- A magnet has the ability to both attract something
and also repel it based on its polarity.
Now you yourself have very magnetic energy,
if all you would do, is realize you're a magnet,
but also switch the polarity.
Because right now you may be actually repelling,
that which you want,
and you may be attracting that, which you don't want.
All that means is your inner magnet is flipped around.
And in this video, I'm gonna show you exactly
how to create that magnetic energy inside of yourself
by realizing it.
What made the difference for me
and then how my life has profoundly changed
since realizing all of this.
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Welcome back to another video.
My name is Aaron and I help people
expand their consciousness.
Now, in this video, I'm gonna be sharing with you
how to flip your polarity,
or understand that more in a deeper level
and also what constitutes of magnetic energy.
Now, this is what I really also want to help you understand
is that it's not bad to be polarizing.
You see the thing is, when a lot of times
we don't feel comfortable with who we are,
what happens is that feeling is projected
out and other people feel that.
So in essence, people feel what you feel about you.
Let's say that again, people feel what you feel about you.
I noticed sometimes if people have insecurities,
what they're doing is they may be thinking
about their insecurities and then in a way
they're tuned to it.
So if other people notice it,
they didn't feel that self-conscious.
But the thing is,
if you would become okay with your own insecurity,
then what happens is other people would feel that of you,
and it becomes more attractive.
And think about it,
when you're really being
the most magnetic version of yourself.
You may actually repel people, but that is a good thing.
Imagine repelling people
that you don't necessarily wanna be around.
Imagine you create magnetic energy and what you do,
like for example, imagine somebody realizes,
I know a lot of you that follow me may resonate
with my earlier childhood story
about how I used to attract certain type of narcissists
into my life.
Well, imagine you're attracting narcissists in your life,
because you believe that, that's what you deserve
that people are in that in your life
like that are trying to control you.
It's almost like a subconscious pattern
that you're not aware of.
Well, imagine you switch your inner vibe.
And what you do is you realize that you don't deserve that.
And you kind of stand up to that energy in a way,
or you ignore it.
And then your magnetic switched where you didn't repel them
from wanting to come around you.
Well, that would be a good thing.
So realize that becoming magnetic
is not about appealing to everybody.
Becoming magnetic is about being your true self
naturally repelling people that you don't necessarily
want around you or that don't resonate, or that judge you
and don't accept you for who you are.
And then on the other side of that,
then attracting people that do love you for you,
because you're being the most authentic version of yourself.
So just like a magnet, if you were to get a magnet
and push it towards another magnet
and the polarities were switched, it would repel.
You want to repel people that do not
and are not in vibrational resonance with you.
That is a good thing.
And remember, knowing that not wanting the
approval of people is a very attractive magnetic trait.
I used to be very focused on getting approval from people.
And because of that,
it was in a way externalizing my energy.
I felt like I was depleting myself
because I was trying to make everybody else happy.
And once I changed that, everything began to change.
People began to respect me more.
I started feeling more precedence out of my body.
And in this video, I'm also gonna share
with you that little technique that you can do
that has completely transformed my life
and helped me to become more magnetic.
So the first step to this is becoming aware of how you feel
about yourself and whether you're judging yourself
or you're comparing yourself to other people.
Because people feel what you feel.
One of the first steps you wanna do, is you want to focus
on really loving yourself.
I know it's cliche.
And when people say like, just let, just be yourself,
it's such like a statement, like how do I just be myself?
I don't understand what that means.
But it means just come with an inner acceptance
and surrender of yourself without labels.
When I let go of viewing myself as having ADHD,
I began to just ground myself.
It changed my self image.
When I let go of believing, that was a problem.
Then I felt more at peace with it than other people.
Also weren't judging me as much.
You see a lot of times the people that judge us
we may have an inner judgment that we feel
and then they're picking up on that.
So we can change it by becoming at peace with ourselves.
But magnetic energy is also
about not putting other people on a pedestal.
And it's about realizing your own worth.
As I've brought the awareness more back to myself
I've tested this.
Literally what I've done is I have done this exercise.
I'm about to share with you ,
walked around on hikes, been in public.
And I noticed a crazy difference
with how people respond to me.
And a lot of it is because I'm not seeking approval.
I'm not seeking, I'm not seeking what I used to.
I think I used to seek significance.
I think I used to seek like feeling special.
And now I just know that within myself, I just feel really
at present with like really at peace with myself.
And a lot of that came from this little exercise right here.
Let me share it with you.
So magnetic energy is directly correlated
with how much are you inside of your body?
Think about this, when you're in your own frame
you have magnetic energy, when you are
which means you're leading in your life.
Now I know sometimes you could say masculine energy,
feminine energy ,masculine is meant to lead.
So it's like you, you know, if you're a woman watching this
you might be like, well, what about me?
But in general,
when what happens is people put other people on a pedestal.
It, then depolarizes the energy.
And then what happens?
Other people feel that.
Now, remember if you treat someone like a celebrity
they will treat you like a fan.
So what happens is you put someone else on the pedestal
you are in their frame, they are calling the shots.
