In this video, you will learn the top 7 signs that your man has become emotionally attached
to you.
These signs are based on years of psychological research on adult attachment theory.
So, if you’re seeing these things in your relationship, you can be certain that he has
formed a deep attachment with you and sees you as his other half.
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OK.. on to the signs that your man is emotionally attached to you.
First let me tell you – if a man is emotionally
attached to you, it’s a big deal and means that he’s in it with you for the long term.
That’s because emotional attachment is much more than feeling close to you or connected
to you.
It actually means that you share a deep and enduring emotional bond, in which you both
seek closeness with the other and feel more secure when you are together.
It means that being together provides you both with a sense of safety and protection.
Together You feel a sense of belonging, comfort, reliability, and positivity.
In other words, when you are emotionally attached to someone, it means that you count on that
person to be there for you emotionally.
Now Of course we don’t get attached to everyone
we date….
But when you meet a special person that you really like and you start developing a relationship
with them, the same physiological systems that attach babies to their parents is hard
at work attaching and bonding you to your new partner.
And when a man gets emotionally attached to you, it means he sees you as his other half-
He sees you as his long term partner and significant other.
So, without further ado, these are the 7 signs that will let you know he’s emotionally
attached to you.
7.
He Immerses You Into His Social Life He wants to make you part of his circle of
friends.
He wants to meet your family and all of your friends, and he really wants them to like
him.
He makes an effort to get to know them and make a good impression.
At the same time, he also wants to immerse you in his life and for you to meet all of
his people.
A man does this when he feels so aligned with you and wants to be sure that his social circle
feels the same way, and vis versa – he wants to see how you feel about his social circle
– A man will only do that if he is that attached to you and sees a future with you
because untangling these newly formed relationships can be messy.
6.
He openly and naturally expresses his feelings for you.
He doesn’t shy away from talking about the way he feels about you.
And he makes you feel comfortable sharing your feelings for him.
He also communicates any relationship issues or problems with you while making you feel
comfortable in sharing your questions or concerns.
So he listens to your concerns with intent to understand what is really bothering you.
Lastly, he tells you when something is bothering him and doesn’t act out or expect you to
read his mind or guess.
So, He Doesn’t Play Games.
He never leaves you guessing about how he’s feeling nor does he act out to try to make
you feel jealous.
Now the first 2 signs tell you that he is
in the process of attaching to you… but keep watching because if you’re seeing these
next 5, and especially number 1, then you can be sure that he is yours for a lifetime.
5.
He wants to spend time with you, regardless of what you’re doing.
In other words, he wants to be with you even when what you’re doing is not fun..
When a man is attached to you, what matters most is spending time with you, not what you’re
doing…
So if he is there to help you when you have work to do….
If he is there to help you when you’re moving, if he is there to help you paint, you know
that he feels strongly about you.
Another example..
He will often go the 'extra mile' to help you with something — a project, a need,
an errand, etc.
Again... he just wants to be near you regardless.
Another obvious sign that he is attached is evidenced by the way a man touches you.
especially when we are talking about non-sexual touch, things like rubbing your shoulders,
caressing your arm, and stroking your hair.
When a guy starts to bond and fall in love, He will want to be as close to you as possible.
Even if it means your body heat makes him sweat bullets.
Being physically close to you is all that matters to him.
So If you’ve noticed that he is being a lot more physically affectionate, then it’s
a clear sign of his growing feelings and attachment
4.
He misses you when you’re apart.
When you are attached to someone, you yearn to be near them and you miss them when they’re
gone.
Now, that doesn’t mean you are constantly thinking about them to the point where you
can’t get anything done, because that would be an unhealthy obsession.
but thoughts of them aren’t far from Your mind.
Thoughts of them always lingers in the background.
Things remind you of them, for example, something happens and you want to tell them,
or you just feel a constant connection even when you’re apart.
Maybe He sends you funny things he finds online or links to articles he thinks you’d like,
or he’ll tell you about something funny that happened to him that he thought you’d
appreciate…
it’s a connection you can feel.
So, if he tells you he misses you when you’re apart, or he does things that show you he
misses you, he’s definitely attached.
3.
He consults with you before making big decisions.
He Makes decisions with you… in other words, he discusses his plans but doesn’t
like to decide without hearing your opinion first.
He Doesn’t assume that he knows best.
So decision making becomes cooperative rather than individual because you are now a joined
unit.
Couples that are loving and respectful of one another begin to consider not only what
is best for themselves, but also what the potential impact is on their partner.
As a team, you make choices together, especially big decisions.
And he recognizes the importance of being willing to make concessions to achieve the
common good.
2.
He is Not Afraid of Commitment and He makes the relationship a top priority
He tells you that he wants a committed and
official relationship with you.
So, he doesn’t shy away from having the talk or talking about the relationship.
And he makes you feel comfortable for asking about where the relationship stands or how
he sees your future together.
And he never makes you feel like you are impinging on his territory or freedom.
He is consistently showing you that he is
committed to making the relationship a high priority.
And I don’t mean just empty promises.
He not only lets you know you are a priority, he demonstrates it in his daily, even hourly
commitment to keeping the relationship healthy and thriving.
That means investing in a daily effort to stay tuned in and connected to each other.
So.. ask yourself.. are you the one who constantly has to reach out to him, or is
he calling, texting, and making plans with you?
Do you feel like the relationship is balanced and that it’s important for him to make
plans to spend quality time with you?
If so, then he’s showing you that you are a priority and he is attached to you.
1.
He Inspires the Best in You.
A relationship isn’t just about how you relate to each other; it’s also about
how the relationship affects you as an individual.
And, in a securely attached relationship, you feel like YOUR BEST self.
It never requires giving up your sense of independence and self-worth.
He does not suppress or distract you from your inner desires, Instead, being with
him inspires you to be better…and you do the same for him.
When you make each other better, that’s a sure sign that you’re in the right relationship.
That could also mean he sparks Passion in you and inspires you to reach for the stars.
He will be a catalyst to help you propel into the life you’ve always dreamed of.
In this relationship, both you and your partner have the potential to become the best versions
of yourselves, So, Ask yourself these questions.
When you’re together, do you usually feel empowered?
does he encourage you and believe in you?
does he support you in working on becoming a better you?
If you’re seeing that, then you have an attachment and love that could last a lifetime.
By the way.. I’ve also made a video that
explains the things you can do to encourage a man to get emotionally attached to you.
Click here to watch that video now.
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