I'm gonna wear today I have to go away and I can't wear that that's gross
oh my word look at the stains on that
you know every other woman they have nice clothes I don't know why I can't
have fancy stuff are you serious like I'm gonna be seen in public in this no
way I'm the only one that has to deal with stuff like this not any other woman
has to deal with it it's only me everybody else seems to have everything
they want why can't I hmm are you kidding me then I'm sure I could wear
this was in 2002 I'm Way too fat for that well I'm guess
I'm gonna have to be seen in this because that's all I got I can't help it
I don't got no money and I don't got nothing
hey you gotta do what you gotta do oh how in the world am I supposed to work
like this
this is just ridiculous it's so hot out here
you know every year it gets hotter the winners are cold and the summers are
hotter I mean seriously what am I supposed to do nobody else has it like I
do hmm figures the waters not working only me
this happens to nobody else I mean come on who else has as bad as I do you see
the dents in my car I mean like who it drives an ugly car like this did you see
what neighbor Frank just bought he's got a brand-new SUV look at me nobody has
cars like ideal I mean look how they're dented and they're nasty my car is like
from 2004 it's like got over 200,000 miles on it I mean seriously
it drives something like this you've all been guilty of it
I mean seriously we all complain we all talk about the weather and talk about
politics and talk about religion talk about the neighbors and all they have
this and they have that talk about finances how we have the lack of talk
about how rich other people are we always complain every single one of us
how about driving in traffic come on everybody complains hey don't pull out
in front of me hey don't stop that way start this way go left go right she
warned you and shame on me it's human nature to complain and the more we
complain the more people complain around us come on you know the old saying
misery loves company it's true you around happy people you become happier
you're around miserable people you become depressed and miserable but what
if hmm just what if
Beth you were told you only have a few days to live
what would your perspective be then what would your outlook be hmm let's see
Hey well this shirts not too bad it's still got a lot of good wear in it
purple is my favorite color you top that off with a nice headband or
a scarf it won't look too bad oh my goodness this is a nice blue color
everybody says they like me in blue I think I'll wear it has a stain on it but
nobody's gonna tell you know what I did gain a little weight but who hasn't this
be okay to wear I think I'll do really great hey I'm really excited
hmm it's not the fanciest thing you've ever seen but you know what if I put a
smile on my face it will make things alright you know what the waters not too
bad we haven't had rain for a couple weeks but you know what this is really
helping me out I'm really thankful I has water
I've been another country I've been in Haiti in Jamaica poorest countries if
you ever want to find Haiti they don't have running water they don't have any
water you know what I'm gonna be more thankful for my drop of water that I
have now that you think of it all right my car has dents in it my car is really
old but you know what I have a car I have a car to drive I'm well enough I'm
healthy I can drive my car there's a lot of people who don't have vehicles they
do anything to have my car my little car is not too bad come to think of it so
what it is really warm is it really much hotter than the
husband last year and colder you know what every year in the summer it's hot
in the winter it's cold you know I should have been more thankful at least
I have fans and I have an air conditioner in my bedroom that really
makes it cool what was it like a great grandma's day they didn't even have fans
maybe I should have changed my perspective on things and not complained
so much because in other countries they don't have the things that I do they
don't have electricity how about all the soldiers that were in Saudi Arabia
Afghanistan Iraq they talked about how they had to be out in the Sun they
didn't have air condition how about the soldiers in Vietnam what was it like to
be overseas far away from home without any of the modern conveniences that we
do these days are we thankful are we thankful for what we have are we truly
thankful that we live in a country where we have all of these things at our
fingertips hmm
now that's something think about you know if you only had a couple days to
live what would be important in your life surely not what you wear and surely
not what you have and surely not what you own
none of this things would matter what would be important in your life
what would be important in my life with the sky seemed a little bluer with the
birds sing a little sweeter with the sounds be more distinct what our days be
a little longer where our days be a little shorter would we say everything
we wanted to say would we do everything we wanted to do what would we want to do
this week a very well-known youtuber was faced with that and she sadly passed
away
what can we learn from her story going from healthy to sick in a matter of
weeks what can we learn from it all yes we say our prayers for the family
and we're sad and shed tears but is that all there is to it do we just for the
moment feel sadness or does it change our life can somebody else's experiences
change our life that's what I'm asking you
here we go beyond a couple days and a couple weeks of the sadness I think she
would want us all to remember her and to remember life lessons I think she would
want us all to better ourselves and glean something from her tragedy it
opened my eyes this week of all the things that I'm so guilty of it made me
see things differently and my goal is to always remember those life lessons I
hope that's your goal at the end of this video I'm going to share with you the
last video her husband made he plans on continuing the channel and I'm asking
you guys to just describe as to support them she's the mother she was the mother
of nine children and she lost her unborn child as well this week now he's faced
with raising nine children on his own
we have to look outside our own little box in life and we have to think about
others and think about what others are going through and in turn our world to
seem just a little bit sweeter today we're gonna have a party aren't we