Now what you do is you bring the energy back to you
and you start realizing, what do I wanna do?
You start making yourself happy.
You start being yourself.
That's when things change.
So one of the most powerful things that I've been
doing is I have a shadow work integration coach
I've been working with for months now.
And it's completely changed my life.
And it's very simple.
Bring the awareness inside of your body
inside your hands inside of your feet, do a meditation.
Where, what you do is you look at a candle flame
you literally stare at a candle flame, and you then breathe
in and you feel inside of the body, you feel the self.
And then also you feel the separation
between you and the candle flame,
between you and the walls.
You start feeling in yourself
and as you feel more comfortable inside of your body,
and as you start bringing the energy inside of your body,
what happens is you create this magnetic polarity
inside of yourself.
And remember being in your frame
and in your body is the same thing.
Which means you're in your own.
You're like leading in your own life.
You're not almost at the whims of somebody else.
So see, this has been the biggest game changer.
So as I become more inside of my own body, everything
like I go out on hikes and stuff.
I go out in public
and I noticed the prior version of me was always thinking
about what other people thought was always projecting myself
out of my body.
As I bring the awareness into my body.
And I don't care whether people have, you know
say hi to me, if I walk out
on a hike or anything, it's like, because you don't need it.
You naturally get it
because you're filling up your own cups.
So instead of looking for approval on the outside
bring it to the inside
give yourself the approval and then be in your body.
So that you're feeling the separation
between you and other people.
And the separation doesn't mean you're focused on it.
And you're like judging other people.
But the separation means that you're feeling
like almost in their own container of your body.
And that has been a huge driving change
to how my energy has become so much more magnetic
than what it used to be.
Now, another component of this is two other parts
I would say.
One is,
are you doing what you're passionate about for a living?
There's some people that watch my videos that get kind of
like a buzz when they watch my videos.
Now it's because I'm in a flow state
I'm doing what I'm absolutely passionate about.
And if you're doing what you're passionate about
you are more attractive.
There's an energy to you.
That is just hard to put your finger on it
but you just feel this presence alive.
So are you doing what you're passionate about?
And if not, then realize that you can commit to that vision.
You can commit to that by starting to ask the question
what could I be passionate about?
What is a, you set the intention to figure out
what that is and watch what comes up.
And then you'll start to get a reflection
in your life of it.
But doing what you're passionate about is very important.
And then also letting go the degree to which you
can let go is the degree to which how attractive you are.
If you're not attached to outcome, if you're not attached
to other people, you are way, way, way more attractive.
And how do you do that?
Well, some of it also
I have an inner child like series or, or meditations.
If you wanna check that out
click the link below the inner child meditation.
Basically when you heal your inner child, you then realize
that a lot of this stuff stemmed from childhood trauma
or childhood experiences where you crave something
from your mom and your dad.
And then what happens is you started seeing yourself
a certain way, and then you crave that
from other people now.
So when you change that
and you start to heal your own inner child
then you won't crave things from other people.
You'll start feeling like you have your own cup filled.
Now, another part of this is a lot of, for me was, you know
this last couple months has been a very
powerful time where I've shed this whole nice guy complex
that I think I got from, you know, I got from my dad.
My dad's still a nice guy.
And a nice guy is a shadow because when you're really nice
it's not necessarily authentic.
It's saying I'm gonna be, I'm gonna ease tension
with you so that an exchange I can get validation
and approval.
And what I, that is very sexually depolarizing.
I became aware of that.
And what I did is I didn't begin to work with it.
Why is this here?
Well, you know, I had, I was, I had to be, you know,
a lot of times people pleasers,
which is also what a nice guy is
it comes from parent pleasing growing up.
And I had to be like that for my ex step-mom
who was a narcissistic and abusive.
So what happened is, as I started to become aware of this
I didn't saw that this actually isn't serving me.
This actually is giving me the opposite
of the results I want.
So then I started in a way becoming aware of it
the pattern I had, and as I became aware of the pattern
awareness is always the first step.
I then began to wire in a new value system,
that value system, whereas
before I didn't like tension, so I would be nice to people.
And at the expense of being authentic, now I am focused
on being authentic over everything.
So sometimes that means I'm blunt.
Sometimes that means I trigger people.
Sometimes that means I'm brutally honest with people,
but I am authentic and being authentic
has completely changed everything for me.
So focusing on authenticity, even at the exchange
of tension, and then also going into your own inner child
wounding because the inner child wounding probably
is what's either depolarizing you towards masculine
or feminine energy.
So if you want to be more feminine and you find you
have like a masculine shield up, that could come
that most likely comes from your inner child wounding.
So there's a meditation below that you guys can check out.
You can subscribe as well
to the YouTube channel.
I'll be sharing more videos on being magnetic.
And there's a lot more stuff coming there is also, yeah
that inner child meditation, which will help you heal
through this process.
So with that being said, let me know what you guys think.
Is there any hacks that you guys have for becoming magnetic
that you've noticed in magnetic people?
What are different qualities they have?
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