Here's an example.
Here's the thing about men, is we love to fix things.
We love to have solutions, we love to give you solutions
and we love to help you as much as we can.
I mean, that is just like, going back to
masculine and feminine dynamics,
this is a huge part of everything
I've been teaching over the years,
and if you can tap into that part of his brain
that really wants to help you, and give his opinions,
then you know what he's gonna do?
He's gonna engage on that text.
So go ahead and text him, ask him for something,
ask him his opinion on something,
ask him for some help, and you know what he's gonna do?
He's gonna wanna just jump right in.
So if you enjoyed these texts,
then make sure, again, you head on over to
WinningHimBack.com, we'll put a link here,
we'll also put a link in the description.
This is only gonna be available
for a very short period of time, that resource
and it's all about healing your heart
and winning him back, or if you decide
after you've healed your heart that you don't want him back,
then we have a whole module on how it is that
you can go ahead and find someone better.
So go ahead and check that out,
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And finally, make sure you leave a comment
right there below if you do send one of these texts
or you've sent a similar text in the past
and let me know how it's gone.
Look forward to seeing you in the next video, bye.