- The degree to which you can attract love
is in direct proportion to your sense of worthiness,
how worthy you feel about yourself.
The way people treat you is equal to
what you think you are worthy of being treated as,
the kind of money you make in your life
is a direct reflection of what you believe you deserve,
what you believe you are worthy of.
And when you change and you release beliefs
about yourself that say, you're unworthy,
you will allow in a flood of opportunities,
you allow in more abundance and more love than ever before
and in this video, I'm gonna show you exactly
how to do that.
I think it completely change your life
if you apply what I share with you, and it's changed my life
in so many ways these last three to six months
so I can't wait to share that.
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Welcome back to the video, my name is Aaron
and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now on this video, I'm gonna be sharing with you
the different ways you can let go of feelings
of unworthiness in relations to both love and abundance.
And what I decided to do is also just show you guys,
I'll go ahead and push this right over here
something like that, it's the definition of worthiness
is the quality of being good enough or suitability.
And the second definition is the quality
of deserving attention or respect.
Now it's interesting because you could in a way
say that worthiness has to do with value
and the more that you value yourself,
the more that other people then value you
because the way that it works, is we all have
an energetic field that goes far beyond our body,
and the way that we feel about us is within that field
and we have a certain filter to which we see reality
and then we go out into the world
and we project either that worthiness
or that unworthiness out to other people
and other people reflect back how we feel about us.
So that's why a lot of times in love people will say,
well, I don't feel worthy of being in a good relationship
or they won't understand why they attract people
into their life that are maybe abusing them
or not treating them that well
and it's because there's a sense of the reason people
put up with that is because they feel like they're unworthy.
It's reaffirming a self limiting belief
that says I'm not worthy and therefore it's in alignment
with their belief system and think about it.
If there was somebody that was treating someone bad
and someone had a high sense of self-worth,
they wouldn't put up with it.
But what happens is, if people are in a situation
where they are, you know, not feeling good enough
or not feeling worthy, they allow things
to happen longer than needed to happen.
This also happens a lot in dynamics with people,
let's say people are attracting somebody
that's emotionally unavailable.
They may put up with that for a very long time
and the one of the reasons, a lot of people
that especially have codependent patterns
and they feel unworthy is they do that
because they figure I don't wanna alone
and I'd rather have something than nothing.
So what they end up doing is they end up rationalizing it
or they end up saying, this is what I'm worthy of,
and that's why I also tell people in regard to love,
stop choosing people that aren't choosing you.
Now, the thing is with this whole thing of worthiness,
that's directly related to worthiness,
the thing that has completely transformed in my life
over the last six months to a year is I realized
how much of my unworthiness and really shame
was in my life based on childhood trauma.
And that's a lot of times what shame is
is shame is an energy that says I'm broken,
there's something wrong with me.
And then what happens is if we believe we're broken,
we believe there's something wrong with us,
what we end up doing is we end up finding more
and more reference experience of that
where people are reflecting that back to us
and then people can't really choose us
because we haven't really chosen ourselves
because we think there's something wrong with us.
We think we have to change ourselves
and kind of bend like a pretzel for other people.
So, when you look at worthiness,
look at the second definition as well,
the quality of deserving attention or respect.
How were you able to receive attention to respect as a kid?
Were you given that?
Were your needs met there?
Or did you have to change yourself
to get attention or respect?
And that's a lot of times where all of this stems
that stems back and childhood trauma
where we said, there's something wrong with me.
And here's something that I also,
and especially in regards to love, and by the way,
when it comes to attracting love or having magnetic energy,
the key is releasing the codependent patterns,
understanding you can become secure in love.
There's three attachments styles;
there's secure attachment, avoidant attachment,
and anxious attachment.
And there's ways you can become secure
if you're avoidant or anxious
and when you release these blocks, these patterns,
and you start to feel 100% worthy or incomplete,
you will notice a complete transformation in your love life,
in your life in general, and something
that we're gonna be doing starting on July 1st,
I don't know if you guys have heard about this yet,
so we're gonna be doing a 21-day magnetic love challenge
where thousands of us all over the world,
what we're gonna be doing is every single day,
I'm gonna be going live
and we're gonna be going over different parts
of having magnetic energy, how to release the blocks,
release codependent patterns, how to understand polarity
within masculine and feminine energy dynamics,
how to balance that out or heal the mom wound,
the dad wound, and it's a complete more magnetic you
in 21 days or less.
