For me, I'm like, "Is that brown guy good-looking?" My friends like,
"No, look at the white guys."
If it was an English person you'd just tell, it's not a problem.
You like, you love, but don't have sex. That's it.
I think so. I mean, you're writing off every other different culture
and religion just because of something
that you've been brought up with.
If you're, like, intending to, like, marry an Asian
because that's what your family wants
then I think it's different
compared to, like, if you just physically
can't see yourself falling in love with someone from a different race.
It's OK if you're white, it's OK if you're black,
as long as you, like, you're in love with each other,
you can communicate with each other, you have that understanding.
Someone told her you're going out with a white girl!
Someone said you had been seen being all deewana with a gori in London.
It's... It's not true.
Obviously I'm not with a gori or anybody.
I'm not with anyone, Auntie.
I understand that you can't help who you fall in love with.
I myself would be a little bit shocked
if you were with a non-Indian guy.
You know, there's cultural differences.
How would you overcome all of that?
I thought it was stereotypical.
I thought that's what people see on TV.
That's not now. Mm. This day and age, if you're with whoever...
If you're with an English person you just tell, it's not a problem.
I do agree when you say it's built in.
Like, growing up,
and when my friend's say, "Ooh, I fancy that guy, I fancy that guy."
You look straight towards the brown guy.
For me, I'm like, "Ooh, is that brown guy good-looking?"
My friend's are like, "No, look at the white guys."
I'm like, "Well, it's a bit different in my family."
What would you rather have? Like, an Asian girl who's, like, rude
or would you rather have a girl from a different background
who's respectful?
As her parents, we don't mind
that the girl or boy like the other community,
English or black or anyone,
but we wish they should be Muslim.
If somebody in our religion wanted to marry a Muslim,
what would you think?
Only lower caste but...
What, lower caste? As long as they're still Hindus, though?
You'd accept a lower caste but not a Muslim?
Why? Caste is caste.
Religion is religion.
I still want the things like going to Navaratri with your other half,
like, celebrating Diwali with your other half.
I want them kind of things.
Your grandson is married to an English girl.
You don't mind that. No.
She's a different religion, but you don't mind?
Yeah, because she's a good girl.
She's a good girl. Sensible, yeah. She's sensible.
What up everyone, it's your girl Superwoman.
All Indian kids know that you can
never ever introduce your parents
to someone you're dating
unless you try to marry that person.
Ain't no room for error up in here.
It's a calculated measurement.
The only compatibility test
my parents ever had was,
"This is girl, this is boy, parents agree, OK."
I think it's so funny and relatable.
If I show you my boyfriend, I have to marry him?
Yes. Yeah. Yeah.
Girl, we don't do the dating scene, though, right? Yeah, yeah...!
Like they would say, we style it out, it's a get-to-know.
Yeah. No dating.
I don't know if you have a boyfriend, but my granddaughter,
she told me Reianna has a boyfriend.
They try - I say, "No, no, no."
She start showing me her phone. Oh...
I said, "Who is this?"
I think he is Muslim or Punjabi, I don't know.
She says, "Oh, no, no, he is Brahmin. He is Brahmin."
I say, "All right."
Your caste.
In the future, if I do get to meet someone
and I do want to get to know them... When you've done your education.
My degree. Yeah.
After all of that. Yes, of course.
Ticked all the boxes... Yeah.
..and the next box is for marriage, yes.
And Mummy can help you find a boy. Yes.
Breathe!
Mummy can.
Yeah, you can. Thank you.
What about you and Sheena?
Did you tell your parents straightaway?
Well, before we got married, I went to her house.
Oh, this is a good one!
Let me tell you what happened.
So we went to Sheena's house, and everything was fine,
and there was a knock on the door,
and then she goes, "Oh, my Dinesh Kaka (Uncle Dinesh) is here."
I was, "Oh, OK." She goes, "Run upstairs and hide!"
For a girl, you have one boyfriend
and he becomes your husband, that's it.
Yeah, but why is it different for a girl?
Well, it is, isn't it? I think, you know... Why?
If your brother came home with a different girl every six months...
It would be fine. Yeah, it's like he's testing the water.
So, girls... He's, like, playing the field, but...
Girls aren't supposed to test the water? No.
Before that, you like, you love, but don't have sex.
That's it.
OK, Mum. This is true.
We are worried.
Yeah. That's why he, can do things and Reianna can't.
No... Is it cos you love me more?