What does a guy have to do to be considered amazing in bed?
Is it about lasting a really really long time?
Is it about some mythical hip movement only a few men know about?
Is it about being really talented and spelling out the alphabet with your tongue - if you
know what I mean?
The truth is that there is no one technique for all women, some like rough, some like
gentle, some like slow, some like fast, some like quick, some like long - Seriously, use
the same technique on any two women and one will love you while the other finds you mediocre.
Instead, the true key to being amazing in bed is understanding that for a woman, amazing
sex is 80% about whats going on in her brain.
A true god between the sheets knows exactly how to excite and titillate her imagination
in ways no other man does.
Great sex for a woman is largely about the whole EXPERIENCE and not as much about the
specific act.
Today, I'm going to share one of my favourite techniques for driving a woman wild - But
be careful with this technique because you'll likely awaken a sexual beast in her that you
may not be fully equipped to handle - don't say you weren't warned!
It's called the 'Sex Box' and, you should never try to use it the first time you sleep
with a woman as it requires a bit of trust on her end.
It is the most powerful around the 3rd - 5th time you sleep with her, but is also great
for long term relationships.
it works like this:
1) Find a small lockable box, a money box is perfect.
Empty it out, and make sure you have the key.
2) You want to fill this box with an assortment of items.
I recommend some or all of the following: Hand-cuffs, blind fold, headphones and ipod,
a feather, a piece of silk, 2 strawberries, a few bits of pre-wrapped chocolates, and
perhaps a small vibrator if you're comfortable with your way around one.
Put all these items into the box, and lock it up.
It should be quite noisy and 'clanky' if you shake it.
3) Organise a dinner date with her, and tell her you have something a bit fun organised
for the two of you, tell her you'd like to take complete charge of the night and want
her permission to do so.
When she gives you permission, set the tone right away by telling her something you'd
like her to wear on the night, something that accentuates a feature of hers which you find
sexy - Perhaps you could tell her you find her legs amazing and you'd love it if she
could wear something that shows some leg over the night.
The goal isn't to make her dress in an extreme way, rather it is to set the tone of you taking
charge for one evening and her getting into the submissive role.
4) Take the 'sex box' with you on the date, and place it visibly on the table - It will
obviously get her attention and she'll likely ask about it.
Simply smile and tell her that it's for later on.
When she pushes for more info, which she will likely do many times, just playfully tell
her to stop being so nosey and be patient.
This starts her imagination racing, it's creating strong anticipation.
5) When you get to the bedroom, remind her playfully that she has given you permission
to take charge, but that she can tell you to stop at any time.
With that, it's time to open the box away from her so that she can't peer inside.
Look her right in the eye and tell her 'Now, I want you to lie down on the bed, and strip
down to your underwear'.
Now would be a good time to turn down the lights a bit to set the mood and make her
feel more comfortable.
6) Take out the handcuffs and handcuff her hands together above her head - Tell her that
she isn't to move her hands at any time.
If she objects to the handcuffs, that's okay, just set them aside since it's more important
for her to feel safe - instead just tell her to place her hands above her head on the bed
and not to move them.
7) Next, take out the blind-fold and headphones.
Place the blind fold on her, and put the head phones over her ears with some music playing.
You have now removed her two primary senses which will greatly heighten her sense of smell,
taste, and touch.
It also greatly heightens her imagination and sexual anticipation as she has no way
of seeing what will happen next.
8) Now, you will take out any fabrics you have packed, like the feather and the silk.
Kiss her gently on the lips.
Then take the feather and gently run it accross different parts of her body.
Pay great attention to areas like the insides of her wrists and arms, her neck, her tummy,
and her inner thighs.
As you gently caress her with different materials, lean in and kiss that part of her body as
well.
9) By this point her breathing should be starting to increase slightly.
Kiss her again on the lips, a little more passionately, but not too much.
Take out the strawberries, and the chocolate.
Gently drag a strawberry up her skin from her tummy around her nipples, up her neck
and just under her nose.
Let her smell it, then let her take a bite.
Unwrap a chocolate, and let her smell that as well, but when she goes to bite it, pull
it away playfully, and kiss her instead.
This time very passionately.
Then give her the chocolate.
10) Remove whats left of her underwear, and start gently kissing her all over her body,
her legs, her arms, her neck, her tummy.
Sneak a quick kiss on her lips, but don't let her kiss you back.
At this point FINALLY I might start putting attention on her nipples, for a while, then
finally going down on her or using a vibrator.
But there's no rush here, take your time and let her simmer in desire for a while.
From here you can let nature run its course.
But the key is that you have created an intensely powerful sexual experience for her by fully
exploiting a woman's largest sexual organ - her brain.
That's a skill that most men never develop, but the few men who do, will always be remembers
as the great ones.
Go ahead and give this a try yourselves, let us know how it goes in the comments below.
If you would like to hear more of these techniques to try be sure to let me know.
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