In this video, I'm gonna be sharing 10 habits that make you hot.
That's 10 habits that are cute, attractive, or just really cool that you can do to feel
great within yourself and more importantly, stand out from other women and attract the
guy that you want.
These habits come from my recent interviews with men and also from coaching men and even
from my own personal experience, so make sure you stick around.
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Habits that make you hot.
Number one is a great walk and posture, so walking with your shoulders back, standing
with your chest out.
Not only do men biologically, notice this because it shows off your natural assets,
but it makes you feel great about yourself as well.
Walking with an upright posture has been shown by science to make you feel better about yourself
and to give biological feedback to your brain that you are awesome.
Men notice it, you'll notice it.
Always walk with a great posture.
It is incredibly attractive to a man.
Number two is listening and remembering to what someone says.
So what this really amounts to is being present in conversation and it is incredibly sexy
when a woman does this.
Most people, when we're talking to people, when we're making friends, we're kind of in
our own heads.
We're thinking about how we're being perceived.
We're not really listening that closely or caring enough about what the other person
is saying and when you remember names, for example, when you remember what someone says
to you, what a guy says to you, when you ask him, "Hey, how's that thing going that you're
really passionate about?"
He suddenly goes, "Oh my God, she was listening.
This is great.
I want to talk to her more."
Being present and attentive in conversation is a hugely attractive habit that makes you
hot.
Number three is physical activity.
Physical activity is a habit that makes you unquestionably hot and sexy and it is a habit
that will be as rewarding for you as it is for your future partner.
Not only does it reduce the risk of chronic diseases like some types of cancer, heart
disease, diabetes, blood pressure, cholesterol, all these amazing benefits.
It makes you feel great and improves your skin, which makes you hot.
It improves your mental habits, which is huge with my clients.
I always check if they've exercised, if they're slipping back into old patterns and perhaps
most importantly, it raises your energy levels and men love energy that that is what youth
is.
It's that youthful energy that comes through in young people and you can have that energy
at any age.
Physical activity is a habit that makes you incredibly hot and attractive.
Number four is having passions.
There's nothing worse than meeting a beautiful woman and realizing she has nothing to say.
As a man, I can tell you this happened too many times and while a man might be sexually
attracted to you in this instance, a woman with passions is the one he's going to connect
to emotionally and want to spend more time around.
Having passions means having energy.
As I say for the things you talk about, it doesn't matter what it is.
What matters is the amount of energy that you can show for it.
It could be knitting, it could be wake-boarding.
It could be literally barbecue.
It could be literally anything.
It's the energy and expression that you show for that passion that becomes the energy and
expression that a man can expect to enjoy in his life with you as a part of it.
For this reason, having passions makes you incredibly hot and attractive.
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Number five is being a touchy person, so being a naturally touchy person makes you incredibly
attractive to men.
Now, I don't mean sexual touch and sensual touch unless that's what you're going for.
What I mean is playful, expressive touch.
This is a punch on the arm.
This is wrapping your hands around the guy.
When you have a playful moment, this is pushing him away or pulling him in.
It's that playful touch, that flirty touch that men will really notice that makes you
incredibly attractive to a guy.
Now, I do work with a lot of empaths who sometimes struggle because they had an incident in the
past where they'd been a bit too touchy or perhaps to say the guy has taken their touch
the wrong way and they've had a little bit of trouble saying no.
So understand if that's, if you've had that experience, it's totally normal, but I would
say don't let a single incident dull your light.
Men are not allowed to have expectations unless you're actively misleading them and playful
touch will never be actively misleading someone.
So become a touchy person, playful, expressive touch, and you'll find it's a habit that's
incredibly attractive to guys.
Number six and this is one I might cop some heat for, but I checked it with every man
I know in many interviews and I kept getting the same answer, not wearing too much makeup.
This is a huge habit that makes you hot for so many reasons.
Number one, we feel like we can connect to you more.
