so what you're referring to is love is
a certain moment of pleasantness
if love is true
it will happen without an object
every moment of your life you must know
the pleasantness you must constantly
fall in love
with
everything and nothing
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it all depends what is your idea of love
first of all
if you fell in love with one woman one
bird one hand one tree
and something then your love is not
driven by anything you're just falling
in love
if continuously you're falling in love
only with women
that means your love is driven by your
hormones you better understand that
so what is
driven by something
you want to label it as love it is fine
you are not saying there is no love at
all there is
but what is true and what is not true
is not something that you decide because
of this you know because of what
happened or what did not happen
it is a question of how you felt
whether it ended up in marriage
then you realize it was not love
or
it did not end that way
and you thought it was true love which
was never realized it's up to you how
you want to handle it
but essentially what love means is
if if your physical body
becomes very pleasant
generally we call this health and
pleasure
if your mind becomes very pleasant we
call this peace and joy
if your emotions become very pleasant we
call this love and compassion
if your life energies become very
pleasant we call this blissfulness and
ecstasy
so what you're referring to is love is
a certain moment of pleasantness
now you believe somebody caused it
in you maybe somebody did trigger it in
you somebody did
stimulate that in you or inspire that in
you
but essentially it is your emotions
turning very pleasant which you call as
love
so
if love is true
it will happen without an object
if it's really genuine true love what it
means is you have made your emotions
very pleasant
whether a man is here a woman is here or
a tree he's here aunt is here elephant
is here is not the point
you've just made your emotions pleasant
everything that you behold you have a
certain pleasantness towards it that is
love
now this continuously one two three four
five all are women
it's driven by hormones nothing i'm not
saying is anything wrong with it
but you must understand the limitation
of it
so
if it ends up
in a permanent bond in the form of
marriage or whatever
then you think it's successful if it did
not you think it's a failure it need not
be so
i would be happy if you fell in love
with the
three billion women
and don't leave the other three billion
men also
if you fell in love with three billion
women it wouldn't be hormonal
it would be just love
i'm in love
with all the women in the world
and the men also
the ants also
and the very soil that i walk upon
the very tree under which we are sitting
right now
whatever you
behold you have pleasant emotion towards
that is love
and love is not about somebody it's
about you being pleasant truly pleasant
and
this is right wrong this that is not the
thing it is an intelligent way to exist
there is sufficient unpleasantness in
the world
however carefully you walk you will step
into something
when this is so you don't have to
manufacture your own unpleasantness
within you
only three times in your life if you
loved
i think you are a misfortune
because the rest of the time you have
not known that pleasantness within you
every moment of your life you must know
the pleasantness you must constantly
fall in love
with
everything and nothing
woman also included what's the problem
with them
because you cannot tie a bond with
three billion women you choose one
one is convenient
if you marry five
then you will find it's very
inconvenient
yes
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one is convenient
and above all
the reason why you tie a bond with
somebody is
at least with one person in your
whole life
you want somebody with whom
there's no holds barred
if you approach a new person always
there is a little bit of
you know
there's a little bit of war and games
happening
war games are happening with a new
person
with one person you want to relax
where you don't have to play games
at least with one person you want to be
in total relaxation that's the idea
why you want at least one person in that
is still you are not reached a point
where you are simply relaxed by yourself
with life itself
because you are unable to relax with the
whole
manifestation of life around you the
million manifestations of life around
you totally
at least with one person you want to
find that that's the idea of finding a
bond or building a bond
with that
so people who look beyond that are
people
they don't value relaxing with one
person because now they're able to relax
with just about anything
they are totally at ease with everything
in existence now they don't find the
need to make a bond where only one place
some relaxation happens rest of the
place you are war like always trying to
protect yourself one place where you can
keep your defense mechanism down
because only when you keep your defense
mechanism down something beautiful can
happen within you
and the need to protect yourself is gone
so the idea of
forming a unit
of family
and the largest
identities of community nation and
whatever else is simply to find a space
where you can keep your defense
mechanism down
and just
be in a certain sense of ease
because only in that ease the other
possibility
you find expression otherwise you will
be just like an animal constantly trying
to survive preserve yourself
so
love is seen as a possibility to go
beyond that instinct of
self-preservation
where you're not trying to preserve
yourself you're trying to offer yourself
to something or somebody
for that you don't need a person
you can just do it simply with life
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