If this is what you want
Mm, come to Daddy.
Maybe you don't want that, maybe something like that.
Or you just want a man to really want you, then you are in the right place.
My name is Adam LoDolce, founder of SexyConfidence.com, where I help the 21st century woman create
a love life that she absolutely loves. I'm gonna teach you exactly how to make any man
want you. Keep watching.
Now, desire is a really trick thing and sometimes you really want a man so badly but you aren't
sure how to make him really want you.
So here are 3 very potent and powerful strategies that will make any man's heart melt, including
mine. So don't do this to me, because I have a girlfriend.
1. The first one is the use of physical contact.
By touching someone you're creating actually a lot of sexual anticipation as well as it
carries with it an added level of emotional connection in a relationship.
Little fun fact, but non human primates such as monkeys actually spend as much as 10 to
20% of their entire day just grooming each other, just touching each other.
So to put this into perspective, we spend an average of 20% of our day texting, email,
browsing the web, going on Facebook.
What about YouTube? Leave YouTube outta this.
My point is, imagine if we spent even a fraction of that time through physical contact. Guys
would be pretty pumped, I think you'd probably be pretty pumped yourself. Listen, men are
simply primates. We're all just primates. And we crave having that touch of a woman,
so put down your ******* phone and go touch a dude.
But not his **** unless you're in a committed relationship. Make him work to get that type
of touch.
2. Number two is be social. And if you're not in a committed relationship, be out there
meeting other guys.
There's a lot of research out there that shows that the fear of loss of losing something
is greater than the desire to gain something. So if he feels that he might lose you to someone
else, he'll be much more likely to want you. In economics this is actually called
loss aversion.
Basically what it's saying is that if I lost 100 dollars I'd be much more upset
than I would be psyched if someone gave me 100 dollars.
So what does this mean for your dating life?
No, don't pay men to be your boyfriend.
No matter how lonely you get, don't ever hire a gigolo.
What I'm actually saying is that there needs to be a potential to lose you. If he knows
that you'll always want him, you'll always be there for him no matter what, through thick
and thin, no matter what he does, even if he treats you like crap, then he's not going
to act. He's not going to want to commit to you, he's gonna go find someone who he
needs to work for, who he needs to invest his emotion and his energy and his resources
into. That's the type of person he's really gonna want to commit to because he's not
going to want to lose that person.
If he knows that you're out there dating, maybe meeting other people, he'll be so
much more likely to lock that shit down
And I'm not telling you to play games. You should actually get out there, meet other
people as well, because you're not in a committed relationship. So go out there, meet
other guys. Because who knows, you might just find someone better anyways who really wants
to commit to you.
3. Finally, be a little mysterious
If you're on a first date, you do not have to tell him your life story.
So then, oh my God, when I turned 9 you won't believe what happened.
A little mystery will keep him engaged and interested in the conversation, and he's
gonna wanna solve that mysterious puzzle that is you.
And, as always, don't forget to exude that incredible happiness in your life whether
you're with him or without him. Because if you're fun, if you're happy, if you're
positive without him being in your life, he's going to want to bring you into his life because
being around you will always be an incredible experience.
So if you're really ready to make a man want you and to connect with him on a deep
level, go ahead and head on over to SexyConfidence.com or you can click on this link right here where
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