(00:10): [inaudible]
(00:11): Why does something which seemed to have healed
surface again and again, how do we heal something forever and not feel any associated emotions?
Okay. So there are a couple of things that I want to address here in these questions. There
are a couple of, of misconceptions or myths about healing. That's really important for us to address
here in this question. The first one is that a lot of times people think that healing is something
that happens just once. So you find a wound, you discover that, you know, you have some kind of
past experience or trauma or wound that needs to be healed from the past. Whether it's the,
you know, for example, maybe you broke up with someone on there. There was some kind
of heartbreak. It doesn't just have to be trauma or things from childhood. It could be things that
were recent in your life. (00:59):
Like the breakup of a relationship, for example. And a lot of times people think that when they
identify a wound, they access it and they heal it. And then it's finished moving on and everything is
great and dandy, but that's not really how healing works. Okay. So healing works very much in layers.
This is why when this person asked this question, she was actually tapping into the energy of it,
which is it keeps surfacing again and again. And a lot of times we get really annoyed with this
particularity of healing, because again, our egos want to heal really fast. We want to get
things over with and move on, but healing works in layers. So the way that healing really works
on an energy level is I access a wound. I heal a significant part of it. Maybe, maybe I heal 50% of
it. Maybe I heal 40% of it. (01:48):
It's impossible to tell, but each time you access the wound, you're going to heal a specific piece
of it or percentage of it. And then you're going to move on with your life. And maybe a week later,
or a month later, or six months later, something in your outside environment, materializes, and
it sort of forces you to revisit, or it touches that wound, or it pokes that wound again. And it
comes to the surface again. And sometimes people get really annoyed that this happens, but it's,
this is actually the natural process of healing. What ends up happening is each time a serf,
a layer of that wound comes up to the surface to be healed. What you'll notice is that if
you're doing your healing work, if you're accessing those emotions and processing it
and just sitting with it and embracing everything, what you'll notice is that each layer of the
wound that you access moving forward, it's going to get less emotionally charged.
(02:41): It's going to get less painful to heal,
and you're going to be able to heal it faster. So what ends up happening is each layer you go into,
it gets easier and easier and easier until pretty soon the wound is gone. Indeed, it's going to be
gone at some point. I don't know when you don't know when, and there's no point trying to take
to the kind of, um, uh, just try and, and, and keep figuring out, trying to figure out how many
layers you have for the wound for the wound to completely disappear. There's no point in that
just, um, don't CA don't keep stock of, of how many times you've accessed the wound. Let it go.
Just keep it out of the mind and just remember that each time something surfaces of a specific
wound, all that means is that the wound is still there and it's not healed a hundred percent, no
need to get annoyed, no need to get frustrated. (03:30):
You just say, okay, this is the natural way that wounds heal. And I'm just going to heal
this layer that I've accessed right now, I'm going to heal it and I'm going to move on.
And then six months down the road, if you access another layer, I'm going to heal it
and I'm going to move on and you just keep doing it with this kind of carefree attitude with this
very lighthearted energy. And that'll really help you, uh, just, just heal the wounds. Eventually
you will heal the wound to its core where it will completely disappear or disintegrate. At least the
energy aspect of it will disintegrate. Okay. Now I want to talk about another
misconception. That was also in this question. So I want to talk about before we leave today,
and the misconception is that, uh, and the other misconception is that when a wound is healed,
there's going to be no associated emotions. (04:16):
It's all, it almost completely disappears from my life. I'm never going to think about it. I'm
never going to feel about it again. And that's a little bit of a misconception too, so you can
be completely healed from a wound, but you know, let's say six months down the road, you're having
a conversation or you're recalling that wound, or you're telling a story to a friend because you're
sharing your story. And when you tell the story of something that happened to you, you feel a little
bit of associated emotion still with, with that, with that particular experience in your life.
That doesn't mean that the wound isn't healed. Okay. So, so that's an important aspect. You may
always have a little bit of an emotional charge to the wound, even after it's healed. It's sometimes
in the majority of times, what happens is as the wound is healing, the emotional charge will
decrease decreased, decreased to a point where you may not have any associated emotions anymore with
that particular wound, once it's healed, or you may, it depends on the depth of the trauma.
(05:11): It depends on the significance of
the experience. There are a lot of variables here, but the point I wanted to leave you with is that
just because there's an associated emotion with that wound doesn't mean it's not healed. Okay. So,
so try not to get stuck with that. The point here is I think the most important aspect of it is even
if there's a little bit of associated emotion, that's fine. It doesn't mean it's not healed. And
the most important, I think, uh, answer to this question is that as you're healing your wounds,
you're just going to access different layers. At some point, you'll get to the core of the wound
and it'll finally be healed. But until then don't take stock. Don't keep a checklist saying, oh,
you know, I access that wound again. I haven't done my work properly. That's not true. You be
doing your healing work very, very well and still access a wound in different layers. You're the
best attitude that you can have is each layer I access of this wound. It's an invitation from
the universe to just heal another aspect of it. And then six months down the road,
there's another invitation from the universe to S to, to heal another aspect of this wound
until eventually the wound has gone. All right. I hope this helps see you soon. [inaudible].