- He keeps mentioning the other woman
every chance that he gets and you find it very annoying.
Well, I feel you, who wouldn't.
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So anyways, in this video I will share with you
the five scenarios on how to handle any conversation
that include the other woman in the high-value way
to increase your value and make his jaw drop.
So here comes the number one.
Let's see you are on a date, but he doesn't really know
are you really into him.
Do you like him a lot?
And instead of asking you he decides to use
another strategy, which is to test or provoke you
by trying to get a reaction.
The more you will fall for this strategy
and the more you will react to this
the more he will see that you care.
In other words, like him.
This might look all innocent and you might say well,
there is nothing wrong with that.
Now the problem is that by reacting to tests
and provocations you are reacting to his negative behavior
and whenever he will want to see do you care
he will just provoke you again.
But are there any other reasons why men mention
the other woman besides their reaction?
Well it could be that he's feeling insecure with you.
For example, maybe he finds you very attractive
and has no idea how you feel about him.
So he tries to show off that he has
many beautiful supermodel-like female friends
in order to show his value and hopefully get
some jealousy slash reactions from you to see,
do you like him back.
Try to ignore it because if you will not
it will give him a green light to keep looking
for reassurance in a negative way in the future.
Number two, he mentions a celeb
that he would sleep with at any point.
Usually men pick out a celeb that looks similar to you
to kind of imply that I'm attracted to you,
or he might choose a celeb that looks opposite of you
to imply that girl I may not be into you so much
and let's see will you dye your hair black to impress me?
And there are lots of ways women react
to these types of comments.
You may get upset, insecure, basically, you name it.
But I'm not gonna talk here about the low-value reactions
that but women do, instead, I'm going to give you
a come back that will...his mouth for good.
And here is what it is.
Instead of feeling insecure by looking at this woman
and comparing yourself to her, say this.
Oh no, poor girl, I feel so sorry for her.
It must be so hard knowing that men look at you
as a tool all the time, right?
Number three, if him talking about his female friends
all the time is starting to annoy you
or if he hangs out with them all the time
and he's finally asks, What do you think about it?
This is what I would personally say, but keep it in mind,
it is a risky thing to say.
And of course, if he gets very offended
you might lose a guy by saying this.
Yet at the same time, if you're losing a man
by saying this, well you are actually doing yourself a favor
and I'm not trying to be mean here.
But anyways, this is what I would say.
Well I'm happy that you have friends but the only downside
I think about this is that I personally like
really masculine men and I've just always been attracted
to kind of this type of guys.
And from my experience when men surround themselves
with too many females it naturally starts to bring out,
you know, a lot of feminine sides in the guy
which like after a while it kind of becomes
a turnoff for me personally.
You know it's kinda like when a girl hangs out
with a lot of guys people start to call her a tomboy.
And then observe him getting speechless
rather than you getting insecure.
Number four, back to celebs.
If he says, I have this friend who's a billionaire
and he has been dating and sleeping with the best women
on earth and he drops in the names
of the richest sex symbols in this world
while looking for your reaction.
Now if you are a bit on the shallow side, as he is,
this is how you will think.
Oh no, he finds that girl so beautiful.
He thinks she's the best, I could never look like her
and she's so rich and how can I compete with that
and does he say that I'm not good enough?
But if you are secure and confident and you have values
in place your response to him can be something like this.
Well, it kind of depends what you define as the best woman.
If the best for you as someone who is a sex symbol
and has money, then yes, of course these women are the best.
But if the best for you is someone that values
and someone who lives a meaningful life
than these women are not best.
And after you said it kind of leave it like that,
maybe go use the bathroom to give him time, you know
to kind of meditate on your words.
And I'm sure once you back after he'll change the topic
and will never bring it back up again.
Number five, reflecting back on number four,
these type of words such as talking about celebs
he would sleep with on a date should never come out
of the high-value man because it's such
a low-value thing to say.
For a high-value man to say such things
would be just simply too embarrassing
unless he is testing you,
Are you a high-value woman yourself?
Anyways, at the end of the day, no one is perfect.
Men are pretty smart, logical
and pick up things very quickly.
So I wouldn't say to ditch him, you can still
give him a chance and see what turns out out of him
after a few boundaries in place.
And to be honest, usually the boy turns out to be,
ain't that bad.
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