Uncle si back in the office and in this video I'm coming at you with a topic specifically
called modern women cannot handle high value men. Now there's a very big reason why I'm
making this style of video. Now, disclaimer, this does not go against anything that I've
said in the past. If you're new to this channel, I'm big on one thing and one thing only, I
firmly 100% believe men are the leaders in life. Men are the leader like if you're a
man, you're the leader of your own destiny, and you get to pick and choose how you want
this world to unfold. You know, in front of you, you can either be a taker, as one of
my favorites, Garrett white used to say you can be a creator. And if you're a man, I believe
it's every man's duty in some way, shape and form to create and mold this world the way
he would like it to be. However, today I named this video, modern women are not able to handle
true high value men. Now I don't typically do videos like this. But why I think this
is needed is because I find one thing completely broken right now in dating, especially with
a female's mindset of what they are entitled to. And that is the managing of expectations.
Now here's the thing in order for me to fluently deliver this content in order me through to
fluently educate you on my beliefs, but not only that, based off my experiences now of
having over 5000 men through my systems, through my programs, and through my portal, I've seen
some shit that I cannot unsee which means I've had to segment this entire topic today
into four categories. And you probably can't see the four categories yet but you're going
to notice my eyes shifting down to this computer so I can actually navigate this the way I'd
like it to now let's actually just dive into this because what I'm seeing in today's day
and age is the she can have it all mindset. In no way shape or form. I tried to put down
that mindset but I want to bring forth to the surface what women want what women desire.
And after I say the materialistic I'm going to really show you the inner belief on more
of a primal level why they desire it number one today all women they want a six to seven
figure per year earner. You see this time and time again especially as they creep up
in age they want a man who has status who has money now what this I'm not against that
that's good if you're a man I think you should be on your purpose you should be on your mission
you should have some status some success some money to you what this stems from no issues
desiring provisioning. She wants to be tended to it's very masculine when she feels as if
a man can just provide as if he can take care, right? She feels feminine, she feels safe.
It's nothing new. We've all known this. The second though, is I find that women desire
a lean and powerful physique and this is easy to imagine. I mean it's attractive to the
eye. If you're a man who's attractive to the eye shows you have good self care your back
is probably broad your shoulders are broad You look like you can physically fight you
look like you can protect this is going to turn her on. This is good for Reproductive
abilities. When you're attractive to the eye like that it shows Hey, if shit hits the fan,
you can probably be there. Once again nothing new. We know this that women are craving this.
The next is going to be charisma and charm. Another easy one to imagine women like a man
who has seduction and can appeal to her emotions. So she feels feminine and she feels safe.
Okay, these are basic things. But last but not least, this is the biggest one right now
what women are truly wanting, but they are not saying is a man with rock solid masculine
frame so she can actually get wet. Now you got to remember I've coached a lot of married
men I've coached a lot of single guys I've coached men on all levels of attraction what
I see time and time again is I have seen men who are multimillionaire businessman good
looking guys, they go to the gym, they're ripped. Some of them have even been on steroids.
Okay, say what you want. these are these are top shelf men. Again, what I've seen is these
men oftentimes get left in the dust for a lower value man, if he cannot turn her on
the way that she actually gets wet for this is just the fact nothing makes up for masculine
frame. When she senses an emotionally driven man who is attached to her he's bringing off
feminine energy and when he has feminine energy is going to be the most repulsive thing possible
to a woman. Okay, so this is the she can have it all mindset that today's day and age she
can have it all mindset is set to six to seven figures per year lean and powerful body charisma
and charm and masculine frame to keep her in check. So she feels like she can actually
submit to something. And if you get that last part wrong, the whole cookie crumbles. What
I'm noticing though from women, is the mentality constantly is what's in this for me.
How do I benefit? Where's the utility of this man as far as how I can get something or how
I can actually level myself up just by being with him. Now once again, I don't necessarily
think that's a bad thing. We all know that women want a high value Gotta have for 1000s
of years and nobody's going to change it. What really is grinding my gears slightly
is the misalignment and expectations of what it takes to not only keep a high value, man,
and I'm not saying keep him in the relationship, but I'm saying keep a high value man. Hi high
value, to keep him high value to ensure that even in this relationship, he stays high value.