If there is heaps of makeup on shore, there might be a beautiful physical person in front
of us and there might be heaps of sexual attraction, but beyond that, we can't feel like there's
a real human there to connect to.
It shows a, there's a wall, a lack of confidence in yourself that there has to be all of this
on there before we can see you and we want to see you, we want to see the real you.
Not only will this make you feel better and make men more attracted to you, it means you
have way less prep time.
It means you don't have to think too much, means you don't have to put so much pressure
on the date.
It makes everything more casual and real for the two of you to connect.
I hear it from men all over the place again and again.
Wearing less makeup is a habit that makes you hot.
Number seven is making great impressions on people.
My God, I cannot even tell you how attractive this is.
Whether you're out and about on a date and it's the wait staff or the people at the shops
and you just see the woman and she's just making this incredible connection or giving
this incredible vibrancy to the waiters or the person behind the counter.
She's being friendly, she's present in the conversation that's hot as hell or when it's
a more serious time and you bring the girl around, you bring the woman around to meet
your friends, to meet your family even.
And she just goes and does her own thing and makes this great impression.
Oh my God, that is attractive and it's hard for me.
I don't think I've found a man who says otherwise.
Being able to connect to those people around and make great impressions is a habit that
makes you incredibly hot to men.
Number eight and again, I might cop some heat for this one, but I'm okay with it cause
I kept hearing this from men again and again is offering to pay your share.
Now, what this really means from the man is it means we feel like we're not possibly being
used.
There is no intent to use here.
Now, I will say that most men I asked this to said that they would actually turn down
the offer.
They said, it's not that I want the woman to actually pay.
It's the offer that we are creating this equal partnership that is so sexy to be around.
Now, there is a caveat to this.
Sometimes the guy will take you on an unnecessarily expensive date and you're probably thinking,
well, Mark, I don't want to pay half of this $300 Mayo.
That is totally fair.
In which case maybe you could offer to buy an ice cream afterwards or just offer to pay
for a drink.
It's the offer that counts.
It's really sexy and it shows that you're wanting to contribute not just on a partner
level, but also on a friend level, which are the two elements that make up a great relationship.
Offering to pay for your share is a habit that makes you hot.
Number nine is playfulness and spontaneous play.
This is a habit that makes you unbelievably hot.
So many of us men are stuck in our masculine, rigid planning, logical mode throughout our
days and when we're with a woman is the one time that we get to experience our own proper
presence, our own feminine even and get to enjoy the sense of play and the more playful
a woman is, the most spontaneous she is.
Not only does it show us how to be present at the time, it shows us how to stop all the
thinking and get into feeling mode and just relax.
Being able to find play, whatever the scenario is one of the big things that I work with
with clients, which is you've got a great queen energy.
You're self-respecting, you have high standards and men can say that.
But are you fun?
Are you fun?
From the very first date, men are looking for that fun experience as well as the high
self-respecting one and being able to find play wherever it is in whatever little thing,
little adventure or run over to the playground, a little explore even just a fun cuddle in
some way or competition.
Being able to find that sense of play right from the get go with a guy is an incredibly
attractive habit to a man and habit that will absolutely make you hot.
Number 10 is sticking to plans and arrangements you've made.
Now, this isn't just a habit that makes a woman heart.
This is a habit that makes a man really hot too.
It makes everyone hot to say what you're going to do and then do it to do what you're going
to say and be consistent with it when you make plans, stick to them.
If you can't do a thing, let the guy know that the plans are still a maybe at this stage.
Again and again talking to men, they've said a woman that can be consistent with her plans
is sexy AF, and so is a man.
Now, I did have a bonus tip for you.
This is a bit of a cheeky one, but it is really sexy so it needs to be added in because it
kept getting mentioned.
Your bonus tip habit that make you hot is that if you stay the night and if you have
some fun, put on his shirt the next morning.
Wear the guy's shirt the next morning.
For some reason, this is just a habit that makes you really, really hot and attractive.
And I don't think I've ever been turned off when a woman has done this.
So those are the 10 plus one habits that make you hot.
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