- Hey, Vic, you see that girl there?
I'm gonna pick her up.
Alright.
(speaking in a foreign language)
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How to pick up Chinese girls:
10 lines that you can use to pick up Chinese girls.
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Now what you just saw there,
that's what not to do (laughs).
You don't wanna do that, that does not work.
So what's the very first line if someone's in China,
or even just talking to Chinese girl,
what's the first line that they can use?
- Mm, first line is: "Hey, beautiful lady."
- Yep, hey beautiful lady.
- In Chinese is called mei nv.
- Mei nv.
- Pretty lady.
I'll say it again, mei nv.
- Mei nv.
- And I say, "Hi, mei nv."
- Hi, mei nv.
Then you do a smirk.
- You get a lot of women turning around.
(laughing)
- You calling me?
Everybody.
The 55 years, are you calling me?
- Yeah.
Remember last time, we did China travel process,
and said, "Hi, mei nv, (speaks in a foreign language)."
(laughing)
- It works.
You call everybody mei nv,
doesn't matter they're 10 years old,
80 years old, it still works.
Nice.
So mei nv.
Practice that one.
What's the second one?
- Second one is, "You are very pretty,"
or "You are beautiful."
- You are beautiful.
You're very pretty, yes.
- This one is (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
I'll say it again. (speaks in a foreign language)
(speaks in a foreign language)
- That's good.
- That's the go-to, that's the standard.
You need to know this one.
- Opening line.
(laughing)
(speaks in a foreign language)
- So the third one is, "You are very cute."
- Oh, you're very cute.
- I'd say I think Chinese girls, they probably like cute.
- Better than (speaks in a foreign language).
- So it's (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
I'll say again, (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
- Yeah.
- I think it's more suitable,
because I think generally, Chinese girls are more petite.
- They like to think they are cute.
- The deal is, "Oh, I'm cute."
And also, cute also is tied to being youthful.
And young.
- That's true.
- Young is good.
- That's true.
(speaks in a foreign language)
Alright, so another line is, "You have stolen my heart."
- You have stolen my heart.
- And this one in Chinese is (speaks in a foreign language).
- It almost sounds like a song.
(speaks in a foreign language)
- They're song lyrics.
- And maybe you can even use some gestures.
(speaks in a foreign language)
I feel like I'm doing a theater.
(speaks in a foreign language)
- I think girls like that.
- Pretty cute.
(speaks in a foreign language)
Alright, number five.
- Yes, so as we know,
if you've seen our other episode on WeChat,
WeChat is huge in China.
So this is a line you can use.
"Hey, can we exchange WeChat?"
- Can we exchange WeChat?
- Okay, this one is (speaks in a foreign language).
- (speaks in a foreign language) is like "Can we?"
We put it in the beginning,
but in English we put it at the end.
(speaks in a foreign language)
And I gotta say, I think, for me personally,
I think WeChat is a way better communicate tool
rather than calling.
- Yes, first of all, if you ask them,
"Hey, can you give me your phone number?"
it feels a bit too direct, a bit personal.
WeChat, it feels like Facebook.
Are you on Facebook?
It's less threatening, and they can reply,
and still protect a little bit of the privacy.
- And also, check out her photos on WeChat account.
- What she likes and what she doesn't like,
so that's a good way to communicate.
- So (speaks in a foreign language).
- It could also be mei nv, (speaks in a foreign language).
- Good one.
Then I will slap you (laughs).
- Now let's say you're at a bar, you're at a restaurant,
you see a pretty girl, and you wanna go up
and you wanna buy her a drink.
- Oh, buy her a drink, very common.
It's a polite thing, I'm gonna buy you a drink.
- So it's (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
- I'm gonna buy you a drink, one more time.
- Yes, (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
need this pause, (speaks in a foreign language).
So like a question.
- Being very polite.
- Very polite, I like that.
- So our next one is, so let's say you guys had some drinks.
- You're talking.
- Talking about, you go for a meal.
Hey, can I take you out for a meal?
- Lunch, dinner.
- So it's similar like the one we had before,
it's (speaks in a foreign language).
- One more time.
(speaks in a foreign language)
- That's right.
(speaks in a foreign language)
- I'm gonna buy you a meal.
- Let's go and eat together, that's nice.
- Well, after you have a drink,
you have some food, well, it's time for some entertainment.
How about, "Can I take you to the movies?"
- Yeah, let's go for a movie.
It's almost a date now.
- So this one is (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
So instead of asking her, it's more like a suggestion.
- Let's go to a movie together.
Not like, "Do you wanna go to a movie?"
"Let's go to movie together."
- Exactly.
That means you got her.
- Let's call it some assumptive close.
(laughing)
- So I'll say it again, it's (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
- Well, the date has gone very well.
- Very well, you're doing good, you're doing good.
- So now you wanna ask, "Can I kiss you?"
- Oh, can I kiss you?
Okay, alright.
- This one is (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
Yep, (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
That's right.
- So you kiss first before you ask, or you just kiss?
(laughing)
- I think it depends.
- Sometimes you kiss if you see the mood is right.
But what about Chinese girls, do they like you asking?
Or it depends on the girl?
- I think it depends.
- If they're more conservative,
it's better to ask for permission, to be polite.
- But I want to say, maybe take her to those scary movies.
And then if she's inside like this,
you just kiss her (laughs).
But be careful, be careful.
- Otherwise, you may get slapped.
You don't wanna do that.
Yes.
- Alright, and our final line is,
"Let me take you home tonight."
- Oh, now you're closing the deal.
You're closing the deal.
Okay, can I walk you home, can I take you home.
- So this one is (speaks in a foreign language).
(speaks in a foreign language)
So it's same as let's go watch a movie,
it's not a question mark.
- An assumptive close, ask with confidence.
- Yeah, just say (speaks in a foreign language).
- So it's more like, "Let me walk you home,"
not "Can I walk you home?"
It's "Let me walk you home."
(speaks in a foreign language)
Those are the top 10 lines.
You can mix them up.
You gotta practice them multiple times.
Maybe watch this video more than once,
and you can see mei nv, (speaks in a foreign language),
in a conversation, can I walk you home,
can I take you to dinner,
you can use a lot of different lines.
But those are the top 10 lines that you can use
to pick up Chinese girls.
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how Chinese girls think,
and what they love and what they hate,
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