Okay, I'm not Warren Buffett, but what I have done is I've built a seven figure per year
business. I've tended to my body very well throughout the years, and I've done my best
in my ripe age of 24 to become high value or I'm on my mission, and I'm trying to the
misalignment and expectation stems here. Things that high value men do not have first and
foremost is time. They don't have time to waste. And this is what women simply do not
understand without getting offended without getting up in arms or without feeling like
he's an asshole. Okay. The first thing is lots of time that mentors simply don't have
it. Because guess what, if you do want if you're a woman, and you want a six to seven
figure per year, man, what's going to happen is he's going to be needing to designate that
time in his business, he needs to designate that time and managing his employees, he needs
to designate his time to things that keep that seven figure per year business alive
and growing. Right, if he wants to maintain his CEO position, you better be damn well
sure that the majority of his time is going to be having to go to doing that task. That's
at any level. Unless, unless you're of the minute slim 1% that have generational wealth,
that's what you're going to be running into. So time is his biggest asset. But not only
that, a high value, man. Typically when he is truly high value, he doesn't like things
of his life to slack. He doesn't like his fitness going downhill. He doesn't like his
sleep off point. He doesn't like his nutrition off point. He's a healthy individual. So not
only does he have to take on all of the sacrifice to build his net worth or build his mission,
or if he even is a creator, to have the vision, the mission and the principles in the first
place. He wants to actually take time to manage his fitness and manage his lifestyle. And
as he manages his fitness, and as he manages his lifestyle, that's going to take time,
it takes time to do everything. It takes time to take your shit, it takes time to eat, it
takes time to shower, it takes time to make a phone call. And that man damn well knows,
every single time he is using that time to do a pointless task or something that does
not propel him on that mission. It's a sacrifice, and it's a trade off. Okay, here's what women
simply do not understand when he puts lots of time when a high value man puts a large,
large majority of time into a relationship. The things that made him high value tend to
suffer. Because everything requires constant maintenance, constant maintenance, constant
upkeep. So what are women bringing to the table today? If you are a high value, man,
what are women truly bringing to the table. Because you have to understand that the bringing
the wrong type of woman into that world can pick up that world a hell of a lot quicker
than bringing someone into and actually having success, your screening credentials have to
be a lot harder. Oftentimes women today, what they assume is if they can drop off what's
between their legs one to two times per week, that man is going to say satisfied, and that
man is going to be happy. And in actuality, what she's now negotiating with is that man's
time, she wants that man's time. She wants that
man's validation, that man's commitment that man's attention. But oftentimes, there's not
a whole lot being else brought to the table. Now that's great. If she wants a high value
man, and men out there, you have to be weary of women of this. It's great if she wants
a high value, man. But you have to understand that if you are a man who has high value,
make no mistake, it needs to be her job to support you on that mission. And if you do
not have a woman supporting you of that mission, in all ways, shapes and forms, this is going
to actually go down the road of negativity and go down the road of confusion and go down
the wrong have premarital sex, and it's going to up your world just as quick as it can improve
your world. It's all about meeting the right people. But what you have to understand is
things that make women high value is far different from things that make men high value. You
see men oftentimes don't care about the woman's financial success or status or career men
oftentimes are a lot easier to believe that please, they want a woman who's sweet. They
want a woman who's feminine. They want a woman who's fit, and they want a woman who's sexy.
And besides that, oftentimes what needs to happen is there needs to be a mutual level
expectation of what is expected. And what I'm seeing today after consulting with 1000s
of men is that the expectations are just a bit too high. Here's why I'm not necessarily
a fan of the red pill narrative of pump don't spin the plate for six weeks and then chase
a different or meet a different is because I personally believe men as high Values successful
men, we are builders deep down. This is why we build companies. This is why we build our
body. This is why we build our social circle. And this is why we build our charisma Make
no mistake, there is not one man in that boat that does not want to enjoy the fruits of
the labor of building something or building some sort of relationship with a high quality
woman that doesn't lead to something else. She he wants more with it. If he's putting
in his investment, he expects that to grow to something bigger, a deeper level of understanding
in the relationship or a rock solid family, something along those lines. And if you look
at the success habits of all of the multimillionaires and billionaires, that's what you're going
to see. Here's why I don't agree with that red pill narrative of just pumped don't chase
spin the plate and go to the next is because it's up to you as a man to change the narrative.
If you're needing women to bring something more into your life than just in the bedroom,
what you have to do is you have to verbalize it. And you have to be setting that expectation.
And oftentimes what you're going to notice if you have the balls even set forth what
you do expect out of a woman. Once she does understand that in order to be part of your
world, there has to be compliance or you do have options. That's when she starts to fit
the frame really quick. And oftentimes, even if she's up in arms and pissed about it, there's
no other opportunity except to follow. So once again, it defaults back to the men, which
is why we have to stop rewarding bad behavior. We have to stop rewarding women who cheat
on their boyfriends so we can sleep with them. We have to stop rewarding women on Instagram
who are promiscuous, it all defaults back to the men as the leader of the relationship
it is your duty to actually be a creator and really take on this world how you would like
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