yo gentlemen's game back so with all this social distancing happening the
only way you're probably gonna be able to meet someone right now is through
online dating now under normal circumstances I've always preferred
meeting girls in person as opposed to online dating not saying that it won't
work but I've personally found there's so much more factors you can control
when you meet a girl in real life to build attraction as opposed to letting
an online profile determine whether or not you're given a chance to say hi but
you have to adapt to the times and given that everyone is still on lockdown
online dating is more relevant than ever so in this video I'm gonna give you guys
some advice on how to optimize your online dating profile and then a few
tips on messaging her so you can start getting some dates lined up once
Quarantine ends keep in mind these tips apply to any dating app whether it's
tender bumble coffee meets bagel or hinge so first thing your profile it's a
brutal reality that online dating can be very superficial a girl doesn't really
have anything to gauge you on besides your pictures before deciding whether
it's a swipe right or left so making sure you have good pictures is
absolutely essential if you want to get matches on these apps and I know I'm
gonna get a lot of people who jump on the comment saying exactly it's all
about looks I'm ugly I won't get any matches yada yada yada look I'm not
gonna pretend that looks isn't a big factor but I'd also ask myself if I've
put in an honest effort to look more attractive through things that can
change like my fashion and fitness you want to take your profile pictures with
a nice camera a DSLR or something of that caliber a regular phone quality
picture ain't the best unless you're just naturally super handsome or
good-looking if you don't have a DSLR or something like that
maybe ask a photographer friends to help you out I suggest your first picture to
be a front angle headshot of basically your shoulders and above it's gonna seem
suspicious if you have 4 to 5 pictures but none of them is a clear shot of your
face it's kind of like how when you open a girl's profile and you notice all of
her pictures are just face shots from a certain angle and not including her body
it's gonna seem a bit suspicious right no one wants to get catfished so be
upfront so again I suggest using a high quality camera get a good haircut and
practice your smile if you feel like you have bad teeth or
something you can grin instead of smiling with your teeth out and if you
truly feel like you have an ugly face you can opt for a more zoomed out
picture where she can still make out your face but the main focus of the
picture will be either on a cool outfit or an awesome epic background which
shows her that you're fun I'd also spend some time editing the photos and playing
around with things like color saturation and contrast to make your photo look
higher-quality now for your second picture
I suggest either one of two things if you're in good shape definitely don't be
afraid to show it off a bit as long as it's not too douchey you can wear a nice
form-fitting white t-shirt but having a good body definitely adds a few points
so don't be afraid to use it to your advantage
here's a few examples if you don't have a good physique what I suggest instead
is the fun slash adventurous picture you want to show some of your personality by
doing something fun and unique that girls would likely find cool hello guys
sorry holding a picture of a giant fish that you caught doesn't count it could
be some cool travel picture or a fun activity you like this is pretty much
gonna be your personality picture again use a high-quality image if you have a
good body you can use the personality picture as your third picture oh another
quick tip having a dog or a puppy in your picture is an absolute hack when it
comes to getting matches seriously get any dog hold it up to you and take a
selfie or have someone take a picture of you playing or cuddling with your dog
girls go crazy for that kind of stuff well everyone kind of does if you don't
have a dog for your third picture I suggest taking one with a small group of
your homies or in some type of social situation long as everyone is dressed
cool this is gonna be kind of your social proof picture so let her know
your social you're a cool guy that has friends and here's a few examples I
think these three or four templates is a good place to start if you have no idea
how to take good pictures remember it's all about accentuating your best sides
now onto the bio I don't think you should overthink this so I personally
keep mine short and sweet there's no need to write a biography here or rants
about your favorite sports team or make a long list of your favorite rappers I
don't want to give you like templates or categories
BIOS cuz I think there's a lot of creative things you can do with it you
really need to say just enough to pique her interest which in combination with
your fire pictures should compel her to swipe right if you have some interesting
hobby or passion here would be a good place to put it or you can go with
something more witty and humorous truth is you can get away with a lot more
cocky and funny over-the-top attitude on tinder so don't be afraid to go bold
what you don't want to be is boring here's a few examples of witty funny
BIOS that are short and sweet I like them because they're fun and low
pressure now let's say you've applied all these tips and you're finally
starting to get some matches what do you text well I always suggest taking the
initiative and making the first move cuz 99% of girls will not do that unless
it's an app like bumble where they have to text you first
I always think starting off with some witty humor is a good idea
again it sets the vibe as fun and makes it a lot more likely she'll respond I
also suggest referencing something from either one of her pictures or her bio
herself most people but especially girls tend to be kind of narcissistic they
love talking about themselves in terms of actually holding the conversation
dirty sex I suggest to cold-read her meaning to assume things about her in a
playful way instead of just asking direct questions so for example instead
of asking hey what kind of music do you like just assume hey you definitely look
like you're into R&B I don't know why but I totally get the feeling you
secretly sing to yourself in the shower or something like that it's less boring
and she'll be impressed that you accurately guessed that she's into R&B
or she'll be curious as to why you thought that in terms of response time I
think this is a good principle to bear in mind for text game in general but you
want to make yourself available but not too available I personally will respond
like an hour or so after she texts back if she takes longer than an hour to
respond back then I'll do the same but not in some petty oh she took three
hours to reply so and now I have to take four hours to reply to show her I'm
dominant way but more like me realizing I have a lot of things I can spend my
time on and other girls I have as options that I'm not so invested in any
particular girl unless she's showing strong interest back lastly once the
conversation is going well enough as a new feel like there's been
enough rapport established then that's when you want to take the convo off
tinder to Instagram or whatsapp or something like that it solidifies you
more as a real person in her head as opposed to just someone on tinder you
don't want to keep the entire conversation on tinder until you get her
out on a date cuz it tends to make her more cautious and have a higher guard up
during the date she'll be looking at it like she's on a date with a stranger
from tinder instead of a normal person that she just happened to meet online so
that's it for today guys I think that should be a good beginners tip for
upping your online dating profile as well as some things to keep in mind when
you're texting your matches if you like this video do me a favor and comment
with some other questions you have about online dating again it's not my favorite
way to meet girls but hey logged on as a thing and there's a saying that those
who can adapt fail and next week I have something special planned so make sure
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