- In this video, I will share with you, my ladies,
five ways on how you can get a man to pursue you.
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So now about further ado, the tip number one.
Ladies, number one is make sure that he is showing interest
from the start, do not entertain men
that behave passive and expect you to chase them.
Or will throw you literally a bread crumb or a bone,
as they say, and expect you to bite on it and chase them.
Ladies, I mean, this is a huge turnoff.
When you are a female why would you want to date a man
that behaves passive like another female?
Just don't waste your time on this.
Reply to man that actually show interest,
pursue you, make you feel special,
well the ones that actually do something, you know?
Rather than sitting there looking all pretty
and waiting for their ego to be stroked.
And the funny thing, ladies, is when you will not
entertain these passive feminine men,
if they have any masculinity left in them,
they will get intrigued
and will actually start to come after you.
Number two, don't change if he is pursuing you.
If he is coming after you, do not change your strategy
because it means that you are doing something right.
So keep it up.
That's actually where a lot of women go wrong.
The guy pursues them, comes after them,
tries to impress them, charms the lady,
and then if he steps back after that to take a break
the woman usually steps in and takes the lead.
Ladies, don't step in if he's taking a breather
because he's thinking of some new lines to charm you, right?
Give him the time that he needs.
And obviously I'm joking here
but my point is, let him pursue you.
If he stopped, that's fine, keep yourself busy.
After he has his rest, takes space,
pulls away or plays some kind of game
where he's trying to get you to chase him,
if you don't know what I'm talking about,
check out my video right here,
how men try to get women to chase them.
Anyway, the point is, wait it out. Don't chase him.
If he's interested in you enough, he'll come at it again.
Number three, be nice and receptive,
but not in a way that you come overly too keen
and actually kill his pursuit with your eagerness.
Because ladies, even if he's texting or calling you first,
if your responses will be masculine, needy,
or will sound desperate or too keen, for example,
even though he's the one texting you first
you are the one pursuing him
because your words are more keen than his.
Before it's really important to know what to say,
how to respond so you sound feminine, fun and interesting
rather than desperate, eager or controlling, you know,
needy and even bossy.
Number four, what if you are in a relationship
and he doesn't text you first anymore?
Wait it out. Why?
Well usually this happens
when you are the one always texting him
because you are just too impatient or needy.
You just cannot wait, right?
And when you are the one texting him, first of all,
what is the point for him to text you first?
As he knows that all he has to do is just wait
a little longer and he will receive a text from you.
So what do you do if you set this pattern?
How do you break it?
Well, the answer is simple.
You stop texting him first and wait for him to do it.
And if it takes couple of days, and if you say,
"Well then he will never text me",
well then that's how much he truly cares about you.
And if he never texts you, well, why are you with him?
Number five, what if he always asks you out
at the last minute and also to just hang out
because he never really makes plans?
Ladies say this to me really often. He never makes plans.
I tell him all the time to give me notice in advance
but he never makes plans.
He still asks me out at the last minute.
He's just like that.
Now, ladies, why is he like that?
Well, because you are allowing it.
How are you allowing it?
By seeing him at the last minute,
by dropping your plans for him.
Ladies, try asking a guy to drop his plans for you.
What will happen?
I bet you he will either ignore the message or reply,
"Well, don't you think it's a bit last minute?"
Or will leave you on read.
And then you will feel so bad at asking him out
at the last minute, as you will realize
that it was imolite and that there is no way
that he will jump like a dog for your last minute request.
And if that's the case, why do you do it?
If he asks you out at the last minute, just politely decline
and don't see him until he asks you out in advance.
And ladies, the bottom line is if he is into you,
the day will come where he will finally do it
as he is not gonna have a choice
because you are not gonna accept anything less than that
therefore just be patient.
So ladies, these were my five tips
on how to get a man to pursue you.
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