hey everyone and welcome to top think today we're going to learn about 10 things women do
only if they love you now let's begin number one the royal we do you and your partner talk about
the future if a woman's in love with you she plans to love now and in the future so when she imagines
her life say 10 years from now you're going to be a part of it but how do you know when a woman
sees you in her future when you're talking about the future the word me changes to the word we
okay let's say you're talking about where you want to live in the future
you ask her so where do you want to live in five years and she says we should live
overseas or i see us living in a big city in both scenarios she's including you in her
future she's not just planning for herself she's imagining a life with you and that's a big deal
so listen for the royal we if she changes from me to we it's not just a careless mistake
she sees you in her future because she's falling in love with you number two extended interest
there's a big difference between love and infatuation infatuation comes quickly burns
brightly and then just fizzles away during that brief passionate period it may seem like she loves
you but it's not love it's infatuation so how can you tell the difference time think about how long
the two of you have known each other maybe you've been dating for a year maybe you've been friends
for decades because you've known each other for so long you've gotten to see the best and
the worst of each other you've gotten to know who your partner really is and you've built a
sturdy foundation of trust if you've made it this far there's a good chance she's in love
just think about it if she didn't like you she would have left already and if she was simply
infatuated with you that infatuation would have worn off a long time ago but she stuck around she
knows you through and through and because she knows you she's fallen deeply in love with you
just take a moment to think about the length of your friendship or relationship if you're picking
up romantic signals and you've done your time it's not just infatuation it's love number three
lovable quirks everyone has weird quirks some people snort when they laugh others have an odd
sense of humor our quirks make us different and unique but to most people they make us really
weird strangers aren't going to like your quirks even your friends and family may find your quirks
a little strange but if a woman loves you she'll find your quirks irresistible because your quirks
are what she loves most about you those quirks make you different from everyone else your quirks
make you who you are and she loves who you are if she doesn't mind your quirks then she probably
likes you if she actively enjoys your quirks there's a good chance she's in love number four
compatibility testing has she introduced you to her friends and family when a woman's in love
she wants to blend her social circles together she wants you to meet the people she cares about
most and she wants them to meet you many women want second opinions from the people they trust
what does her mom think of you what do her closest friends think of you their opinions are extremely
important to her she wants them to see exactly why she loves you and she wants them to love you too
but it's not just about your relationship she also wants to test your compatibility with the
people she cares about do you have the same sense of humor as her family do you enjoy talking to
her friends these are important questions for her to answer because you're going to see a
lot of these people if you don't get along with her friends that's going to be a problem if her
family doesn't like you she's going to hear about it 24 7. yeah it's a lot of pressure but meeting
loved ones is a critical step that many women take when they're falling in love so take it as
seriously as she does if she's introducing you to her family then you're not just some guy anymore
you're getting to know the people she loves most and that's a big step in the right direction
number five sticking around if she doesn't like you she won't waste her time on you she'll spend
her time elsewhere on work on hobbies or friends but if she loves you she'll find any reason to see
you she'll squeeze in as much quality time as she can even if it's not the most sensible option love
makes everybody a little irresponsible she's so happy spending time with someone she loves
aka you that she's willing to put her other interests on the back burner so how do you know
if a woman wants to spend time with you here's a common situation let's say you're on a date with a
girl you like you went to dinner walked through the park and had a really nice time together
but the end of the night is drawing near it's time to say good night in part ways but she
keeps finding reasons to stick around she's still there because she loves spending time with you
being around you makes her happy so she doesn't want to let go of that feeling quite yet
girls only do this with guys they love so pay attention each time she makes an excuse to stick
around she's trying to send you a message don't let that message fall on deaf ears
number six sprucing herself up when a woman's in love with you she'll try to look her best
she isn't satisfied with looking okay she wants to blow you away the moment you see her
so she'll invest time and effort into her appearance if she loves you she wants to look
perfect for you but that's not all because she has such strong feelings for you she gets extra
self-conscious she worries way too much about what you think of her you're more than just a stranger
to her you're the person she's in love with she cares about your opinion more than anyone else's
so when she walks into the room and blows you away don't let all her hard work go unrecognized
number seven total knowledge does she want to know everything about you women only do this with the
people they love when she's in love a woman wants to know everything about their partner
she wants to know where you're going she wants to know who you're spending your time with
and what you ate that day it's not because she's nosy or needy
it's because she cares about you she wants to know everything because she's interested
in every tiny bit of information you have to offer no one else in the world may care she does
sometimes her interest is just infatuation but there's an easy way to tell the difference
if she's infatuated with you she'll ask about everything and then try to change you but if
she loves you she'll ask about everything and leave you exactly the way you are because you're
the person she's fallen in love with and she wouldn't want to have you any other way
number eight romantic discomfort how does she act when you spend time together
is she calm and comfortable or awkward and giggly spending time with someone you love
makes you happy but it also makes you embarrassed uncomfortable and a little bit clumsy you start
tripping over yourself because you don't know what to do with this overwhelming feeling of closeness
when a woman's in love she starts doing and saying things she'd never normally do or say she'll spend
most of her time laughing she'll make stupid jokes and her walls will come tumbling down love throws
anyone off their game if a woman gets smiley and weird the moment you enter the room it's because
she's in love number nine top priority when a woman loves someone she'll go out of her way
to help them she'll do favors for them even if she's inconveniencing herself she'll make them
a priority in her life even if her partner didn't ask for it love has that effect on so many people
love drives us to do stupid over-the-top things for the people we care about we want to be useful
to them we want to treasure and spoil them we want to take care of them when they're feeling down
if she's in love with you you'll be her number one priority you may not need anything you may
not ask her for help but she wants you to be happy so she'll make sacrifices for you anyway number
10 true vulnerability most women keep themselves closed off they don't like to be vulnerable around
the people they like they'll carry this calm distant attitude and they'll hide anything that
might seem needy or emotional but if a woman loves you she isn't afraid to show her vulnerable side
she won't try to play it cool or hide her feelings because you two have connected on a deeper level
she's comfortable showing her real self around you that may mean sharing a difficult story or crying
over a frustrating experience but the key here is vulnerability if a woman lets herself break
down in front of you she doesn't just trust you she may be in love with you hey thank you
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