Practice makes perfect! That is actually
not always true! Kris Krohn here, REITV.
and today we're actually going to be
talking about how you get into the game
of public speaking, how you do it well,
and if you practice the wrong things
enough the wrong way, you'll still
continue producing more of what you
don't want that's what we're talking
about today.
How do you improve your public speaking
skills? Some would say, practice makes
perfect. Not today on REITV. Kris Krohn
here, and what I want to do is share with
you some information so that you can set
yourself on a great trajectory to
learning how to master public speaking.
You know they say that, the greatest fear
that we hold is what? it's not death. Its
public speaking. There's this fear of
getting on stage and communicating in
front of people, and yet that for me seems
to be the common denominator that I
noticed and those who are the most
successful. Can you hold your ground and
present yourself? Can you share your
message? And yet, the disciple kind of
speaker you want be because, there's a
couple of different types. The first one
is what I call a "Keynote speaker". This is
someone who actually gets paid to get in
front of a group of people and speak, and
you got to do thousands presentations
and you got to get super, super good. You
got to get your memorized jokes, you got
to be funny, you gotta know interesting
facts, you got to know how to entertain.
And, I know some of the great ones out
there. Les Brown, who have had to speak at
some of my events or Dan Clark that gets
paid twenty-five to fifty thousand
dollars to speak at an engagement. And
the goal at the end of their
presentation is to inspire, lift, motivate.
You know they get paid? They get paid in
that check, and then applause from the
audience. But, there is another kind of
speaker. One that has a lot more autonomy,
a lot more possibility, a lot more
potential, and it's something that you
can break into a lot faster. And, this
is what we call an experiential
facilitator. There's not someone that
just gets up on stage and teaches
content. This is a human being that
actually knows how to interact with the
audience and create an experience.
So, whatever your topic is, whatever your
content is, you're actually inviting the
audience to do things with you that
leave them different by the end. I'll give an
example. Let's take a hard topic.
Forgiveness. Right, most people can think
of at least one if not more people in
their life that they either have a hard
time forgiving, or have no desire to
forgive. And, imagine an experiential
presentation 45 minutes long where you
deliver a message where, a front no one
wants to forgive that one person in
their life but, four minutes later they
experience the magic of something
experiential and actually have forgiven that
person. Their life will never be the same
again that puts you into the realm of a
mentor. Not just a keynote speaker,
someone that others want to continue
working with join your mentoring
programs and do more. So, this idea of how
do you become a great stage presenter?
Well, you got to start with, where do you
Want to set your sights? What kind of
speaker do you want to be? how do you want
to present yourself? and, what's the aim
and purpose? When I sit down with people
they, say I want to be successful business
I don't care what kind of business,
any kind of business, you've got to learn how to
present yourself. And, for me these days
people don't want to pay for information
The real big dollars actually come from
what? facilitating an experience.
Transformation. People want results and
so, I'm inviting you to become a speaker
that isn't just you know with a polished
presentation because, that's great.
That's, that's, higher than most ever hit.
but aspire to more. Aspire someone
that actually has the ability to develop
those skills. If you get a chance to come
out to one of our limitless
presentations, you'll get a chance to see
what experience or facilitation looks
like. and, going to an event like that and
other events are a great way for you to
learn. So, I'm going to give you two tips
right now. First one is, go to seminars. Go
to presentations, and learn what it is
you need to do. So, what do you admire,
what did you like, what did they say, how
did they say it, so in other words get
experience. Then here's the second thing,
Every single morning deliver a
presentation. Two or three minutes long
do it your closet, do in the shower, and
your goal is to do this, take something
from your everyday life that happened
already today and can you deliver it
uplifting upbeat presentation that
inspires people. I'll share one with you
right now. This morning, I got a phone
call. Phone call from a friend that got
shot last night.
I didn't even know if I wanted to shoot
this video with you this morning.
Because I was very overwhelmed and I was talking
with Nate I said, "Okay for her, I'll shoot
this video for this reason." Why would I do
that? To honor this woman's choice you
see this woman she wanted to become a
stage presenter. I was working with, I was
training her. In the last 90 days, she
makes such incredible progress that she
had planned her first real presentation
from this coming january she was going
to get on stage and she was going to
present a message. She doesn't have that
opportunity so I'll take this one right
now to let you know that you only have
one life to live. Live it as big as you
possibly can. None of us knows whether
we're going to die of old age, whether
somehow for some way some reason there's
a gun in her face. I almost drowned when
I was 19 years old every moment of life
is a precious gift. Use it to be loving.
Use it to be kind. Use it to uplift. Use it
to do something magical in this world.
Thank You Susan.
And for you, these two tips? they'll help
you do something today. Get out there.
Start observing. Come over to our
presentations. Watch masterful
experiential presentations delivered and
then practice your own and just start
doing it every single day.
My private play book on how to be on
stage and it's several pages long but if
you actually learn all the rules and
learn how to show up authentically, you
can do things that will not only change
your life but those around you because
you're going to learn how to master the
art of influence. We call it our
limitless mentor academy. And if you want
to be more successful at anything you do
where you're in the public eye even just
a little bit I want to invite you to
click the link below and inquire when
our next minute or accounting is comes
from three days as my guest where we're
going to be talking about the skill sets
that will take you quicker and faster where you want to go.