What makes this different than YouTube
is it's not just videos, there's actually things that you do
at the end of every video, you're gonna do some homework,
you're gonna do things, you're gonna post it
in a high vibe tribe group,
which is a safe container of people
where you can really vulnerably share
what you're going through.
So there'll be vulnerability challenges,
there many different areas of this
and I'm super excited for it.
If you guys join right now as well, there's two bonuses,
there's a bonus with my shadow work integration coach,
of which I've never shared on my channel before,
we're gonna be doing a live call answering questions
and going over a masculine and feminine energy dynamics
and how to heal the mom wounded and the father wound,
and then we have Mat, my friend, Mat Schaffer,
he is a dating and relationship coach,
we're gonna be talking about attachment styles
and how to become secure, and all of these live videos
from July 1st to July 21st will be recorded and put into a,
you know, where you can watch it later
if you're not able to make every single day's live,
but it's gonna be extraordinarily powerful
and you guys can join right now
at the cheapest price you'll ever see it
by going to AaronDaughty.com/love, l-o-v-e,
and you will get those two bonuses
if you guys join right now,
and if you guys do join, comment I'm in below
and let me know, what you're excited about
with this challenge.
So that's exactly what we're gonna be going through
is unrewarding feelings of unworthiness
so that we could start to feel 100% worthy, whole,
and complete.
Now, when it comes to shame,
one thing wanna realize is shame is what blocks love
and abundance from coming into your life,
abundance as well.
Because if you believe you're broken,
you don't believe you're worthy for abundance.
If you believe you're broken
then you don't believe you're worthy of love,
you don't believe you're worthy of people choosing you.
And the key to this is getting back
to your childhood and realizing if you had
an emotionally unavailable mom or dad,
if you had a parent that cheated on another parent,
realize that that had nothing to do with you,
that was their stuff.
As kids, we internalize environments of us growing up
and we think it has something to do with us.
Your parent's divorce had nothing to do with you,
it wasn't because you're not worthy,
it wasn't because you're not good enough.
I know that when I was a kid, I was one or two years old,
I know that my mom was going through a lot of stuff
'cause her dad passed away, not my mom's fault,
but it was me feeling alone and me feeling like
I was broken or there's something wrong
because I was seeing somebody
that wasn't attending to me the way that she was before
and then what happened, is when I was five,
my parents divorced, why did that happen?
'Cause of my brother and I, we make these generalizations
and then I had the abuse abusive step-mom
for seven to 15 years old, which also wired in
a feeling of not feeling worthy
and having that kind of abuse, it was like, oh,
I remember even after she left my life,
I continue to attract a woman into my life
that wanted to control me because I thought
that's what I deserved, that was my belief about women.
When I became aware of all of this, everything changed
and I became aware that my mom's and dad's
emotional unavailability growing up, that was their stuff,
not mine, it wasn't 'cause I wasn't worthy.
They're great parents, they're doing the best they could
and my mom also had parents
that were emotionally unavailable.
most of our parents, we can have compassion for
and realize that they're just doing the best they can
but when you realize that the shame has nothing to do
with you and even in relationships now,
imagine you just got out of a breakup.
I've seen, there's a lot of people going through
breakups right now, and I've seen people say,
well, what if this person finds somebody else?
If they find somebody else, it doesn't mean
you're not worthy.
All that means is maybe that pattern works better over here.
Maybe you're going into your work and they're not,
who knows?
But realize it has nothing to do with you,
do not internalize it.
Shame is identity-based guilt, is an action-based thing,
it's, I'm a good person, but I did something bad.
Shame is there's something broken with me,
and we're trying to find and fix our feelings of shame
by going into and trying to like change
the outer environment by having love,
by having all these things.
The key is releasing the shame by realizing
it had nothing to do with you,
and once you do, you can start to see yourself
as more worthy.
It's not like you have to say, I am worthy,
I am worthy, I am worthy, you just have to let go
of the shame, you have to let go of the emotions
that are keeping you within that bandwidth of information
and that's exactly what we're gonna be doing
on the 21-day magnetic love challenge.
So if you're in a relationship, it'll help you go deeper
in your relationship.
If you're single, then it will help you to become
more magnetic so you can attract love
and not just any love, love that is emotionally available,
healing the childhood routine
and the way that you relate to masculine
and feminine energy, that's what we're gonna be going over.
So, you guys are excited for the 21-day
magnetic love challenge
and if you guys joined, comment below,
let me know, like this video, if you guys like this video
and you want me to talk more about the worthiness energy
and how to feel more worthy, other than that,
I hope you guys enjoy this video
and as always peace, much love, and namaste.